When we are young and fanatical, we often believe that as long as two people love each other deeply, they can embrace each other forever and never be separated.
At that time, people were convinced of the innocence of love, and as long as there was love in their hearts, all external conditions could be ignored.
No matter what height you are or what you look like, as long as you truly love each other, superficial flaws are not enough to block exciting feelings.
All of this seems to send us a message that as long as there is love, success and happiness can be achieved.
After the experience of true love, people gradually discover that love cannot always be the only reason for two people to get along.
Many lovers have fallen short of reality. Whenever the night of separation came, they wept bitterly.
This doesn't mean that the two don't love each other, it's more because they may not be the best match for each other, and they can't spend their slow and dull days together.
If he can walk in the snow with me, then our lives will be white. However, even if we miss them, we can only seal these people in the depths of our minds, become private memories, and never see each other again.
As people mature, they no longer choose a partner based solely on love or dislove. In fact, the following three elements are the key.
Fidelity to affection
It is often said that "fidelity is the cornerstone of love", and this saying is true. This quality of love makes it stand out among many human emotions and dominate it.
You may have many good friends, bosom friends, but you will only have one dearest person in your life, holding hands with him/her into the future.
The preciousness of love lies in the willingness of two people to be free of each other and always firm.
In a relationship, we limit the distance between ourselves and other members of the opposite sex for the sake of each other, and always ensure that the other person is unique.
We and our intimate partners can recognize each other at any time, discover the meaning of life, find the courage to keep moving forward, and the strength to support, comfort and encouragement. This special emotional bond belongs only to the precious treasure shared by two people.
This is akin to a sacred responsibility that when two people identify each other, they will never be separated. It is an eternal commitment to each other's happiness and never back down, no matter what difficulties come their way.
If you want to be with each other forever, fulfill your mission and bring nobility and purity to your love.
The difference between the three views of two people is big or small
Finding like-minded friends is a blessing, and life can get complicated with people with different worldviews. People should pay attention to choosing harmonious social relationships so that life will be more enjoyable and easy.
The "three views" that the public usually refers to an individual's outlook on life, values, and views on the world.
The outlook on life is the idea of how to spend a limited few decades of human life.
People who have the same outlook on life can always keep the same pace of progress, the gap between the two will be smaller, and the match between each other will be higher. This truth is not difficult to understand, so we need to pay attention to our outlook on life in our daily lives to maintain the direction and rhythm of progress.
Values refer to what you think is precious in life and what you are willing to fight for. It is an important guide for one's thoughts and behaviors, and it is also the cornerstone of one's life path.
When two people have the same values, they will have the same goals. This alignment inspires confidence and allows two people to support each other on their way to achieving their vision for the future. This also fosters collaboration between the two and allows them to work better together to achieve common goals. Conceptual alignment is an indispensable and important factor in a successful partnership.
Worldview refers to how you see the world, and what you see it as what it is. Let's explore this topic together!
People with the same worldview can happily exchange endless topics and share each other's insights into all things. In this kind of relationship, we want to know more about each other, full of joy and joy.
These three are closely related and indissoluble. It is difficult to meet the opposite sex that is consistent with one's outlook on life, values, and worldview. But once two people meet, their relationship quickly heats up and becomes passionate.
Whether each other's views on money coincide
Money plays a vital role in an emotional relationship, and if two people have different views on money, it can cause huge disagreements.
Imagine if you are upset when you are with the opposite sex and share property, but they always spend money on things you don't agree with?
This contradiction will gradually deepen, and repeated dissatisfaction will lead to an eventual outburst.
In order for a man and a woman to live in harmony over a long period of time, it is necessary to discuss each other's attitudes and views on money at the beginning of the relationship. This is a very important task and a necessary prerequisite for a stable and healthy relationship. At the beginning of an emotional relationship, both men and women should take the opportunity to communicate in depth and ensure that there is a common understanding and goal when it comes to money.
1. What do you think of the doctrine of time-to-fun?2. What are the main ways in which your money is used?3. How is money important to you?
Maintaining a constant comparison of money views, and having frequent consultations and discussions with your lover to establish a consistent view of money, will help your love move forward smoothly.
Summary:
While love is important, love is not a key factor in a lasting marriage.
Compared to uncertain love, there are three factors that can ensure that two people end up together: a loyal attitude towards love, similar values, and a view of money.
If you're lucky enough to meet someone of the opposite sex who meets the following three criteria, don't miss out: being practical, honest, and caring for others.
The tacit understanding between you will make the two sides merge perfectly, like two magnets meeting and instantly absorbing together. This tacit understanding can bring you endless surprises and help in your daily life, and I hope you will cherish and cultivate it well.