Children's learning problems are the top priority of every parent. Because the level of academic performance directly determines the child's future career and development, no parent will be willing to relax on this issue.
However, when children are faced with the dilemma of learning, do not want to learn, cannot learn, are still very tormented, and want to escape, how should parents choose?
I think most parents may choose to let their children persist in persistence, after all, learning is a long-lasting process, only if you can persevere, can you keep up with the pace of learning and get the ideal results. In other words, most parents will keep their children in school and will not choose to take any other path.
What parents with financial strength can do is to ask a tutor to help their children study, make up for the gaps, and catch up with their children's lame subjects in addition to school. Because if you want to be admitted to the ideal high school or the ideal university, you don't allow students to be lame in their subjects, and they must balance their subjects.
However, there is now a parent who has chosen a different path than these parents. And this parent chose not to be ridiculed by other parents, and was angrily praised by parents, saying that she did the right thing.
This mother's child Xiaochao (pseudonym) had excellent grades in elementary school and jumped one level. Because Xiaochao studies very hard and is very conscious, his mother is very relieved of him. When he entered junior high school, he was admitted to his ideal middle school by his own efforts.
Although secondary school is ideal, it has a disadvantage, that is, the school is far from home. If you want to go to school, Xiaochao can only choose to live on campus. Because Xiaochao has never left home, his family has let him think about it for himself. However, because this middle school has excellent teaching results and is Xiaochao's long-cherished school, he is unwilling to give up, so he decided to go to middle school - live in the school.
When he first started living on campus, he didn't have time to see his parents, and he could only go home to reunite with his family during the winter and summer vacations. Four years have passed in this way.
However, now, Xiao Chao feels that he is about to collapse: the pressure of blood is getting bigger and bigger, and the relationship between classmates Li in the dormitory is complicated, which makes him very anxious, but he doesn't know how to solve it, plus his body seems to have problems, and he often can't sleep at night. He became more and more scared of being at school and wanted to escape. So, he left a message to his mother: Mom, I have lasted for more than four years. I can't hold it anymore, I can't do it anymore.
Listening to her son's phone call, with crying in her words, Xiaochao's mother did not hesitate at all, she quickly bought a plane ticket to the school, directly found the head teacher and the student department, and directly went through the procedures for Xiaochao to suspend school - my own child can only be protected by myself, I just want my son to be healthy and safe, I don't care if he earns 4,000 or 6,000 in the future.
Judging from the communication between the mother and Xiaochao, the communication between the mother and the child should be unimpeded, and the two parties are frank and full of trust. It is precisely because of this that Xiaochao dared to tell his mother the predicament he encountered without reservation when he couldn't hold on, and the mother was able to know the child's ideological trends at the first time, and decisively made her own decisions and suspended the child from school.
As for why he wants to suspend his child from school, his thoughts are probably shared by all parents: I have figured it out, giving birth to a child is not to make him suffer, I just wanted him to be happy before giving birth to him, otherwise why did I bring my baby to this world?
Of course, the mother took her child off school and went home, and she did not leave behind the child's homework, she hired a private tutor to teach the child. She thinks that this kind of learning lifestyle is not bad, a lot of time can be arranged by herself, the child goes to class as usual, the study is not left behind, she can even walk a dog after class, she can also do sports after school, and go to outdoor travel during the holidays. She said that the child used to run as hard as he could, and now it's good to slow down.
Netizens saw it and left messages:
"Blessed are the children, you are a good mother";
"I was very moved to see it, the child must be very tired and hard-working, and you also gave a full sense of security";
"I'm so envious, if it were my mother, it would only make me strong, and insist on stuffing me into the dormitory"
"Good mother, it's a pity that many ordinary families can't afford to have a dead end, I believe that no adult wants to make their children unhappy, but they don't have the capital to gamble. ”
"It's not about money, it's about the heart, the children are anxious about it, and they have to make a choice. ”
Indeed, few families can afford to hire a private tutor, and Xiaochao's mother is the same. She also said this problem in her response: the family conditions are really good, but after a long time, it is almost unbearable, and now it is the whole family to help the child tide over the difficulties, usually not only to accompany the child to study, but also to take the child to the hospital for examination every week.
As far as this issue is concerned, netizens are right, that is, when children are in trouble, what they want is the hearts of parents, compared to academics, children's health is the most important, and nothing is more important than children's health. Therefore, the author is fully in favor of Xiaochao's mother's choice.
When children are overwhelmed, we as parents must stand up and give them the strongest support so that they can survive the most difficult times, which is the most important thing.
Dear readers, what do you want to say about the fact that the child is almost unbearable, and the parents immediately suspend him from school and ask for private tutoring?
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