Wise people are like fierce beasts, mavericks, never following the crowd, they look different, charismatic, and outstanding.
They have always insisted on their original intentions, and they are unwilling to waste their precious time and energy on ineffective social interactions and unworthy people and things.
For those who don't know them, they may feel that these people seem cold, arrogant, or even a bit hypocritical and arrogant.
In fact, people who prefer to be alone have better control over their vulgar entertainment than those who are keen on homogeneous pleasures.
They don't need to make false promises, they don't have to force themselves to conform to others, they can focus on what they love and be their authentic selves.
Haruki Murakami once said, "Not all fish grow in the same ocean. In fact, whether it is to live alone or in a group, it is a reasonable existence.
A wise man likes to be alone and not to quarrel with the world. It's not because they're difficult to get along with, it's because they see things for what they are, and they see things more clearly.
For such people, being alone is not a terrible thing, but it is forcing yourself to socialize with others that causes pain. They don't crave too much social activity and don't fear being alone.
In their opinion, if you insist on squeezing into a circle that does not belong to you, the final result will not only make you tired, but also bring a lot of embarrassment. We should look for like-minded friends in our own comfortable and familiar circles, so that we can live a relaxed and happy life.
Doing so can be awkward and dull for both parties, and is unbeneficial.
They prefer to enjoy one's openness and freedom rather than being limited by invisible constraints.
The world is full of people coming and going, and many people are afraid of being alone, but smart people know how to enjoy the beauty of being alone.
Being alone is not a state of loneliness, it is an ability to be different. It allows people to have their own unique spiritual space and can live an extraordinary life.
Such a person is pure, sincere and simple, not influenced by fame and fortune, and reduces many unnecessary troubles.
People who like to be alone usually have a high level of tenacity and ability to work under pressure. They live a simple life, avoid tedious socializing, focus on what they want to do, and don't follow the crowd. This choice stems from a clear understanding of their own needs and goals, rather than being influenced by those around them. This attitude of self-control is worth emulating.
I have a colleague who is seen as a "patient" with autism who is not easy to get along with. Aside from work exchanges, she has never attended a dinner or entertainment event with her colleagues.
Even when chatting with everyone, she always answers questions politely, and she is never cold about topics such as "gossip". She has always maintained an elegant temperament and will not join in the fun.
At first, I thought it would be a bit difficult to get along with her, until I had the pleasure of accompanying her to a famous seminar by chance, and I began to realize that we could actually get along very well.
In the seminar, she behaved confidently and generously, making people feel that she seemed to radiate a golden light. This is very different from the image of silence in daily work, and it is impressive.
In addition, she made a lot of like-minded friends at the seminar, and they had a great time communicating with each other, but this made me seem a little "reserved" and always addicted to my mobile phone.
It's not because she's withdrawn by nature and likes to be alone. On the contrary, she understands that it is unwise to put self-improvement in meaningless social interactions, and she understands the importance of being alone.
Those who are loners tend to focus on their careers and do not seek to please or show off. This trait is their pride and what makes them personal.
It is precisely because of their solitary personality that they are able to face loneliness independently without external interference, and to carry out self-cultivation efficiently. Such qualities make them models for us to learn from, to adjust our inner state to better meet the challenges of the future.
My college roommate was a very serious person who had been preparing for graduate school since his sophomore year. Since setting her goals, she has rarely had fun with us and hasn't dabbled in relationships. She put in a lot of hard work and ended up getting excellent results in the exam. I feel admiration for her perseverance and hard work, and it also makes me understand that only through my own unremitting efforts can I achieve my dreams.
I don't know exactly when I started thinking she was smart. Until the first semester of my senior year, many of my classmates wanted to find a job, but they hit a wall. At this time, many people began to try to get into graduate school.
At that time, I instantly understood her persistence and admired her wisdom. She proved her mettle, successfully passed her postgraduate exams, and now has completed her PhD.
Only in calm can we develop greatly. Those who know how to enjoy solitude are wise people in life.
When a person chooses to be alone, he is actually rejecting those meaningless "pastimes" and avoiding external distractions to make his attention more focused. There is nothing wrong with this kind of behavior, on the contrary, it can help us reduce unnecessary entertainment and time-wasting behavior.
At this time, we should devote all our time and energy to personal growth and witness our own successful transformation.
Those who are alone are not losers, but people who understand and appreciate higher wisdom.
When we are alone, we talk to ourselves with our hearts, listen to our inner voice, and do not embarrass ourselves against our will to refuse. After all, it's a process of connecting with the heart and self-exploring that helps us better understand ourselves and develop our personal potential.
We should not think of solitude as a sign of isolation, but rather as a way of showing true wisdom.