On campus in the early morning, the sun shines through the clouds and falls on the calm lake, creating layers of golden ripples. By the lakeside, a figure sat quietly, she was Xiao Xunlong. Note, however, that the dragon here is not a masculine name in the traditional sense, but a unique and strong feminine name.
Xiao Xunlong is a girl from an ordinary family, she is beautiful and has an independent personality. However, in this society that values appearance and materialism, she often feels different, as if she is bound by an invisible force. She craves the approval and respect of others, but she is afraid of losing herself.
Early one morning, Xiao Xunlong came to the lake alone for a walk. She looked at her own reflection on the surface of the lake, and an inexplicable emotion welled up in her heart. She asked herself, "Who am I, what do I want?" and a voice rang in her ear: "You have to learn self-respect and self-love." ”
Xiao Xunlong looked around, but there was no human figure. She took a deep breath, trying to calm her inner turmoil. She understands that this voice comes from the depths of her heart and is what she expects most from herself.
From that day on, Xiao Xunlong began to strive for self-esteem and self-love. She no longer cares too much about the eyes and evaluations of others, but focuses on her own inner needs and growth. She strives to learn all kinds of knowledge to improve her ability and quality, she actively participates in social practice activities to exercise her will and quality, she pays attention to her physical and mental health, and cultivates good living habits and mentality.
However, the path to self-esteem and self-love is not smooth. Xiao Xunlong often encountered setbacks and difficulties, but she never gave up. She understands that only by experiencing the baptism of wind and rain can she strengthen her faith and determination.
Once, Xiao Xunlong participated in a campus speech contest. She carefully prepared her speech, hoping to show her talent and charm through the competition. However, at the scene of the game, she made mistakes again and again because of nervousness. The ridicule of the audience and the doubts of the judges made her feel lost and frustrated.
However, Xiao Xunlong did not give up because of this. She told herself, "I want self-respect and self-love, and I can't be knocked down by these setbacks." So, she picked herself up again and continued to work hard to improve her abilities and skills. She constantly participates in various competitions and activities to exercise her courage and self-confidence. Finally, at a campus culture and art festival, she won everyone's recognition and respect with her outstanding performance.
Over time, the dragon gradually became confident and strong. She no longer cares too much about the eyes and evaluations of others, but focuses on her own growth and progress. She learned how to get along and communicate with others and build good interpersonal relationships, she learned how to manage her emotions and stress and maintain a positive mindset and emotions, she learned how to pursue her dreams and goals, and bravely face the challenges and opportunities ahead.
Early one morning, Xiao Xunlong came to the lake again for a walk. She looked at her own reflection on the surface of the lake, and her heart was full of confidence and pride. She understands that she has found her true self and dignity. She is no longer a girl in bondage, but an independent and strong woman.
In the early morning sun by the lake, Xiao Xunlong sat quietly and enjoyed the tranquility and beauty. She remembered the voice: "You have to learn self-respect and self-love." She smiled and said gratefully, "Thank you for making me understand this." ”
This story tells us: women should have self-respect and self-love. Only when we truly know and respect ourselves can we earn the respect and recognition of others. At the same time, this story also brings us hope and inspiration, and makes us understand that as long as we have firm beliefs and move forward, we will definitely be able to achieve our dreams and goals.