"I always ask for you, but I never say thank you, until I grow up, I understand that you are not easy. However, in their youth, how many children can truly understand their father's hardships?
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On May 4, a video caused a heated discussion on the Internet. In the video, a father is on his knees, and the reason for all this is that his daughter wants an Apple 15 phone, but he doesn't have enough money to fulfill this wish. The father knelt on the ground and blamed herself, while the daughter felt that her father's actions had made her lose face in front of everyone, and she kept yelling loudly trying to pull her father up.
According to the photographer, he quietly observed the father and daughter for five minutes, and the moment he saw his father kneeling, he had mixed feelings in his heart and almost wanted to step forward to comfort the father.
The girl, who looked like a high school student, couldn't help but sigh at her behavior. Her indifference and incomprehension of her father are heartbreaking. She only cares about her own vanity, but ignores her father's inner struggle.
Netizens hotly discussed:
"The problem of education, when you were a child, you could not be satisfied with what you wanted, and when you grow up"
"What you plant is what you get, children can not become talents, but they must be adults"
"The father's behavior will only make the child more and more inferior, it is not terrible to have no money, but it is terrible to be mentally barren"
"If it's my child, it's him who kneels"
This father, who knelt on the ground, was not begging his daughter to give up her phone, but blaming himself for not being able to give her a better life. Every father wants his children to live a carefree life, but the reality is often harsh. This father's helplessness and self-blame are the truest portrayal of his heart.
This is not only a microcosm of a family, but also a question that our society needs to ponder. The child's X pride and comparison psychology make the originally simple needs complicated. As a father, of course, he wants the best for his children, but loving them does not mean meeting all their requirements unconditionally. When children make demands that are beyond the family's ability, we should communicate with them openly and honestly, so that they can understand the actual situation of the family and learn to be considerate and grateful.
And this daughter's behavior is even more heart-wrenching. She didn't understand her father's distress, but felt that her father had made her lose face in front of everyone. This selfish, wayward behavior makes people reflect on the way we currently educate.
Parents are the guides of their children, and their words and actions will affect their children's lives. If parents spoil their children too much and make them feel that their demands should be met, such children are likely to grow up to be selfish, self-willed, and ungrateful and ungrateful to them.