In the past two years, due to the internal adjustment of the enterprise, our company is now in a half-dead state, the head office does not pay attention to the downward trend of the industry, as a 40+ ordinary worker, I think that's it. The general environment is not good, there is a surplus of talents, and the elderly are ...... I can't change any of these objective factors, the only thing I can change is myself.
The unfairness I have experienced in the past two years has made me deeply understand the unfairness, insecurity and instability in the workplace, even the most unbearable people can climb on top of you and point fingers at you, and you can't refute it, even if you have to say it right. In a small fifth-tier city, it is even more difficult to find a job, and although the cost of living is low, the salary is also pitiful.
A sentence that often hangs on his lips is: the second half of his life is in the hands of the boss of the group, and his life is also controlled by them, to be honest, this feeling is really very unpleasant.
Summarize the first 40 years of my own life, in one sentence: although the dream has no wings, the ambition is like the blazing sun, illuminating the way forward, and the dream is not daylight. To put it bluntly, it's a pipe dream.
Born in this era, an Internet outlet, a certain bigwig once said that pigs can fly in the era. And I lay on the ground just to avoid the wind, and every day I looked like I was waiting for death by eating. Then don't think nonsense, start rearranging from this moment, maybe it's still too late.
4 months have passed in 2024, and in the next 8 months, three main tasks have been planned: health, life, and learning.
Health: If you are healthy, emotionally stable, and have a peaceful mind, your life will be smooth.
1. Aerobic exercise 5 times a week, at least 40 minutes each time;
2. Don't stay up late, don't work overtime, go to bed at half past nine;
3. Manage your emotions: When you encounter a bad mood, bear with it, don't lie down and watch short videos, and do what you have to do, such as cleaning, walking the baby, and cooking...... Keep busy with the things at hand, and the bad mood will disappear automatically.
4. Balance a good attitude: smile more when encountering problems, maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and believe that everything will have good results;
5. Refuse internal friction: Internal friction is a particularly terrible emotion, it is like a sharp knife, slowly hollowing you out;
Life: Work hard and live well.
1. Get close to nature and accompany the doll outdoors on weekends;
2. Don't stay in bed on weekends, have a regular schedule and rest, and try your best to cook a big meal for the doll;
3. Eat healthy fruits and make more health tea;
4. Adhere to the habit of making breakfast every day;
5. Streamline your life and don't waste it.
Learning: Life is all about continuous learning, breakthrough, and then transformation.
1. Insist on learning to write articles, and plan to write and publish 1 article every day: since you have no special skills, start by writing articles, practice writing first, regardless of data, and write 10,000 articles first;
2. When you go out to play, learn to shoot videos, learn to take pictures, and prepare for the future;
3. Learn Video Editing Premiere;
4. Take time to read, develop the habit of reading, and plan to read 2 books this year;
Instead of waiting for fate to decide, it is better to rise to action and resist. If you don't have skills, you will learn, if you don't have a long future, you will follow, you are not afraid of people's words, and you will stick to your heart. Let tranquility dispel impetuousness and avoid glitz traps. Water the future with sweat and wait for the flowers to bloom.
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