Have you been hurt by a sentence for a long time? Netizen: She said that I was not strong enough for her ex-boyfriend!

When I saw this netizen's message, I couldn't help but feel a chill in my heart. I feel the feeling of being hurt by a sentence for a long time, because I have been through similar experiences.

I am an ordinary person living an ordinary life. On the web, I met a girl, we talked very speculatively, and soon developed a deep friendship. We share each other's lives, our joys and sorrows, and we feel like we've found a close friend.

However, one day, our chat became a little stiff. She suddenly talked about her ex-boyfriend and praised him for being powerful and methodical. I felt a little embarrassed, but tried to keep talking to her.

However, she suddenly said the words that I still can't forget: "You are not strong enough for him." ”

At that moment, I felt as if I had been poured a basin of cold water, and my heart tingled. I didn't know how to respond, so I just smiled awkwardly and ended our chat.

That sentence echoed in my heart for a long time, and I kept reflecting on myself, trying to find out where I was lacking. I began to doubt my abilities and began to wonder if I really deserved her friendship.

I tried to reconnect with her, but there was always a gap in my mind, and I was no longer as open and honest with her as I used to be. I began to pretend to be strong in front of her, unwilling to let her see my vulnerability.

However, over time, I gradually realized that I didn't need to change myself for the sake of other people's approval. I have my own value, I have my own merits, and I don't need to question my worth because of a sentence.

Gradually, I learned to let go and accept my imperfections. I understand that there will be many people in life who will cause you harm, but the most important thing is to learn to grow from it, constantly improve yourself, and become a better person.

Now, when I see that netizen's message, I no longer feel sad, but feel that this is an opportunity for me to review my growth process and strengthen my beliefs. I hope that she can come out of her pain as soon as possible, learn to accept herself, and cherish every beautiful friendship.