I went on a blind date with people, I went on a blind date when people got married, and other people's babies ran all over the ground, and I was forced to go on a blind date recently, and I felt uncomfortable to spit out.
The first blind date was 27 years old, and I was 34 in the blink of an eye. In the past seven years, there have been no more than fifteen encounters, most of them are cut off after one week of contact, and very few are two weeks.
Let's talk about my background first, in a second-tier small city, there is a house and a car, and the family has not been demolished, an only child, short and naked 1.65, with an average monthly income of 10,000 yuan, and three points of men......
For seven years, it has been a blind date introduced by the family. The family adheres to the principle of looking for acquaintances to introduce and not looking for professional matchmakers, so they are relatively serious people, and they have never met such a girl.
Every time, his parents followed, went to the woman's house or the matchmaker's house to meet, and then chatted awkwardly for half an hour, added WeChat, and went back to their respective homes. Generally, in the first week, I will invite guests to dinner, indicating that I have an explanation to my parents, and the eating process is extremely exhausting, and I will talk awkwardly for a few days after the end, and then there will be no more.
Have you reflected on why the life span is so short every time you go on a blind date? The conclusion is that I pay more attention to the other party's feedback, and generally feel that the other party's attitude is perfunctory, or that I don't want to get along, and I don't want to continue talking.
reviewed the career of the blind date girl, clerk, design, accounting, finance, nurse, shopping mall sales, front desk, HR, basically that's all, this year's blind date at home introduced three teachers, all of them were pushed by me, just let me meet a bank girl, the family agreed not to see at first, and now I regret it, and I am in the limit of the break...... Tired.
In fact, it's good to be alone, and you can save some money after paying off the mortgage and expenses with your monthly income. At work, I spend a lot of time raising flowers, raising turtles, reading books, and walking in the park.
I'm an ISFP little painter, I don't talk much about strangers, I talk a lot about acquaintances, and I like to talk about it, so a lot of them were talked about in the early stage. But I don't want to be a licking dog, so when the other party doesn't reply twice, I won't talk about it and won't go back. I didn't get anything last month, and I haven't made much progress in so many years.
In this regard, the family is very resentful, and I feel that I am not active at all. But from my own standpoint, first of all, I have never met someone I like on a blind date, so I didn't have much motivation at first. In addition, the attitude and willingness of the other party can be clearly felt after contact. So I feel that the other party doesn't want to understand, and I won't force it, until I can't reply to the chat, I quickly cut through the mess.
Although there are not many of them, after all, after so many years, in addition to still being a little nervous, chatting is still very progressive. The next one is a recent photo, I am 91 and she is 92, it seems to be a clerk, and she added WeChat after meeting and chatting at Starbucks, and then it suddenly disappeared, and she was more confused. Later, the introducer woman who replied was good, but we were not very suitable, and then it was over.
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