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I am the second daughter in the family, named Xiaoyu. My family is a bit complicated, with four generations in the same house, lively and often chaotic. My father is a businessman, my mother is a housewife, and I have an older sister named Xiaoxue, who is two years older than me, and she is a girl with a strong appearance and a soft heart. And our grandmother, who is the elder of this family, brought us up and is also the treasure in our hearts. Recently, something happened in my family that made me think about the ethical relationship of family.
One day, I was helping my mother cook at home when suddenly the phone rang. I wiped my hands and walked to the living room to pick up the phone, it was my sister calling.
"Xiaoyu, come on, my father and I have something to tell you. My sister's voice was a little anxious.
I frowned, wondering if it would be another bother, but I put down what I was doing and walked briskly to my sister's room.
"What's wrong?" I asked, seeing my sister and dad sitting on the couch with serious expressions.
"Grandma was sick and the doctor said she might need to be hospitalized. There was a hint of worry in Dad's voice.
My heart tightened, my grandmother is the treasure of my heart, if she is sick, then there will be a lot of laughter in the house. I immediately asked, "What is the disease?" I'm going to see my grandmother. ”
"The doctor said it was a little heart problem and it was fine, but he still had to be hospitalized for a period of observation. My sister explained.
I nodded, and Dad continued, "I'm going to pick her up today and let her rest at home, and you two help take care of it." ”
My sister and I replied in unison, "Okay." ”
"Then you guys get ready, and we'll go to the hospital right away. Dad stood up and walked to the door.
My sister and I followed briskly, not speaking all the way, praying for my grandmother.
When we arrived at the hospital, my grandmother saw us coming, and there was a look of relief in her eyes. Her face was a little pale, but she still smiled.
"Grandma, how are you?" I stepped forward and took her hand.
"It's fine, just a little bit of a problem. Grandma smiled, "Take me home quickly, it's not interesting for me to stay here." ”
I looked at the smile on my grandmother's face, and my heart warmed. We were quickly discharged from the hospital and the family drove home.
Back at home, my sister and I got busy, tidying up my grandmother's room and preparing dinner for her. Grandma sat in the living room, looking at our busy figures, her eyes full of relief.
"You two are so good. Grandma smiled and complimented, "It's really reassuring grandma." ”
My sister and I looked at each other and couldn't help but blush, this is the closest person we are, and her compliments make us feel extremely happy.
After dinner, our family sat around the dining table and chatted about family life. My grandmother told me interesting stories from our childhood, and my sister and I listened to them with great relish, occasionally laughing along. At this moment, the home is filled with a warm and happy atmosphere.
"Grandma, if you are not feeling well in the future, you must tell us, don't bear it. I held my grandmother's hand and said in a tone full of concern.
"Got it, got it. Grandma smiled and touched my head, "I have such a well-behaved granddaughter, I will take good care of my body." ”
Dad listened from the sidelines, and also showed a relieved smile, seeing us love each other like this, he was extremely satisfied.
On this day, our family was reunited, and although my grandmother was sick, it made us understand the warmth and preciousness of family even more. I deeply understand that the health and happiness of our family is the most important thing, and each of us has the responsibility to care for and protect this warmth.
Grandma returned home, and our family started a new rhythm of life. Every morning, my sister and I would prepare a nutritious breakfast for my grandmother and then accompany her out into the yard to bask in the sun and chat. Grandma would tell us many stories about the family and let us know about the history and traditions of the family.
However, as time went on, I gradually discovered a problem. Originally, I always thought that family was a peaceful and peaceful world, but in reality, this is not the case. While we were taking care of my grandmother, I gradually discovered the contradictions and hidden dangers in the family.
One day, my sister and I were chatting with my grandmother in the living room when we suddenly heard a noise outside. I frowned, wondering if the neighbors were arguing again, but upon closer inspection, the sound seemed to be coming from my dad's and mom's room.
My sister and I looked at each other, both worried. We walked to the door and just wanted to knock on the door, but we heard my mother's voice: "I don't care, you can solve it yourself." ”
My heart sank, what was going on? I exchanged a more worried look with my sister and pushed open the door to my father and mother.
"Dad, Mommy, what's wrong?" I asked.
Dad was sitting on the edge of the bed with an angry face, while Mom was standing on the sidelines, her eyes a little indifferent.
"It's your problem, you solve it yourself. Dad's voice was cold.
I watched the confrontation between my father and mother, and I felt a flurry in my heart. It had never been like this at home, and I didn't know what to do.
"Dad, Mom, can you calm down and talk about it?" said my sister.
Dad glared at his sister and didn't speak, while Mom turned and walked out of the room, not saying a word.
My sister and I looked at each other, feeling helpless and dazed. The family was supposed to be united and harmonious, but now there is such a conflict that makes us all feel upset.
For the next few days, the atmosphere at home was heavy. The relationship between dad and mom seems to have become more strained, and they rarely talk or even make eye contact. My sister and I were also very embarrassed and didn't know what to do.
In this atmosphere, I cherish every moment with my grandmother even more. She was always smiling and comforted us with warm words that made us feel at home.
However, the conflict in the family did not end there, but intensified. One night, I heard my dad and mom arguing in the kitchen. My heart sank, and I quickly ran over.
"Why are you so stubborn, can't you just listen to me?" Daddy's voice was angry.
"Why do you accuse me, it's not a reassuring thing for you to do things yourself!" the mother's voice became sharper.
I saw anger and dissatisfaction written all over my father's and mother's faces, and my heart became even more anxious. I stepped forward and tried to persuade them.
"Dad, Mommy, can you calm down and sit down and talk?" I advised.
Mom and Dad stopped arguing, but their faces were still full of anger and resentment.
"Is it interesting for you to quarrel like this?" I asked again, "and it will only make the atmosphere in the house more tense, and it will not benefit anyone." ”
Mom and Dad were silent, and I looked at them with helplessness and disappointment. This family used to be so warm and happy, but now it is full of contradictions and estrangement, which makes me feel very heartbroken.
I am well aware that the family is the most basic social unit, and the harmony of the family is everyone's responsibility. I decided to try to reconcile the conflict between my father and mother and make the family feel warm and happy again.
I decided to find a suitable opportunity to have a good conversation with my father and mother, hoping to resolve the conflict between them. Finally, one day, I found a suitable time for our family to sit around the table for dinner, and the atmosphere eased a little.
"Mom, Dad, I have something to tell you. I spoke, my voice as calm as possible.
Mom and Dad stopped what they were doing and looked at me instead.
"It's about home. I continued, "We've been getting a little nervous in our house lately, and I thought we should sit down and talk." ”
Dad frowned and looked at me, as if thinking about my words.
"Xiaoyu is right, we do have some problems that need to be solved. My sister spoke up, trying to persuade her father and mother.
Dad sighed and nodded: "Okay, then let's talk about what's wrong." ”
My sister and I exchanged encouraging glances and began to talk about our observations and feelings.
"Dad, Mom, I think your relationship has become a little strained lately, and you often quarrel. "I tried to describe the problems that exist in the family from an objective point of view.
Mom and Dad fell silent, as if thinking about my words.
"Actually, I think the root cause of these recent problems in our family is our lack of communication. The sister continued, "Dad, Mom, you are usually very busy, and you rarely have time to sit down and have a good chat, which is why such a conflict arises. ”
Dad and Mom listened to their sister's words, and there was a thoughtful expression on their faces. I saw this opportunity and continued: "Actually, the family is a united collective, and each of us has to work for the harmony of the family. ”
Xiaoyu is right. Grandma interjected, "As parents, you should set a good example for your children, communicate more and be more tolerant." ”
Dad and Mom were silent for a while, and finally Dad spoke: "Maybe we did ignore some problems, and we will pay attention to communicating more and understanding each other in the future." ”
My sister and I couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief and relief when we saw the conversation between my father and my mother.
"Well, since everyone has this awareness, then we will definitely work harder in the future to make the family full of warmth and happiness again. I said, "If we work together as a family, we will be able to resolve all the conflicts." ”
Mom and Dad both nodded, seeming to be confident in the future of the family. As a family, we sat around the dining table, enjoying the harmonious atmosphere and our hearts filled with hope for the future.
After this serious communication, the atmosphere of the family gradually returned to the harmony and warmth of the past. The relationship between dad and mom has also become more harmonious, and each of us cherishes each other's existence more and feels the warmth and happiness of the family.
I am well aware that family is the most important thing to rely on, and only when family members unite and work together can we overcome any difficulties and challenges. I believe that with the efforts of each of us, the family will be happier and more full of the power of love.
The harmony in the family lasted for some time, and each of us worked hard to maintain this happiness. Grandma's health is also gradually improving, and her smile fills the family with life and vitality.
However, just when we thought everything was going to be okay, an accident shattered the silence.
One morning, I woke up to find my grandmother not in bed. I got up and got dressed, and walked to the living room to go to the yard to look for her, only to see the anxious expressions of my father and mother.
"Where's Dad, Mommy, and Grandma?" I asked, a sense of foreboding in my heart.
Dad and Mom exchanged glances, and then Dad said, "Grandma suddenly felt unwell this morning, and Mom and I are preparing to take her to the hospital. ”
My heart sank, and I hurried to the hospital with them. At the hospital, the doctor told us that my grandmother's condition was not so good and that she needed further tests and treatment.
Mom and Dad and I are anxious and hope that Grandma will recover soon. In the waiting room of the hospital, our family held each other's hands tightly and prayed silently.
After a nervous wait, the doctor finally came out and told us about my grandmother's condition. I looked at the doctor's serious expression, and my heart became even more uneasy.
"My grandmother's condition is serious and she needs surgery. The doctor's voice was a little heavy, "There are certain risks associated with surgery, but if the operation is not performed, grandma's condition may deteriorate." ”
I was shocked and terrified by the news. Grandma is the elder of our family, and she is also the treasure of our hearts, I can't imagine how lonely and lonely the family would be without her.
"Doctor, we must have surgery as soon as possible. Dad's voice was firm, "Please arrange surgery for grandma as soon as possible." ”
The doctor nodded, and then gave us a detailed explanation and arrangement. Mom and Dad and I listened silently, our hearts full of worry and anticipation.
Although the time for the surgery to take place is short, it is a long and difficult wait for each of us. Our family waited anxiously in the waiting room for the outcome of the surgery, and every second felt like a year.
Finally, after waiting for a few hours, the doctor came out and told us that the operation was very successful and that Grandma's condition was stable. When I heard the news, I breathed a sigh of relief and felt an inexplicable sense of joy and gratitude.
We hurried to visit my grandmother in the ward, and although her face was a little pale, there was a hint of strength and optimism in her eyes.
"Grandma, you're finally awake. I stepped forward and took her hand, "You must take care of your illness, we will accompany you through this time." ”
Grandma smiled, her eyes full of gratitude and warmth: "Thank you, grandma feels very happy to have you here." ”
In the days that followed, our family came together to take care of my grandmother and hope that she would recover soon. Although it will take some time for Grandma's condition to fully recover, we all believe that with the company and love of her family, she will definitely get through this difficult time and return to us.
During my grandmother's recovery in the hospital, our family took very good care of her. Every day, my sister and I take turns to accompany her, cook her some nutritious food, help her with rehabilitation, chat with her, and tell her some happy stories.
"Grandma, what do you think of today's dinner?" I picked up the spoon and carefully fed it to Grandma.
Grandma smiled and nodded: "It's delicious, Xiaoyu's dishes have always been my favorite." ”
When I heard my grandmother's compliment, I was also full of relief. She is the most important person in our family and it makes me very happy to be able to do something for her.
"Grandma, do you feel better?" the elder sister asked, sitting on the edge of her grandmother's bed, with concern.
Grandma smiled and touched her sister's head: "With you here, grandma feels very happy, and her body will naturally get better." ”
Our family spent many warm and happy times in the company of my grandmother. Every night, we would sit around her bedside and have a great time chatting, singing, and having fun. Grandma's smile makes us feel extremely warm and happy, she is like the sun in the family, illuminating the hearts of each of us.
However, just when we thought everything was going to be fine, another accident happened at home.
One night, my sister and I were watching TV in the living room when we suddenly heard my grandmother's cry for help. We rushed to her room and found her pale face and dense beads of sweat oozing from her forehead.
"Grandma, what's wrong with you?" I hurried to her bedside and took her hand.
Grandma gasped hard, and her voice trembled a little: "I feel like a big stone is pressed on my chest, and it is a little difficult to breathe." ”
My heart tightened, and I immediately realized that my grandmother might have symptoms of heart problems. I quickly asked my sister to call an ambulance and nervously waited with my grandmother.
While waiting for the ambulance, I kept reassuring my grandmother and telling her that everything would be fine and that we would definitely take her to the hospital as soon as possible.
Finally, the ambulance arrived at our doorstep and we rushed to get my grandmother in the car. At the hospital, the doctor quickly examined my grandmother and then told us that her condition was serious and needed immediate treatment.
My sister and I held my grandmother's hand tightly and told her that she must be strong, that she must cooperate with the doctor's treatment, and that she will definitely get better.
Grandma nodded, and there was a hint of firmness in her eyes: "I will work hard, I will definitely get better." ”
Our family waited at my grandmother's bedside, looking forward to her recovery. Although we are facing new challenges, we will unite as we did before and face them together, believing in the strength of family and believing that grandma will get through it and come back to us.
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