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The early 80s, before my dad was transferred to the army, was a time when business was booming.
When military personnel change jobs, what they yearn for most is business. If anyone is placed in a shopping mall, supply and marketing, he will smile and laugh, thinking that when he arrives at the place, he can show his skills and make a lot of money by taking advantage of the wind of reform. If you transfer to the public procuratorate, it is no exaggeration to say: such as mourning.
My father was in the cadre unit at that time, and he was in charge of the resettlement work, so he should have received a lot of scolding. I was also young at the time, and I had a vague impression. Some people think that their whereabouts after changing jobs are related to my father, but in fact, his position is similar to HR in the company, and what does the layoff interview have to do with HR, he is just a clerk who implements a certain decision of the company.
Perhaps, they also know that this kind of thing is not up to my father, but they are leaving the army, and they need to find someone to vent their emotions, and they are embarrassed to have a seizure with their superiors, so how much they disappoint the training of the army, and some may also be embarrassed to find my father, so they let their families come forward.
Many years later, I learned that an aunt had said strange things in front of my mother, as if her husband had not changed his career to business, but had gone to the public procuratorate, and my father had "harmed" him.
I asked: Then shouldn't they be grateful to my dad now? Those who have changed jobs to business and enterprises have pensions of four or five thousand at most, right?
My mother said, "People, how can there be front and back eyes."
Why were demobilized soldiers reluctant to go to the public procuratorate?
Perhaps, they assume that it is the department that offends people, and think that there will be a group of relatives in their hometown who need them to settle a lot of things. Or maybe the advantages within the system were not reflected back then, and everyone had similar salaries, and the commercial sector earned more.
My dad moved to the local area and worked in the commercial sector. Another uncle, who changed jobs at the same time as him, went to the industrial and commercial bureau.
"Troops" and "localities" are professional terms, and everyone who understands them understands them.
As soon as my family arrived, the unit arranged two bungalows, although it was a dilapidated warehouse remodeled, it seemed to be a little better than that uncle's house. As far back as I can remember, the family of five lived in a hostel for a long time, and the unit was relocated to housing.
At that time, judging from this alone, it seemed that my dad's unit was a little better.
Fortunately, my dad later found out that he was not suitable for business and transferred to his current unit. If you work in the company until you retire, now, the pension is only four or five thousand yuan, right?
Most.
There is also an uncle who transferred to a winery and retired as the chairman of the trade union, but he had a pension of more than 3,000 yuan, and he died a few years ago, and he may not have received 5,000 yuan in pension.
That distillery has long since closed down.
When that uncle changed jobs, he actually had the option to work in the system.
Man, who hath front and back eyes?
Although there is no distinction between high and low professions, and every job deserves respect and recognition, each profession is secretly marked with a price, which is reflected when you retire, and there is no sign that it will change.
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When our old family mentions something they regret, they often laugh at themselves and add: There is no front and back eye.
If you have a front and rear eye, you will have a better choice.
Reduce mistakes, don't take detours, know which stock to buy without losing money, exchange money for a house in the first 20 years and sell it three years ago......
When I bought a commercial house in 2002 or 2003, I only had less than 100,000 yuan in savings.
The total house price is more than 220,000.
Originally, I lived in the welfare housing of the unit, 72 square meters, and I bought it for 25,000 yuan after the housing reform. It's not impossible for a family of three to live, but there is no heating, and on the fourth floor, the environment is also very average.
I insisted on buying a new house. My mother was worried, and said once and again: Oh, it's not that you don't have a house to live in, it costs so much money, don't you worry?
At that time, I didn't know about my worries, and I didn't borrow money from my parents and in-laws. It seems that they are more open than outsiders.
I forgot that my friend L Eleven, who works in a bank, borrowed tens of thousands.
I also borrowed more than 20,000 yuan from the company, and I forgot the specific amount. It can be seen that I am really insensitive to numbers. I borrowed money from the company, which was collateralized by the financial management policy I bought, and the insurance expired at the end of the year, and the interest went to the company. I still remember the feeling when I borrowed money, I hesitated for a long, long time before I opened my mouth, and I was very embarrassed. In fact, I may not need to do this, and I may be able to lend it if I want to borrow some money to my boss, but I can't save face, I don't have that face.
There is still a difference of tens of thousands, which is the idea of the boss of my husband's company, maybe it was his guarantee and the loan in the name of decoration in the Agricultural Bank of China.
Loans and borrowings were paid off slowly, but I didn't feel particularly pressured. When I was still young, I had the heart and strength, and I knew that life was getting better and better.
Thankfully, she didn't listen to my mom back then. My mom didn't have an eye, and I didn't know that the house price had risen all the way since then. If you don't buy a house at the time, you may not be able to afford it later, let alone buy a second one.
Speaking of buying a house, many friends born in the 60s and 70s around me sighed. My friend once regretted not buying his own home, if he did, first, he could give it to his parents, so he didn't have to worry about going back to his hometown every week, and second, the house price had already doubled......
What about me. If you don't buy a house in Linyi in 2016 and use that money to buy a house in Qingdao, your finances will be more free than now.
Hey, there's no front and back eyes.
There is a saying that is very heart-wrenching. It's said that it's hard to make more money than you know.
Three
My husband has something that is hard to settle. Hitherto.
Whenever he quarreled with his father, he would quarrel until he shut up his father. Say that sentence: I was admitted to high school, but you didn't let me go to it! Are you out of money?......
The old man will shut up. I don't know if it's a conscious loss, or if it's speechless.
Today's parents, their children are not allowed to go to high school for the high school entrance examination?
You have to buy it for money.
That year, he was admitted to high school and at the same time to a technical school.
The old man didn't let him go to high school, and he was very tough: you have to go to a technical school.
He mobilized the head teacher of the junior high school to do work at home, but he couldn't do it, so he had to go to a technical school.
It's always a pity that I didn't get into a full-time university.
Why? How glorious it is to go to a technical school, learn technology, and be a worker. Big Brother Workers. We workers have power...... What's more, the technical school is next door to the family home, and you can go home after school at noon to pull out the door and cook a meal.
Does the old man have front and back eyes?
I advised him: Oh, aren't you fine now?
He couldn't be calmer. Said: It was not easy for me to get to where I am now. What if he had sent me to high school? I'd have gotten into college......
Well. That could be another life.
If parents don't know enough, they really shouldn't interfere too much in their children's life choices. Otherwise, you will be complained.
……
I can write a train about the front and back eyes......
To be continued.