Does ambiguity always make people suffer a lot of grievances? Actually, it is not! Ambiguity can also be "two-way running," and the ambiguity of this state is the most beautiful and heart-pounding. But it is also true that it is not easy to meet the object of each other's "watching the game", and the most common situation is probably that one party has already taken the lead, and the other can be dispensable. Do you want to know why your "ambiguous relationship" always fails to go to the step of "love" in the end, and evolves into an interaction mode of "hot and cold" with the other person? The reason is actually very simple, that is, your partner has other lines at the same time, or does not like you that much at all. It doesn't matter, because you can actually observe it from the "6 obvious signs", so that you can judge more evidencedly: "Does this object like me now?"
The "6 telltale signs" of whether the ambiguous partner likes you:
1. Speed and frequency of responses
Modern people can't do without convenient technology products, and fully functional smartphones never leave them. From the speed and frequency of a person's reply to messages, it is actually obvious whether the other person is interested in them. Of course, everyone has their own life to be busy, not to say that "second reading and second back" means that you like or have a good feeling, but no matter how busy a person is, it is impossible to be so busy that he has no time to use his mobile phone at all, and it is understandable that he is very slow to return to work, but if the other party even replies to you for a long time after work, or even a day or two before replying, and then there are updates and posts in between, then please don't deceive yourself, the other party definitely doesn't take you to heart.
2. Tone, content and quality of the message
In addition to the speed and frequency of your responses, the tone, content, and quality of your replies are also important! For example, you can observe whether the other person initiates the conversation, keeps the conversation going, or asks any questions about you. If a person is interested in you, he will definitely want to have more to talk to you, even if the content of the chat is just meaningless small talk or sharing daily trivial matters, he will try his best to keep the topic uninterrupted, and even keep asking you questions. This kind of performance is definitely because of the feeling of "curiosity" about you, and curiosity is the beginning of the budding of every love, from which you can effectively judge whether the other party has a good impression of you.
3. Take the initiative to ask for phone calls and video calls
Although there are many "social phobic people" who don't like to talk on the phone and video calls, in fact, they still instinctively prefer to talk to the person they are interested in or like rather than cold messages. After all, everyone wants to take advantage of the long time of "making porridge on the phone" to cultivate a further relationship with each other. So whether or not a person has ever asked to talk to you on a phone or video call is largely related to whether he likes you or not. There is a male friend who is a complete "Type I person" (belonging to the introverted tendency in the "Type 16 personality test"), usually does not like to talk on the phone with family and friends, and will communicate by sending messages when there is something, but when he meets the girl he likes, he still can't help but want to call the other party. See, it's obvious whether you like someone or not, and you can tell if the other person wants to be "closer" to you.
4. Do you remember something you said
In the process of getting along and chatting, the two sides must be able to talk about the world, the south and the north. If you have been chatting for a while, then you can observe whether the other person remembers what you once said? Suppose he remembers these little things that you casually mention, such as: favorite food, hateful behavior, interesting movies, etc., it means that he must have a certain degree of affection for you; The happiest ambiguous time before the relationship is confirmed.
5. Have you ever offered to go out?
If you want to know how much the other party likes you, in addition to the 4 points mentioned above, you can also observe this more, that is, whether the other party has taken the initiative to ask you out. If the other party takes the initiative to ask you out, then don't be happy too early, and it depends on the other party's "frequency" and "location", which is also very, very, super invincible thunderbolt is very important! Because if the other party only asks you out once in a while, it means that he is still observing, or his feelings for you are not so strong, and if the other party often asks you out, but the place of the appointment is becoming more and more "quiet", either remote or sparsely populated, and it may even be about the "indoor space" of the two people alone , which is also a bit unpleasant, which means that he may only want to "have sex" with you instead of "falling in love".
6. Attitude and performance when meeting
If you have a good chat and feel very compatible, and the other party often asks you out, and the place of the appointment is normal and not strange, then congratulations, this person likes you at least 70 percent! Therefore, at this time, you can observe the other party's attitude and performance when meeting you, if he has a lot of eye contact when chatting with you, will take the initiative to start the topic when talking, and occasionally make some tentative but "not excessively violating" physical contact, then this person definitely likes you! The reason why he hasn't confessed yet is probably that he is still enjoying this ambiguous atmosphere of "two-way running", and he doesn't want to burst the pink bubble in front of him too quickly, and wants to let the ambiguity last a little longer, but it is not ruled out that the other party is "Aquaman" so please pay more attention at this time to see if he is "managing the fishpond".