The April 11 jumping incident has become the focus of public opinion, but the story behind it is not well known. Just one day before this incident, the economic contradiction between Tan Zhu and Fat Cat seemed to have buried hidden dangers. When the police intervened to mediate, Tan Zhu had to return the 130,006 payment, but this does not seem to be the end of the problem.
Tan Zhu claimed that he only spent 350,000, not the 510,000 that the fat cat sister said before. The dispute exposed the money problems between them. This makes one wonder if there is a more complex money dispute behind it. Such a contradiction undoubtedly cast a shadow on the relationship between Tan Zhu and the fat cat, which aroused more people's speculation and attention.
In fact, a lot of this matter is hearsay, based on false rumors, and no one really knows what to write and talk nonsense, which is very unfair to Tan Zhu, so Tan Zhu made it clear that he would respond to the remarks of all online bloggers on the Internet, claiming to sue all bloggers who posted articles. Yes, this is her right, everyone has attacked her in too many directions, whether she is wrong or not is just everyone's assumption, after all, there is no right or wrong in the relationship between two people.
In this context, many bloggers should be careful, if your report is not true, it is indeed going to be sued by Tan Zhu, this problem is very serious, this does affect a lot of things for her personally, and many people have violated many of her rights, so stop in moderation.
The fat cat jumped into the river, there is also its own reason, you see that behind this seemingly desperate behavior, there is a hidden inner conflict, perhaps, we have to first understand his inner hesitation and struggle. Among the reasons why he jumped into the river, people couldn't help but feel shocked and confused. Is it because of his disappointment in Tan Zhu? Or is it because of his own confusion about love? What kind of story is hidden behind such despair? Everyone doesn't know, it's all spliced on the Internet.
He's a game booster, that is, an otaku, and he rarely has too much contact with the outside world. In the game, we may be able to fight heroically for love, regardless of everything. But real life is cruel and unforgiving, and there is no heroism in the game. The fat cat may have fallen into such a predicament, and the huge gap between the game and reality overwhelmed him. The imbalance of the concept of love and the cruelty of reality made him fall into deep despair.
Fat cats can be said to be the tragedy of the love brain, and there may be countless of them around us. They give everything for love, but end up in despair. Perhaps the fat cat had fallen into a similar struggle and pain before jumping into the river. This kind of love brain tragedy may be the most common and heartbreaking scene in our real life.
Behind this fat cat jumping into the river, there may be hidden the truth of love and the psychology behind it. Tan Zhu's influence on fat cats seems to be the key to all this. The truth of love under the relationship of money may be the core of what we need to explore. The fat cat's misunderstanding of love may also be one of the reasons why he finally jumped into the river in despair. The line between love and dependence may become blurred in such a story. And the psychological gap in love is the real contradiction of all this.
Everyone's moral condemnation in the back is related to money and love, perhaps it is because we see that we have so much empathy. Between Fat Cat and Tan Zhu, it is actually the epitome of many couples. The relationship between them is also what we often encounter in our own lives, it can be said that it is caused by the lack of love concept, now if you ask if there is still real feelings? Many people who have been hurt by love will tell you no, this is because now love is too cheap and there are too many temptations to distort people's view of love.
We dare not say that the fat cat may have misunderstood love, but the ultimate fuse of his jumping into the river is indeed love. Does possessiveness, dependence on love, and too much comeback without a corresponding response become blurred in his mind? Does his idealization of Tan Zhu obscure his true understanding of love? Such misunderstandings may have made him fall into despair in the end.
And the psychological gap in love is the real contradiction of all this. The contradiction between satisfaction and dissatisfaction is perhaps the most difficult part of our love to reconcile. The fat cat's satisfaction and dissatisfaction with love may be the contradiction in his heart. And this contradiction eventually led to his desperate behavior.