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I am the third child in the family, surnamed Wang. Our family is a traditional Chinese family, my parents passed away at an early age, and my brother and sister and I depended on each other. I'm 50 years old this year, and I'm still not married and haven't found a suitable partner. Although the family's business is quite passable, after all, I can't bear all the responsibilities alone.
On this day, I got up early from bed, made breakfast, and prepared to discuss some family matters with my brother and sister. The eldest brother Wang Qiang is a tough person who always has his own opinions on family matters, and his sister Wang Li is a gentle and virtuous woman, who is often a peacemaker in our family.
I set my breakfast and waited for my brother and sister to arrive. After a while, the eldest brother walked into the dining room with a serious expression on his face. The elder sister followed him with a grin.
"Good morning, second brother. I smiled and said hello.
"Early. The eldest brother answered, sat down and began to eat breakfast.
"Second brother, I have something to discuss with you. I said.
"What's the matter?" the eldest brother looked up at me.
"You know, I'm 50 years old, and we also need someone in our family to take on the responsibility of providing for the elderly. I said, "I think that the three of us brothers and sisters should have three chapters of the law, and each of us should bear a part of the responsibility of providing for the elderly." ”
The eldest brother frowned when he heard this, "What do you mean? Do you dislike that we can't support you?"
"No, second brother, I just think we should have a plan so that we can ensure that our life in our old age is not too difficult. I explained.
"And what do you think of the division?" interjected my sister.
I thought for a moment and said: "According to our financial ability, big brother, your business is doing the best, and you can bear the most pension responsibilities, sister, you are second, I can only bear a small part." ”
When the eldest brother heard this, he scoffed, "How can this work? I will support you two? Isn't this my own pension?"
"Second brother, think about it, I can't support all the responsibilities alone, we have to help each other. "I tried to persuade him.
"No, absolutely not!" the eldest brother patted the table and stood up, "I said, you two will listen to me in the future, I am the pillar of the family, I have the final say!"
I looked at my eldest brother and felt helpless. His strong personality makes it difficult for us to have a say. My sister just ate silently and didn't speak.
"Second brother, it's not good for you to be like this, we are brother and sister, we should be considerate of each other. "I tried to convince him.
"Can you manage it? You just don't be filial, thinking that I will support you. The eldest brother said angrily, "I don't think you want to live in this house anymore, you want to find a place to live by yourself, don't you?"
I listened to my eldest brother's words and felt a chill in my heart. It's not that I'm not filial, I just think we should have a reasonable arrangement to make the family more harmonious. But the eldest brother always uses his own will as a diversion, which makes people feel helpless.
"Alright, stop arguing. My sister finally spoke, "We are all a family, so we should discuss it carefully." ”
"What are you discussing? I have already said that I will retire alone, and you will listen to me!" the eldest brother finished speaking, and hurriedly left the dinner table.
I looked at the back of my eldest brother leaving, and my heart was full of helplessness. Family conflicts seem to be getting harder and harder to solve, and I don't know if we can still be as united as we used to.
Sister Wang Li looked at the back of her eldest brother leaving and frowned. She knew that the conflict in her family had existed for a long time, but each time there was no suitable solution. She took a deep breath and decided to try to ease the tension again.
"Second brother, you can't just be tough. She said to me, "We need to have a good talk, we can't always argue." ”
I nodded, hoping to find a suitable solution so that the family would no longer be conflicted by these trivial matters.
"I think we can discuss it again and find a plan that can not only meet the wishes of the second brother, but also take care of us. I proposed.
My sister smiled slightly, "That's right, we should be united." ”
We discussed it for a while and finally decided to take a compromise approach. My eldest brother bears most of the responsibility for the elderly, but my sister and I also have to do our best to make my eldest brother feel too stressed.
When we were about to talk to my eldest brother again, we found that he was already sitting in the living room, facing the TV in a daze. We crept over and I patted him on the shoulder.
"Second brother, let's talk about it again. I said.
The eldest brother turned his head and looked at us with a somewhat cold expression, "What do you want to say?"
"We wanted to negotiate a solution that would satisfy us all. My sister said.
The eldest brother was silent for a while, and finally nodded, "Okay, you guys talk about it." ”
My sister and I once again explained our thoughts to my eldest brother, hoping that he would understand and accept it. Although the eldest brother was still a little reluctant, he finally agreed to our suggestion.
"Well, since you all think so, let's do as you say. The eldest brother said, "But you must remember that you still have to listen to me in the future for major family affairs." ”
We nodded, feeling a little relieved. Although the family conflict has not been completely resolved, at least we have found a temporary solution to bring the family to peace.
Over the next few days, the mood at home seemed to be much better. Big brother is no longer as strong as before, but more willing to listen to our opinions. We also try our best to take responsibility for ourselves so that my eldest brother no longer feels so stressed.
However, just when we thought that the conflict in the family had been alleviated, something unexpected happened.
One night, as our family was sitting around the dinner table for dinner, all of a sudden, my eldest brother's cell phone rang. When he picked up the phone, his expression became a little nervous.
"What's wrong? what's going on?" I asked.
The eldest brother was silent for a while, then raised his head, anger written on his face, "It was your cousin who called, saying that he wanted to borrow money from me." ”
"Borrow money?" the elder sister looked at the eldest brother in surprise, "Why did he borrow money?"
He said it was because something was wrong with the business and he needed emergency money. "But I don't think he really needs money, maybe he wants to borrow money to spend." ”
"And what are you going to do?" I asked.
The eldest brother pondered for a while, and then said, "I'm going to go to him and see what the hell is going on." ”
My sister and I also thought this matter was a little strange, but we could only listen to the arrangement of my eldest brother. After we finished dinner, my eldest brother went out to look for my cousin.
After a while, the eldest brother came back, his face a little heavy.
"How's it going?" I asked eagerly.
The kid said that there was something really wrong in his business and that he needed to borrow some money to tide over it. "I wanted to help him, but then he said he was going to use the money to gamble." ”
"What?" my sister and I were taken aback, "he wants to gamble with money?"
The eldest brother nodded, "Yes, I'm also angry, I think he's too disagreeable." ”
Our family fell silent. We were so angry and disappointed by my cousin's behavior that we couldn't understand why he would do such a thing. This incident also exacerbated the conflict in the family again, and we didn't know what to do.
Our family was very angry and disappointed in the face of my cousin's behavior. The eldest brother is even more furious, he believes that his cousin's behavior is not only disrespectful to him personally, but also a betrayal of the entire family.
"This bastard boy dares to gamble with money!" The eldest brother slapped the table angrily, "I decided not to pay attention to him in the future, this kind of relative might as well not be!"
"But second brother, he is our relative after all, and we can't just abandon him so ruthlessly. "I tried to lighten the mood.
"You said it lightly, you didn't go to see him in person. The eldest brother glared and said, "His triumphant look is simply laughing at me!"
The sister also chimed in: "Maybe we can persuade him again to make him realize his mistake." ”
"It's useless to persuade!" the eldest brother shook his head, "This kind of person doesn't listen to persuasion at all, he will only think that we are meddling." ”
Our family fell silent. We felt very helpless and we didn't know what to do to bring our family back together.
A few days later, the atmosphere at home is still very heavy. The relationship between the eldest brother and the cousin is even more fraught, and we are all worried that it will lead to even greater conflicts.
At this moment, an unexpected news came that my cousin had been injured. It is said that it was because he owed a large amount of gambling debts, and the other party came to the door to collect the debt, and as a result, a fierce conflict ensued.
Our family was shocked and heartbroken to hear the news. Although our cousin's behavior makes us angry, after all, he is still our loved one and we don't want him to be hurt.
"Well, now he's the trouble he's incurring!" said the eldest brother, "I said he would be here today. ”
"But now that he's injured, we can't ignore it. The sister said, "We should go and see him." ”
I agree with my sister's statement, "Yes, he is still our family after all, and we can't give up on him because he made a mistake." ”
The eldest brother frowned, he seemed a little dissatisfied with the suggestion, but finally agreed.
Our family went to my cousin's house and found him lying in bed with his injuries not light. His face was pale, his forehead was covered with gauze, and he looked very tired.
"Why are you like this?" the eldest brother walked over, with a hint of reproach in his tone, "If you don't listen to persuasion, you will have today!"
The cousin listened to the eldest brother's words, lowered his head, and did not speak. The way he looks hurts our hearts and we all hope that he will recover soon and get back on his feet.
"Second brother, he is already injured, we can't blame him anymore. I said to my eldest brother, "We should help him and get him back on his feet." ”
The eldest brother was silent for a while, and finally nodded, "Okay, since you all say so, then we'll try our best to help him." ”
When my cousin heard our words, a grateful look flashed in his eyes. Our family decided to help him clear his gambling debts, while also helping him find a stable job so that he could start a new life.
Although there are still some conflicts and disagreements in the family, at this critical moment when my cousin was injured, we all realized the importance of family members. Through this incident, we have also learned more about the importance of solidarity and mutual assistance, and hope that in the future, the family will become more harmonious.
Over time, the conflicts in the family were gradually resolved. The eldest brother also let go of the resentment in his heart and began to care and take care of us more.
One night, our family sat around the living room, drinking tea and chatting. The eldest brother suddenly said, "Recently, I was thinking about a problem. ”
"What's the problem?" I asked.
"I feel like our family business needs to do something different. The eldest brother said, "Now the industry is becoming more and more competitive, and we can no longer do it honestly." ”
"What do you think?" asked my sister.
The eldest brother pondered for a moment, and then said, "I think we can consider expanding our business online." ”
"Online?" I looked at my eldest brother with some surprise, "You mean to open an online store?"
"Yes, I think the times are getting more and more developed now, and many people are used to shopping online. "If we can seize this opportunity, it may be able to bring new opportunities to our business." ”
My sister nodded after hearing this, "That's a good idea, we can give it a try." ”
I also expressed my support, "Yes, I think the online shopping market is very hot right now, and if we can do a good job, maybe we can have a good development." ”
The eldest brother listened to our words and showed a satisfied smile, "Then it's decided, let's work together to make our business to the next level!"
Since then, our family has started a new business plan. We actively learned about e-commerce, redesigned our products, and opened our own store online. Although we encountered many difficulties and challenges at the beginning, we never gave up, persevered in our efforts, and finally achieved certain results.
As time went by, our business got better and better, and the family conflicts gradually disappeared. Through joint efforts and cooperation, we not only solved the family's problems, but also started a new business. All thanks to the solidarity and mutual help between our family members, we are willing to work together to create a better future.
As the business gradually stabilized, our family's life became more comfortable. The atmosphere in the family has also become lighter and more cheerful, and the eldest brother is no longer so aggressive, but more willing to listen to our opinions. My sister and I have also learned to be more independent in handling some family matters and to balance our family responsibilities.
However, just when we thought everything was going to be smooth sailing, a sudden accident shattered our peaceful life.
One night, we were watching TV in the living room when we suddenly heard the sound of the doorbell. I walked over to open the door, only to see a strange man standing outside the door.
"Who are you, what's the matter?" I asked.
The man looked at me with a solemn face, "You belong to the Wang family, right? I am a doctor in the hospital, and your eldest brother has an accident and is now in the hospital." ”
When I heard the news, I felt a flurry of panic. I immediately woke up my sister and eldest brother and told them what had happened. We immediately rushed to the hospital and waited anxiously for the doctor's diagnosis.
The doctor told us that the eldest brother was in a car accident while he was out and was seriously injured, and he is still being treated in the operating room. Our family was shocked and heartbroken to hear the news, and we couldn't believe that something like this could happen to us.
Outside the operating room, we anxiously awaited the outcome of the surgery. Time passed minute by minute, and each second made us feel as long as a lifetime in the past.
Finally, the operation was over, and the doctor came out of the operating room and reported to us about the eldest brother's condition. Although the eldest brother has passed the dangerous period, his injuries are still very serious and require long-term treatment and rehabilitation.
When we heard the news, our hearts were heavy. The eldest brother is the pillar of the family, and his accident not only worries us, but also makes us feel helpless. We don't know what the future holds, and the only thing we can do is to do our best to support Big Brother and make him recover as soon as possible.
In the days that followed, we were united as a family to face this sudden challenge. We took turns taking care of my eldest brother and helping him with his rehabilitation training so that his body could recover as soon as possible.
Although the road to recovery was full of hardships and challenges, we never gave up hope. We believe that as long as we unite and work together, all difficulties will be solved. The solidarity and mutual support of the family makes us feel incomparably warm and strong, and makes us believe that no matter what difficulties we encounter, we can move forward and meet the challenges of the future.
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