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(This article declares: This story is pure fiction, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence, please do not sit in the opposite number!)
Preface
"Mom, I said that I'm really busy in the United States, don't you have a sister taking care of you when you're hospitalized?
This is what my son said to me personally, and I have always heard them say that foreigners are impersonal, their feelings are very weak, and they are more selfish than the other. China, by contrast, is more humane, but I never imagined that one day retribution would befall me.
01
My name is Xiufang, and I just reached retirement age last year. I have two children, a son and a daughter, and a wife who loves me very much. I thought that my life would pass in peace and stability like this, but I didn't expect that now I am mixed up to the point where my children are not filial.
My family is in business, and when I was young, my family was relatively poor, and it was difficult for me to eat enough for myself, let alone raise children. At that time, I also met my wife, he didn't have any skills, but he was hard-working, which is why I married my wife.
My mother-in-law is not very good, so after getting married, we went to the city to start a business, thinking that our young couple would do some business, otherwise at home, sooner or later my mother-in-law would break up the home.
So my wife and I opened an oil cake stand in the city, and my wife got up at four o'clock in the morning, and then began to mix noodles and wake up.
When my wife and children were all cleaned up, they would call me up, and then I would go to work at the stall with him, and I would do the work when he spread the cake.
After two years of stumbling and stumbling, life is on the right track, and we start thinking about having children. Those two years were really hard for me, you may not even imagine.
Just because my first child was a daughter, my mother-in-law was patriarchal, and when she saw that I gave birth to a granddaughter to their family, she didn't even come to my house once.
I don't have parents, my parents left when I was very young, and I left a few of my brothers and sisters, and I couldn't count on anyone at this time, so I had to support myself.
My eldest daughter may have a sense of me, knowing that my life is hard and it is not easy to take her, so she doesn't like to cry since she was a child.
As long as you are full, you will lie in bed and play, and you will not cry or make trouble, and you will sleep when you are tired of playing. It saved me a lot of heart.
In this way, little by little, the child was pulled to the age of three, and in the past three years, our business has also been booming, and many big hotels will come to our house to order bread shreds, which makes my wife even busier.
Our husband and wife discussed, if it doesn't work, we will send the child to kindergarten, so that there will be a teacher to teach and help manage.
In fact, we don't have to go to kindergarten in a small city like us, if the family has no money, they are all brought at home, and when it comes to the day when it is time to go to primary school, then consider enrolling her in school.
And my eldest daughter went to kindergarten when she was three years old, she is really very sensible, other children send school to cry, do not get up in the morning, on the way to school all kinds of trouble. But my child is not, and the teachers at school keep praising her for being a good child.
I have a deep impression that there was a Dragon Boat Festival one year, we were very busy, other people's families were preparing small zongzi for their children or something, and our husband and wife were not free at all.
When I sent her to school in the morning, everyone took small zongzi to share with classmates, but my child didn't, and after I sent her, I said to her child's father: "Other children have small zongzi, I forgot to buy them for our child, you said how uncomfortable she was at school." ”
Maybe it's my wife's upbringing, and he thinks these are all dispensable, so he persuaded me that these are all trivial. I was happy to give her some money when I came back in the evening, and I didn't take it too seriously.
I went to pick her up after school in the afternoon, and when she was waiting in line at the school gate, she looked for me with her little head melon.
The moment he saw me, he was so excited that he waved to me with half of the small zongzi. I took her out after asking the teacher, and I was a little puzzled when I looked at the black rice dumplings.
"Baby, why are your zongzi black? Who gave you the zongzi?" I thought it was someone who gave the child's zongzi, and then she played with it.
The daughter said: "This is given to me by the teacher, at noon when everyone is eating zongzi, the teacher saw that I didn't have it, so he sent me one, I ate half of it, and I wanted to leave the remaining half for my mother to eat." ”
"But in the afternoon, the teacher asked us to go outside the classroom to play on the slide, and I was afraid that I would put it in the classroom for other children to eat for me, so I put it in my pocket. ”
Looking at the half of the black zongzi, I felt very sad and relieved, and the child had indeed grown up unconsciously.
02
Later, about two years later, I got pregnant again, and this time we asked someone to find out that it was a boy. We thought about keeping this child, a son and a daughter made up a good word, and our family was complete.
My wife hired a baker to sell cakes for the sake of the store's business, so I made a special trip to educate my two children.
After my youngest son was born, I seemed to unconsciously give all my love to my youngest son, and even owed my eldest daughter.
Because I was busy, I didn't have time to take care of the children, and I was negligent if I was a mother. And now that I have a son, I also experience the feeling of being a mother, so I am unconsciously a little eccentric, but I am definitely not patriarchal, but time coincided to make it like this.
When the two children were young, they did their homework together, and usually my sister taught my younger brother to study, and I only needed to manage the family's food, clothing, housing and transportation.
Until that incident happened, the two children changed inexplicably.
When my eldest daughter was in high school, she wanted to learn to draw, and I thought that wouldn't it be a complete delay in her studies? If she painted, how could she have time to study cultural classes, so I didn't discuss it with my child and gave it to her directly, who knew that my daughter would hold a grudge against me at that time.
At that time, my youngest son had an opportunity to be an exchange student at the school, and I also asked someone to find a relationship, so I asked my son for this place, and my son's study was also okay, so I went to Europe as an exchange student.
Since then, my daughter's attitude towards me has been sneering, and I feel that on her life path, as long as she wants to do something, I will reject it as soon as possible, and if it is my son's business, I will definitely support it with all my might.
I told my daughter many times that I didn't want her to learn to paint because I didn't want to give up the money, I really didn't want her to delay her studies. Later, our relationship gradually faded, especially after we got married, and we rarely interacted with each other.
Speaking of my son, after going on an exchange student at that time, my son liked the atmosphere of foreign countries very much, so he was admitted to a local school through his own efforts, and our family was really glorious.
Two children, a daughter married very well, and a son went to school in Europe, so I showed off for a long time.
Later, my wife and I were both older, so we thought about selling the store, and then the two of us could think about Qingfu at home, who would have expected that bad luck would come from this time.
03
Once my wife and I were out walking, and suddenly slipped and fell, who knew that it was directly serious to the comminuted fracture of the ankle. I fainted from the pain, and my wife remembered to call an ambulance to take me to the hospital.
People really put their backs up and drank cold water between their teeth, and after the operation, they saw their old wife waiting anxiously at the door alone.
I asked my wife a little lost, "Didn't any of the children come?"
The wife lowered her head and said, "My daughter is on her way here, and my son is far away, so there is no need to come back." ”
I thought about it, my son is so far away, just have my daughter here. Later, my daughter took care of me throughout my hospitalization, including going home to recuperate.
I asked my daughter, "Do you still complain about me? I didn't support you in anything in your life, and I didn't even get you a decent dowry when you got married, and I kept it for your brother." ”
The daughter shook her head and said, "Then what else can I do, you are my mother, he is my brother, who can I say?"
This sentence really pierced my heart like a pinprick, but it doesn't matter, my son is about to use the money now, don't I have to save it for him?
During my illness, my son didn't call a few times, and every time I called back, I said when I would come back and see the family. He also said that he was busy and had no time. I still thought how busy I could be, so I thought that when my feet were ready, I would arrange a family visit to Europe to see my son, and let the child take me on a trip by the way.
I hadn't told my kid I was going to surprise him before. When I landed, I called my son and asked him to pick me up at the airport now. When my son received the call, he said that he was on a business trip now, and complained about why I didn't tell him in advance.
After that, my son arranged for a friend of his to pick me up, and on the way I was full of curiosity about my son's life, and I asked him if my friend was busy with work here?
He said very suspiciously: "No, Auntie, we have nothing to do every day, we work ten days a month, and the rest is to run around and play!"
I asked him, "Then Xiaodong is very busy with his work, I'm a little worried about whether he's doing well." ”
His friend said: "It's very busy, it's a joy to run around every day, you are still worried about him, Auntie, we have a lot of places for him to run, don't you see." ”
As he spoke, he handed me his phone to show me my son's circle of friends. Only then did I realize that when my son didn't come home all these years, he traveled all over the world.
And I was stupid to wronged myself, wronged my daughter's consideration for my son, and even when I was sick, my son was still on vacation in Spain.
After knowing this, I didn't have much interest in playing outside, and after a few days, I yelled to come back!
I'm also confused now, feeling that I've been kept in the dark by my son all these years. After I went back, I divided the 200,000 yuan I had saved for my son into two parts for the bride price for marriage, gave my daughter 100,000 yuan, and kept the rest for ourselves.
I want to do this, my daughter will have a little confidence in her mother-in-law's family, so that she won't be said by her mother-in-law at the beginning.
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