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Traditionally, we are taught to give, to give, to be helpful. However, when we look at the trajectories of successful people, we will find that they are not blindly giving, but are good at taking. Today, I would like to share with you a proposition that breaks with the norm: no longer stick to the virtue of giving, but dare to take, this is the right path to success!
1. Have a clear understanding of your own value
First of all, we need to have a clear understanding of our own value. Everyone has unique talents and abilities, and we should believe in our own worth and be brave enough to fight for our own interests. If we blindly give and ignore our own value, then we are likely to be ignored or abused by others.
2. Learn to make reasonable demands and expectations
Successful people are able to achieve more because they know how to make reasonable demands and expectations. They will actively strive for resources, opportunities, and rewards, rather than just giving blindly. Learn to negotiate and negotiate to provide valuable conditions and contributions in order to achieve better results.
3. Build a good network
In the real world, success depends largely on the network you build. It is necessary to be good at communication, cooperation and mutual benefit with others, so as to obtain more resources and opportunities. By interacting with others, you can learn more information, experience, and support to advance your career and growth.
4. Constantly strive for progress and maintain intellectual curiosity
The reason why successful people can continue to make progress and breakthroughs is because they maintain a strong entrepreneurial spirit and curiosity. They are not satisfied with the status quo and are proactive in finding new opportunities and challenges, constantly learning and growing. Only by constantly pursuing progress can we have an advantage in a highly competitive environment.
5. Insist on self-values and principles
While we advocate taking, we also stick to our values and principles. It is not about asking for everything, but about upholding the principles of integrity, fairness and ethics in the process of taking. Only by sticking to one's bottom line can one maintain one's dignity and credibility.
The road to success is not only about giving, but also about being good at asking and reasonably striving for your due rights and returns. Only by having a clear understanding of our own value, learning to put forward reasonable requirements and expectations, establishing a good interpersonal network, pursuing progress and sticking to our own values, can we truly achieve personal success and achievement!