Li Hua sat in front of the computer, his fingers lightly clicked on the mouse, browsing the profile on the blind date website. Since her husband died of illness, she has been living alone, and her children have started their own families, and she has felt more lonely than ever. She decided to give herself a chance to find a partner in life again.
"Mom, do you really want to do this?" asked her daughter Xiaoling on the phone with some concern.
"Yes, I want to try. Li Hua replied firmly and calmly.
"Isn't it good for you to live alone?" Xiao Ling was still a little uneasy.
"One person is good, but two people will be warmer. Li Hua smiled, she knew that her daughter was out of concern.
On a blind date website, Li Hua met Zhang Qiang. His profile reads: "Retired teacher, loves literature, loves to travel, and hopes to find a like-minded partner to spend the rest of his life with." Li Hua was moved by his sincerity and decided to send him a message.
"Hello, Mr. Zhang, I am Li Hua and I am also a retired teacher. After reading your information, I think we have a lot in common, I don't know if you would like to get to know each other?" Li Hua typed this paragraph on the keyboard, feeling a little apprehensive.
A few days later, Zhang Qiang replied, his words equally sincere and enthusiastic: "Hello, Li Hua, it's a pleasure to receive your message. I'm looking forward to talking to you more about it. ”
The first time they met, they made an appointment in a park in the center of the city. Li Hua arrived early, sitting on a bench with a copy of "One Hundred Years of Solitude" in his hand. Zhang Qiang showed up on time, wearing a clean white shirt and holding a bouquet of flowers in his hand.
"Hello, Li Hua, I'm Zhang Qiang. He smiled and held out his hand.
"Hello, Mr. Zhang, it's a pleasure to meet you. Li Hua also responded with a smile, she felt a long-lost warmth.
They started chatting, and the topics ranged from literature to life, from the past to the future. Li Hua found that Zhang Qiang was not only knowledgeable, but also very attentive and considerate. Zhang Qiang was also attracted by Li Hua's intellectuality and independence.
"Li Hua, I have a proposal," Zhang Qiang said suddenly, "Since we are all teachers, why don't we go to a teacher's party together, what do you think?"
"yes, I'd love to. Li Hua replied quickly, and she felt a new expectation.
As time went on, their relationship grew closer. By chance, Zhang Qiang invited Li Hua to his home for dinner. At the dinner table, Zhang Qiang suddenly shook Li Hua's hand and said seriously: "Li Hua, I want to spend the rest of my life with you, are you willing?"
Li Hua looked at Zhang Qiang's eyes, which were full of sincerity and expectation. She nodded, tears flashing in her eyes: "I do, Zhang Qiang." ”
Since Zhang Qiang proposed to Li Hua, the dates between the two have become more frequent and full of anticipation. They went shopping together, and Zhang Qiang always patiently accompanied Li Hua, giving her advice and helping her choose clothes. Li Hua found that Zhang Qiang was not only knowledgeable, but also had a lot of insights into fashion, which made her respect him a little more.
"Teacher Zhang, your vision is really good, this dress suits me very well. Li Hua turned around in front of the fitting mirror and said to Zhang Qiang with a smile.
"Hua, you look good in whatever you wear, I'm just helping you make a decision. Zhang Qiang responded with a smile, his eyes full of appreciation.
They ate together, Zhang Qiang always ordered Li Hua's favorite dishes, and his carefulness made Li Hua feel warm. At a gathering of friends, Zhang Qiang held Li Hua's hand tightly and introduced her to everyone: "This is my fiancée, Li Hua." Li Hua's face was filled with a happy smile, and she felt that she was cherished and respected.
After the party, the two were strolling along the park path when Zhang Qiang suddenly stopped and took out a delicate small box from his pocket. He got down on one knee and opened the box, which contained a shiny ring.
"Hua, I know it may be a bit sudden, but I want you to know that my love for you is serious. Are you willing to marry me and become my wife?" Zhang Qiang's eyes were full of anticipation and sincerity.
Li Hua's eyes flashed with tears, and she nodded movingly: "Zhang Qiang, I am willing." ”
The two hugged each other tightly, and the passers-by around them cast blessed glances. They began to prepare for the wedding, and Li Hua's daughter Xiaoling also rushed back from out of town to help. Although Xiaoling was a little worried at first, seeing her mother so happy, she gradually let go of the worries in her heart.
"Mom, I'm relieved to see you so happy. Xiaoling hugged Li Hua and said.
"Thank you, Xiaoling. I also hope that you will be able to find your own happiness. Li Hua responded gently.
The preparations for the wedding went smoothly with the help of family and friends, and both Li Hua and Zhang Qiang were looking forward to the beginning of their new lives. They know that, despite their age, it's never too late to fall in love.
On the wedding night, the room is filled with a warm and romantic atmosphere. Li Hua and Zhang Qiang ended the day's wedding with the blessings of relatives and friends, and at this moment, the two finally had time alone.
Zhang Qiang gently held Li Hua's hand and said gently: "Hua, you are so beautiful today." ”
Li Hua's face flushed slightly, she shook Zhang Qiang's hand back, and said softly: "Qiang, with you, I feel that I am the happiest person in the world." ”
The two looked at each other and smiled, and then Zhang Qiang kissed Li Hua's forehead gently. At this moment of warmth, Li Hua was a little hesitant, she took a deep breath, plucked up the courage to say, "Strong, we... Can we talk?"
Zhang Qiang was a little surprised, but he still had a gentle smile on his face: "Of course you can, what do you want to talk about?"
Li Hua's eyes revealed a hint of nervousness: "I... I would like to know, we will be in the future in... Do you have any thoughts on sex?"
Zhang Qiang was stunned for a moment, obviously not expecting Li Hua to ask such a question, but he quickly regained his composure and replied seriously: "Hua, this question is very important. I think we all deserve to be comfortable and satisfied. We can take our time and find what works for us. ”
Li Hua felt relieved, and she looked at Zhang Qiang gratefully: "Thank you, Qiang." I was just... I just don't want any misunderstanding between us. ”
Zhang Qiang held Li Hua's hand and said affectionately, "I understand." Our relationship is built on trust and communication, it is our common life, and together we face and solve all problems. ”
Li Hua nodded, his eyes full of gratitude and trust. She knew that despite the sensitivity of the issue, the frank conversation between her and Zhang Qiang had strengthened their relationship.
The two continued to talk, sharing each other's expectations and concerns. As the night deepened, the two hearts grew closer and closer in a frank exchange. They understand that true love is not only about passion and romance, but also about understanding and supporting each other in every detail of life.
The conversation between Zhang Qiang and Li Hua lasted until late at night, and the communication between the two became deeper and deeper, and their understanding of each other became more profound. Zhang Qiang's understanding and support made Li Hua feel very relieved, and she knew that she had found a partner who could be trusted for life.
The next day, they got up as usual and started their day. Unbeknownst to them, however, last night's conversation had been overheard by a friend and shared on social media. In the post, the friend wrote: "Last night, I overheard a very touching conversation. Aunt Li Hua and Uncle Zhang Qiang had a very frank exchange on their wedding night, and I was deeply touched by their courage and sincerity. ”
The post quickly sparked a lot of discussion on the web. Many netizens praised Li Hua's courage and believed that she dared to face and discuss the sexual problems of the elderly, which was a very positive and healthy attitude. Some netizens also said that Zhang Qiang's understanding and support showed his deep love and respect for Li Hua.
"I feel very warm when I see the comments from netizens. Li Hua said to Zhang Qiang after seeing the post, "I didn't expect our story to attract so many people's attention and discussion." ”
Zhang Qiang smiled and shook Li Hua's hand: "This shows that our communication is valuable, and it may also help others." ”
Li Hua nodded, she felt very pleased. She knew that this conversation was not just a private matter between her and Zhang, but could also have a positive impact on others.
As time passed, the discussion of Li Hua and Zhang Qiang's story on the Internet gradually subsided, but their lives became more and more fulfilling and happy. They do chores together, participate in community activities together, travel together, and enjoy their old age.
"Strong, I think our story could be written as a book. One day, Li Hua said to Zhang Qiang when he was sorting out the photo album of the two.
Zhang Qiang responded with a smile: "Okay, then let's write together." I have the title of the book in mind, and it is called "Spring in Later Years". ”
Li Hua and Zhang Qiang's married life is like the warm sun in spring, warm and bright. Their story became a great story in the community, and their mutual respect and deep love became a focus of discussion among the neighbors. At a community-organized event for the elderly, Li Hua and Zhang Qiang were invited to the stage to share their experiences.
"At our age, many people think that talking about feelings is a young person's business, but in fact, love knows no age. Li Hua stood on the stage, his tone calm but full of power.
Zhang Qiang stood aside, looked at her with gentle eyes, and added, "Yes, Hua is right. Our experience has taught us that no matter how old we are, we have the right to pursue happiness. ”
The old people in the audience listened attentively, some nodded, some discussed in a low voice, obviously touched by the couple's words.
After the event, many elderly people gathered around and asked them how they overcame the obstacles brought by age and how to maintain the relationship between the two. Li Hua and Zhang Qiang patiently answered one by one, there was no flowery rhetoric in their words, but they were full of wisdom and warmth of life.
"Actually, the most important thing is communication and understanding. Li Hua held Zhang Qiang's hand, and the two looked at each other and smiled.
Zhang Qiang continued: "Also, don't be afraid of change and have the courage to try new things. ”
Their stories have inspired many middle-aged and elderly people to realize that no matter how old they are, they have the right to pursue and enjoy love. People in the community are beginning to re-examine the emotional needs of middle-aged and older people, and they have a new understanding of sexual concepts.
Under the influence of Li Hua and Zhang Qiang, the community set up a group dedicated to providing emotional support and communication for middle-aged and elderly people. Li Hua and Zhang Qiang took the initiative to join the group and became active volunteers. They use their own experiences to help and encourage more middle-aged and elderly people to pursue their own happiness bravely.
As time passed, Li Hua and Zhang Qiang's image in the community became more and more positive, they are not only a model couple, but also representatives of the pursuit of happiness by middle-aged and elderly people. Their lives are full of love and hope, and they have become a beautiful landscape in the community.
This article is a microfiction, please do not sit in the opposite seat