May 6, 2024, an ordinary day, has become extraordinary because of the passing of a young life. Liu Jie (nicknamed Fat Cat), a 21-year-old game booster, committed suicide by jumping into the river in Chongqing due to emotional problems. This tragic incident quickly attracted nationwide attention, and netizens began to dig deeper into the truth behind the incident in addition to shock and regret.
Fat Cat, a young man from Hunan, whose life is almost occupied by games and his girlfriend Tan Zhu. As a game booster, he needs to devote about 14 hours a day to "Honor of Kings", and he has put in a lot of effort to earn living expenses and provide better living conditions for his girlfriend.
In this relationship, the fat cat doesn't seem to be getting what it deserves. He paid 510,000 yuan for Tan Zhu, including a transfer of 66,000 yuan, but Tan Zhu turned a blind eye to his contribution and even chose to break up.
The living conditions of fat cats are also embarrassing. He has little entertainment, except for games and takeaways. His life circle is narrow, lacking the nourishment of social and family affection.
In such a closed environment, fat cats are subjected to tremendous psychological pressure. When there is a problem in the relationship, he can't find a suitable person to talk to, and he can't get timely psychological counseling. This sense of loneliness and helplessness eventually led him to a dead end.
This tragic event is not only the loss of a person, but also a microcosm of an era. It allows us to see the illusion and cruelty behind online love, as well as the mental health problems that teenagers face when they grow up.
Teenagers often face tremendous academic pressure, employment pressure, and emotional pressure. They crave to find a sense of belonging and identity in the virtual world, but often ignore the real needs in real life. This disconnect between the virtual and the real can easily make them confused and predicament.
From the experience of fat cats, we can see some of the drawbacks of online love. In the online world, people are often more easily confused by superficial glamour and ignore the true character and qualities of the other person.
Emotional engagement on the Internet often lacks substantive communication and interaction, which is prone to misunderstanding and bias. When there is a problem in the relationship, due to the lack of face-to-face communication and exchange, it is easy to intensify the conflict and even lead to tragedy.
This incident has also made us deeply reflect on the mental health problems of adolescents. As they grow up, young people need to be cared for and supported by their families, schools and society. They need to learn how to deal with setbacks and failures, and how to establish the right outlook on life and values. Only in this way can they grow up healthily and become useful talents in society.
In the tragedy of the fat cat, we also see the complexity and multifaceted nature of online public opinion. On the one hand, netizens expressed anger and condemnation of Tan Zhu's actions, believing that she was an irresponsible, indifferent and ruthless person. Some netizens also expressed sympathy and regret for the fat cat, believing that he is a kind, tenacious and conscientious person.
After the other side of Tan Zhu was revealed by netizen "A Little Cloth", we saw a more indifferent and selfish image. Her behavior not only hurt the fat cat's feelings, but also sparked a public discussion about the moral bottom line in online love.
This makes us more aware that in the online world, we also need to abide by ethical norms and laws and regulations, and respect the feelings and rights of others.
Fat Cat's relatives are also trying to find the killer who hurt him, hoping to find justice for him. Let's observe a moment of silence for the fat cat and may he find true happiness in another world.