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With her outstanding acting skills, she starred in many costume dramas such as "The Legend of Zhen Huan" and "The Legend of Mi Yue", which perfectly reconciled the two important elements of word-of-mouth and ratings, and created a double peak of artistic and social value.
While climbing to the top of her career, she and the powerful actor Deng Chao joined hands to build a model husband and wife image in the entertainment industry, and their married life is happy and happy, which can be called a good story.
However, Sun Li's brilliance today cannot be achieved overnight. In her tortuous life journey, she has experienced the bitter years of poor family and mother and daughter dependent on each other.
It is this past full of hardships that tempered her strong character of perseverance and never give up, which led to today's brilliant achievements.
In 2006, Sun Li was filming the TV series "Shanghai Tang" in Shanghai, and a chance street encounter made her unexpectedly reunite with her long-lost biological father Sun Hongyu.
The man in front of him, who was once heroic and mighty, is now haggard and depressed, and only makes a living by sorting goods in a small shop. Time has mercilessly carved deep wrinkles on his face, and the former style is gone.
Faced with her father's bleak situation, Sun Li's heart suddenly swelled with endless resentment. The past flooded into her mind, and she began to reminisce about that impoverished childhood...... Her mother always used that unique Northeast accent to tell the difficult story of raising her affectionately.
In order to raise Sun Li, her mother worked hard in the mall during the day and worked as a cleaner in a wealthy house at night, and she was tired every day, and it was even difficult to walk, but she would rather bear the pain alone than let her daughter suffer the slightest grievance.
The source of all suffering stems from the contradictory emotional entanglement between Sun Li's parents. They often quarrel over trivial matters, and the sound of the quarrel echoes in the cramped rental house.
The father's love for his mother was perfunctory, acting frivolously and casually, and failing to shoulder the family responsibilities that should be due to him as a husband and father.
Finally, on a stormy night, the father resolutely left the mother and daughter, leaving only a meager living allowance of 2,000 yuan. Since then, the mother and daughter have been displaced and have to live under the fence of others, relying on their mother to work to survive.
Whenever she recalls the past years, Sun Li is always filled with deep pain and anger, and it is difficult to let go. At this time, her kind mother would always comfort her softly, urging her to forgive her father's past mistakes and cherish the good times in front of her.
Time flies, time flies, and many years later, Sun Li met her down-and-out father again. With her unique wisdom and insight, her mother guided Sun Li to let go of the resentment in her heart and regain the warmth of family affection.
Her mother affectionately told her, "Let the past pass away with the wind, and although your father made mistakes, you are still in blood." Don't let hatred cloud your otherwise good heart. ”
The mother then said earnestly: "Life is too short, you have successfully realized the dream of our mother and daughter and lived a happy life, why bother with the scars and shadows of the past?"
Mother's words were like a wake-up call, waking up the pure and vast emotions in Sun Li's heart. Yes, let the past pass, cherish the happiness in front of you is the most important thing.
As Sun Li's husband, Deng Chao has always had a deep understanding and tolerance for her. He patiently enlightened Sun Li many times, hoping that she could put aside her prejudices against her father and lend a helping hand to help him through the difficult moments in his life.
Deng Chao sighed: "In the journey of life, everyone will encounter troughs, and it is inevitable to make mistakes. However, what really matters is the determination to reflect and correct in order to be reborn. ”
"The bond between parents and children is eternal, and even if there have been conflicts, they are still closely connected. Deng Chao further elaborated, "I hope that you can accept your father with a broad mind and sincere love, and use kindness to heal each other's pain." ”
After all, life is too short, so why not let go of the mustard and join hands with your family on the road to reconciliation? Deng Chao's patient teaching warmed Sun Li's heart again and again, and made her deeply realize the power of forgiveness.
For the sake of her father's peace and contentment, Sun Li carefully chose a comfortable residence, and at the same time, she also took care of her younger sister, so that they could feel the warmth and love of the family.
After the profound teachings of her mother and husband, Sun Li was finally relieved! She made up her mind to abandon her resentment against her father for many years, and strode forward on the road of forgiveness and forgiveness.
Sun Li not only carefully selected and purchased a spacious and comfortable residence in Shanghai for her father, but also brought her half-sister from the countryside to the bustling city of Shanghai to receive education, giving the two sisters meticulous care and love.
Despite years of separation and estrangement, there will inevitably be a slight sense of strangeness when reunited. However, at the critical moment when his sister was about to give birth, his father's steproom gave up his rest time and guarded the hospital day and night, as meticulous as taking care of his own daughter. Sun Li witnessed this situation and felt a lot of emotion in her heart, it turned out that her father had always silently fulfilled his responsibilities as a father.
At this moment, Sun Li was finally completely relieved. She hugged her sister's young child tightly, tears filled her eyes, and her heart was full of strong family love. From now on, she will surely cherish this regained affection in her own unique way.
When Sun Li hugged her nephew in her arms and looked at the warm picture of her father and sister living in harmony, she felt unprecedented peace and tranquility in her heart. She knew that she had finally made the right choice, let go of her stubbornness, and forgave her father's mistakes, which was the road to happiness.
Tolerance is the golden key to happiness, and we need to learn to let go of attachments.
Tolerance is actually the golden key to happiness. In this world, we tend to lose ourselves because of past pain and hatred, and we have feelings of guilt and prejudice against our relatives and friends.
However, as long as we have the courage to open our arms and embrace the pain and hurt of the past with a broad heart, we will surely be able to regain happiness that shines like the sun.
Life is too short, and we need to learn to let go of our prejudices and embrace the world with tolerance and tolerance. Only in this way can we encounter the most sincere and pure happiness.