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(This article declares: This story is pure fiction, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence, please do not sit in the opposite number!)
Preface
I am a single mother with children, today I want to tell about what happened to me, you come to judge, is it that after my husband cheated on me many times, I asked my husband to add my name to the house book at home, am I wrong?
01
My name is Wen Jun, and I am in free love with my ex-husband. When I was young, I really felt that true love was against all odds, but it wasn't until I got married that I realized that what I got in my hands was the safest.
When I first graduated, my father enrolled me in a driver's license class. said that in the future, when I am ready to get married, I will pay for a car, which can be regarded as my confidence in my in-law's family.
Coincidentally, my ex-husband also went to practice at that time. Because we practice driving, there are many people lining up for a car, and if you want to touch the car, you have to go to the driving school in the afternoon and then line up.
Because I am naturally slow to learn things, I am the first to arrive at 2 p.m. every day as soon as the driving school opens, because I can rehearse a few laps first. When the time came, I would find a small booth and sit in a small booth and wait for the next opportunity to touch the car.
And my ex-husband would often sit in the pavilion to rest. "How's it going?" he smiled at me, then moved to the stone bench next to him, making way for me.
These are the only people who practice driving, so I am more familiar with his face, and I said to him: "It's okay, but I always can't listen to the side parking, I'm really anxious." ”
He comforted me and said, "Don't worry, take your time, just stop on the side, and soon you can go to the exam." ”
I smiled and asked him, "What about you?"
He said: "I don't know, I'm almost there, but I want to practice, and I don't want to do that after one time." Later, he thought about it and said, "Since the two of us are about the same progress, let's talk to the coach and go to the test together." When the time comes, my dad will take me to the exam room, do I need to pick you up? ”
I replied embarrassedly: "I don't know when the practice meeting will be, don't delay your time." ”
He said: "What are you afraid of, it just so happens that I also reviewed and reviewed, you practice hard, I believe in you." ”
Our fate was inexplicably linked, and with his encouragement, I finally passed the mock exam. The two of us also made an appointment to go to the exam room together.
I was so nervous that I forgot everything around me, and I only heard him whisper in my ear, "Come on, come on." Believe in yourself, and we can both pass. ”
Sure enough, in the first exam, I still didn't stop on the side. I was under a lot of psychological pressure, and it would have been a shame if I hadn't passed. I swore to myself that I would pass.
When I left the examination room, I saw him waiting for me at the door, and I don't know why, I wanted to pour out all my grievances the moment I saw him. I ran towards him, and he waited for me with open arms.
We hugged each other as it should, and he touched my head and didn't ask me anything.
I reacted and quickly pushed his arms away and asked him, "Are you over?" He shook his head and asked me, "What about you?" I said to him, "There were two exams in total, and all of them were stuck in the side park. I was nervous, but I still didn't pass, what should I do?"
He said: "So what, if you haven't passed, you haven't passed, let's just take the test again." I haven't done it either, I've practiced so many times, haven't I ever done it?" including in the car, when his father asked him, he also said that he didn't pass and might have to take the test again.
Later, he still accompanied me to practice the second subject, but he never got in the car to practice. When I asked him, he said that he already knew it, that is, he was careless during the exam, and he should pass the next test.
I didn't know until I made my second appointment for the second exam. In fact, he passed the test the first time, but he was afraid that I would have a psychological gap, so he kept hiding it from me. However, he still accompanied me to the exam for the second time, and we changed our identities this time, and he became my official boyfriend.
In the years that followed, although we still had quarrels, he would always choose to back down first, and then choose to reason with me when my anger had subsided, and we had reached the age to talk about marriage.
My parents have always held the attitude that no matter what happens to this man's family, as long as he is good to me, it is okay, and the rest doesn't matter.
And his parents were also satisfied with me, and bought a new house for us as our wedding room. My parents also bought us a car as a dowry.
02
Newlyweds, the relationship is needless to say happy, and our relationship is really very good. He took care of me as much as he always did.
Every time he comes home after work, he will bring me all kinds of delicious food, regardless of the price, just this intention, I believe that many men can't do it.
My friends around me were also very envious of me, and I felt that I was really lucky to find a man like my ex-husband. What I never expected was that my life had changed since I got pregnant.
Half a year after we got married, I had our children, and when I measured my two bars that day, I was very excited to share them with their family.
And her mother also lived directly in our house from that time, in order to be able to take care of my diet and daily life as soon as possible.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be encountered in every family, so I have long been mentally prepared. During pregnancy, her mother treated the two of us very much, this can't be eaten, that can't be touched.
He was hardly allowed to go out during the whole pregnancy, but after all, his mother was also for my good, so I couldn't say anything.
But the last thing I could bear was that my mother-in-law didn't allow me to live with her son anymore, saying that it was to protect the baby in my belly. We're not kids anymore, of course we know what we can and can't do, and even if we live together, we won't do anything out of the ordinary.
We told my mother-in-law several times, but we couldn't resist the old lady. I had no choice but to live separately, and I think the contradiction arose from this time.
03
In the third trimester of my pregnancy, the guy in my family came back later and later, and at first he thought about calling and asking what I wanted to eat and bring it to me. Later, after being rejected by my mother-in-law several times, she never called me again.
But I never thought it would be so serious, and once when our family of three was having dinner, someone suddenly called him. And the most unusual thing is that he secretly pressed the phone, and then went to the bathroom.
The woman's intuition told me that this matter was definitely not simple, including his mother. But none of us broke it.
When he came out of the bathroom, his mother called him into the house. I silently walked to the door of the house and vaguely heard their conversation, and that was the first time I knew that my husband was cheating.
I was so angry that I softened all over the place, and I immediately leaned against the wall and walked into the house. My husband must have sensed that my emotions were wrong, so he came to me in the house and asked if I was feeling unwell.
I said, "Who did you just call when you went to the bathroom?"
He touched his head and said, "Oh, you said just now, Zhang Li, it's the colleague I told you about me, and she asked me about something at work." ”
I asked him again, "Then why did you go to the health indirect phone?"
He said: "No, you think too much, I just wanted to go to the bathroom at that time, so I went, you are really pregnant and stupid, what a mess." ”
I said, "Our family is not big, do you think I can't hear the conversation with your mother in the house?"
He was stunned for a moment, and immediately changed his words: "Daughter-in-law, you listen to my explanation, Zhang Li told me a long time ago that she wanted to be with me, but I only have you in my heart, how could I agree with her, so I always refused, but she didn't give up, and she would call me if she had nothing to do." ”
"When I was just eating, I panicked when I saw that it was her, you are pregnant now, if it affects your mood because of her, and then affects the baby, I will not let her look good. My mom was also arguing with me in the house just now, telling me to make everything that should be said clearly, don't let her mistake her for thinking that the two of us may hurt your baby, really, you believe me. ”
After I looked into his sincere eyes, I chose to forgive and believe, but I didn't expect that people would be able to move forward step by step. When this man is fine, he will look at his phone at home and laugh secretly, and every time I ask him, he will say that it is nothing, and he will see a joke.
Later, when he was taking a shower, I saw his phone, and it was a bolt from the blue. I knew that a man could believe his word and that a pig could climb a tree, so I began to negotiate with him.
I know that men can't be trusted, so they have to do something for the baby in their wombs. So I asked him to add my name to the house book, so that when the baby was born, he would not suffer the child himself.
At first, he disagreed: "This is the down payment given to me by my parents, including the mortgage, I am paying it, why do you have to let me add your name." ”
I said, "Because of the baby in my belly, I can't let the child know that there is a father like you when he is born, I have to do something for the baby." ”
The negotiation was very unpleasant, and we quarreled very fiercely. But not long after, he inexplicably agreed and took me to the housing authority. At that time, I found out that when he took me there, I guess I had already asked, and if the house still needs to be repaid with a loan, I can't add my name at all.
Later, in order to calm my mood, my husband thought of a way to write a letter of guarantee, promising that there would never be the same cheating in the future, and if there was, he would leave the house and give the house directly to me.
Once again, I believed this man's lies, and he filed for divorce from me just after my child was born. And I want to take custody of the baby, on the grounds that I don't have the ability to support the child.
When I took out the guarantee letter and went to the lawyer, I realized that the guarantee did not count at all, because the down payment and the loan had nothing to do with me, so I had no right to get the house at all. But the lawyer was able to make sure that I got custody of the child and my husband's monthly child support.
Of course, my life now is as predicted by the lawyer, and I am left with only one child. I don't know what I'm doing wrong in this marriage.
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