Hey, family! Today, let's talk about a super hot topic -- getting married without regrets? Is that really the case? Recently, I have seen a lot of bitter experiences shared by netizens on the Internet, and it is really surprising! It turns out that there are so many things about marriage that we don't know anything about!
You say that today's young people, who has not had a beautiful fantasy about marriage? Imagine entering the palace of marriage with your beloved and living a happy life from then on. But the reality is often cruel, and life after marriage is not as simple as we think!
Some netizens said that after getting married, they found out that the living habits of the two people are completely different, and it is simply "Mars hitting the earth"! For example, one likes to go to bed early and get up early, the other likes to stay up late, one likes to be neat and clean, and the other is sloppy. These small contradictions, in the accumulation of day after day, gradually evolve into big problems, which makes people breathless. "I thought we could run in, but I didn't expect it to end up exhausting me. "How many people's voices are this!
Some netizens complained that they found out how much financial pressure they had after getting married...... The overhead is overwhelming. The former romance has become vulnerable in the face of the pressure of reality, "I used to feel full of love and water, but now I know that it is really not good to have no money!" This is really too real! ♀️ ♀️
What's even more heart-wrenching is that some netizens have suffered betrayal and hurt in their marriage. "I trust him so much, but he is with others behind my back", this feeling of being hurt by the people closest to me is really indescribable. This makes us wonder how important ♀️ ♀️ fidelity really is in marriage
Some netizens said that after getting married, they found out how difficult it was to get along with each other's families. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sister-in-law and sister-in-law...... All kinds of complicated family relationships can be a big head. "I feel like an outsider and will never fit into their house. "How many married people are helpless!
Hearing the bitter experiences of these netizens is really emotional. It turns out that marriage is not as beautiful as we imagined, and there are so many problems and challenges hidden behind it that we don't know. It's like an adventure, and you never know what awaits you in front of you.
However, family members, we should not lose faith in marriage because of this! After all, there are still many happy marriages. Perhaps we need to look at marriage more rationally, be more cautious in choosing a partner, communicate and understand more, and quarrel and complain less.
At the same time, we must also learn to grow in marriage, constantly improve our abilities and qualities, and deal with those problems that may arise. Don't be afraid of difficulties, because only after experiencing wind and rain can you see a more beautiful rainbow.
So, do you regret getting married? This may vary from person to person. But no matter what, we must be brave enough to face the challenges in our marriage and strive to make our marriage better. Because love is beautiful, marriage can also be happy, as long as we manage it with our hearts.
Family, what do you think about getting married? Come and share it with you in the comment area! I also hope that you can forward this article, so that more people can see these real stories and discuss the true meaning of marriage together!
Finally, I wish everyone can find their own happiness and have a wonderful marriage!