Zhang Xiaoxian said: "When you give up, you start to have." ”
Those who dare to draw a line with the wrong things and unfriendly people are most likely rich and noble.
Those who are truly free and happy not only have three positive views, but also have principles. They are very intelligent and know how to deal with relationships.
No matter how honest and kind you are, these 3 things must be ruthless and life will go smoothly.
01: Be fierce with the people who love to beat you and belittle you, and don't associate with them again
I have read such a sentence: "You don't have to invite everyone into your life." ”
Sincere friends with a bottom line will nourish you, but selfish people can destroy your personality.
No matter how good your personality is, be fierce with those who love to hit and belittle you, and don't continue to associate with them.
Maybe you used to be classmates, have known each other for decades, and are the best girlfriends and brothers.
However, when you get along with each other, the other person is always used to belittling you.
For example, if you have no ability, no aesthetics, and you will be criticized for everything you do, then such friends should be quickly kept away.
After being together for a long time, your energy will be consumed, and you will become inferior and timid.
But in fact, it's not that you have a problem, it's that your friend's character is too bad.
For this kind of person who doesn't understand love and doesn't care about your feelings at all, you have to be fierce.
She doesn't treat you as a friend, why should you give your sincerity and affection?
02: Be ruthless about what you want to escape and dare to break through
Everyone grew up in a different environment and had a different personality. Introverts will get used to running away, not daring to move forward, afraid of change, and so on.
But if you want to be good and brave, you have to be ruthless with yourself and have the courage to break through.
Especially girls, if you don't get love from your parents, your personality will become pleasing and you will be humble in love.
You can also feel anxious about complex relationships, but panic in your heart won't do you any good if you keep avoiding. Only by being ruthless with yourself can you make a breakthrough.
Really good and excellent people will be very self-disciplined and will not be afraid of challenges.
Xiaorong's (pseudonym) parents always kidnap her, and after she works, she has to give her younger brother living expenses every month.
The family needs to build a house, as long as her parents open their mouths, Xiaorong will not dare to refuse.
She actually has a goal, hoping to buy a house and get married with her boyfriend as soon as possible. However, Xiaorong was afraid of the pressure from her parents, so she compromised every time, and eventually her boyfriend left her.
No matter how much Xiaorong pays, her parents are always dissatisfied, and even take these things for granted. Later, Xiaorong completely woke up.
When her younger brother graduated, her parents asked her to give 180,000 yuan to let her younger brother buy a car first.
Xiaorong no longer avoided her heart this time, but bravely refused, not only ruthlessly to herself, but also ruthless to her parents.
She blocked her family's contact information and didn't get along with her parents.
For more than 3 years, Xiaorong disappeared into her family's world. She used her savings to buy a house, and she also met a partner who loved her more and was suitable.
No matter how honest and timid your character is, how much you love your parents, you must be ruthless in this matter, and only by learning to protect yourself can you have hope and happiness in life.
Reading to change yourself is the most cost-effective way to break through yourself.
03: Be ruthless to those you can't love, and wake up in time
Love will inevitably have regrets and unwillingness, you invest so many emotions, but in the end the other party will leave ruthlessly.
This sense of loss can make you feel extremely depressed and even lose confidence in life. In order to redeem love, you will give up all dignity or no longer open your heart to anyone.
But your kindness and infatuation are not exchanged for moving, but self-destruction.
A girl who is really sober will love herself very much, and she will be ruthless to those who have left. No matter how reluctant you are, how much you miss each other, you will never contact each other again.