Why would a cheating man secretly find his original wife behind his mistress after the divorce?
Will a cheating man regret divorcing for the sake of the mistress?
Most cheating men will regret it, but they will not necessarily continue to toss,
It is not uncommon to divorce and remarry with the mistress.
The really common situation is that men regret divorce and marry mistress,
I feel that the junior has changed, and my life with the junior is not as happy as I imagined.
So I went back to find my original partner, but not for remarriage,
Instead, he wants to develop the original partner into a junior, and enjoy marriage and extramarital affairs in parallel.
For example, a cheating man that Jiaxin contacted before,
He said that he felt sorry for the divorced original partner and wanted to compensate the original partner.
In fact, he wanted to make the original partner his lover and develop an extramarital affair.
When this cheating man and his original partner were married for seven years, he met a mistress with good conditions.
Xiao San is an acting school, and his personality is not gentle, but he can act,
Knowing that a cheating man wants to find an empathetic, gentle type of mistress,
So she has always been the image that cheating men like in front of cheating men,
Compared with the original partner who has been married for many years, often quarrels, and cheating men feel grumpy,
The junior is even more cheating on the man's mind, plus the conditions of the junior are good, younger and more beautiful than the original partner,
Later, the extramarital affair was discovered, and the original partner let the cheating man choose between marriage and mistress.
This cheating man chose a mistress and divorced by agreement with the original partner.
And in less than three months after the divorce, he and Xiao San received a marriage certificate.
Why is it easy for a cheating man to regret marrying a mistress?
Because Xiao San's purpose has been achieved, Xiao San will naturally not continue to disguise.
After this junior married a cheating man, he set rules for the cheating man.
Require the cheating man to hand over all his salary, and not have any contact with his divorced ex-wife.
If you give child support, the junior will get the cheating man's salary and put it into the original bank card.
The cheating man wants to see the child, and the junior doesn't object, but he doesn't let him take it home.
The cheating man is also not allowed to go to the original partner, to take the child out, or to the cheating man's parents' house.
These cheating men thought that the mistress was hostile to his ex-wife and children,
Guarding against the resurgence of his old relationship with his ex-wife, he also loves cheating men and is afraid of losing them.
So the cheating man didn't have any objections at first, and he listened to the mistress.
But the junior in the back has to inch in, not only asking the cheating man's attitude towards his ex-wife and children.
It is also required that the cheating man report if he does not come home from work at night,
and the daily life of the mistress, to care about the mistress, the mistress is a little dissatisfied, and he wants to cheating on the man.
The cheating man began to feel that the mistress was not so gentle, and even inferior to his original wife.
He regretted it a little, but this regret was really not enough to make him divorce and go back to the original match in the early stage.
So the cheating man is just secretly looking for the original partner, wanting to get some of the previous warmth from the original partner.
simply this original partner has a resolute attitude, and he doesn't care about cheating men at all.
The cheating man felt uncomfortable, so he came to Jiaxin, saying that he wanted to redeem it, but he had no intention of divorcing Xiao San.
Most women who are divorced by cheating actually have expectations for cheating men.
They felt that the cheating man was confused by the mistress and blinded.
Even if you divorce and marry the mistress for the sake of the mistress, when you don't have a good time, you will still think of the mistress's goodness.
So for the contact of a cheating man, I will still choose to accept it.
But this original partner is different, she doesn't accept the cheating man's overtures at all.
On the one hand, when the divorce was made, the cheating man unswervingly chose the mistress, and the original partner was very sad.
The original partner did not retain the cheating man, and finding out the extramarital affair was to let the cheating man choose.
Either they broke off with Xiao San immediately, and the two of them continued to live a good life.
Either divorce immediately, and the cheating man and the mistress love will be whatever they want.
Making this kind of request does not mean how decisive the original partner is, and the original partner thinks that the cheating man will choose marriage.
As a result, the cheating man directly chose the mistress, which was enough to break the heart of the original partner.
On the other hand, after the divorce, the man's attitude towards the original partner and the child,
At the request of the mistress, the cheating man did not contact the original partner at first.
Even for children, it is not indifferent, and it looks like it is avoided.
Even if the cheating man and the original partner said that they were both requested by the mistress, so what?
The cheating man is obedient to the mistress, and he ignores his wife and children who have been in a relationship for many years.
The original partner's heart will be cold, and when he has expectations for the cheating man, he will not take care of the cheating man.
The reason why this cheating man came here was just unwilling.
He thought that the original partner loved him, even if he cheated, for the sake of the mistress's divorce, the original partner should continue to love him.
The original partner should have guarded him after the divorce, and if he wanted to turn back, the original partner had to wait and accept it.
As a result, the original partner didn't care about the cheating man at all, and when the cheating man didn't exist,
He couldn't accept it, he was devastated, and began to find reasons from other aspects,
wants to make the original match what he imagined, Jiaxin just wants to say: It's quite beautiful.
In the end, Jiaxin wanted to say that some cheating men refused to be found out about cheating.
insisted on divorce, and was unwilling to pay attention to the original wife.
Although the cheating man is ruthless, it is a good thing for the original wife.
Because the cheating man wants to abandon his wife and children in his heart, if he doesn't pretend, his wife won't have expectations.
Wives have no expectations for cheating men and their previous marriages, so they can get out of the pain faster and start over.
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.