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Zi Yue: "Guan Ju, happy but not obscene, mournful but not hurtful."
Since etiquette is a way to adjust interpersonal relationships, it must have restraint and boundaries, and it is a kind of beauty that takes care of the other party and can fully express the self. Etiquette is measure, and what is just right is the beauty of etiquette. Zi Yue: "Guan Ju is happy but not obscene, and mournful but not hurtful." Next, the Analects tells of Confucius's achievements in the ritual aspects of Guan Ju's poem.
"The poem speaks of the love of men and women, but not excessively promiscuous. There is a love of longing that cannot be desired, but it is not withered and depressed. The poem "Speaking" is very worth learning in terms of proportion and is a model of etiquette. To fully understand this verse, we must study the original text of Guan Ju.
Re-appreciate this ancient Chinese poem, a poem that everyone must read and understand, and this poem is also in the junior high school textbook and has become a compulsory course in national education. Below, we review the poem:
Guan Guan Ju Dove, in the River Continent. Ladies and gentlemen. Jagged lettuce, left and right. Ladies and gentlemen, covet it. I can't ask for it, I can't help it. Leisurely, tossing and turning. Jagged lettuce, left and right. Lady, Qin Ser yuzhi. Jagged lettuce, left and right. Ladies and gentlemen, bells and drums.
Pairs of Wang Ju birds chanted to each other on the beach in the river, quiet and shy, light and graceful women, every gentleman wanted to pursue her as his partner. The jagged lettuce swayed left and right of the boat, and my heart was so fluttering that I woke up and went to sleep thinking about her. She didn't express that she liked me, made me think wildly, and woke up to sleep thinking about how to get her to accept me. That long thought made me in bed, but I couldn't fall asleep. The jagged lettuce was picked by me on both sides of the boat, one on the left and one on the right, so happy. My beloved woman finally secretly sent Qiu Bo to me, and my admiration could not be expressed, playing the piano and singing songs to express my closeness and love for her. Jagged lettuce, I'm carefully selecting, the one that suits you. My most beloved woman finally came to me, and I could not express my joy, so I simply rang the bell and drummed to make her laugh happily. Her laughter fascinates me, and I'd rather just watch her laugh like this for the rest of my life, and I'm willing to give everything for it.
The poem is very beautiful, telling the story of the love process between a gentleman and a lady. Why is it beautiful? Because it is the beauty of typical Chinese art.
First of all, the protagonists are humble gentlemen and ladies, both men and women with high looks and moral character, and they are the most ideal lifelong partners in people's hearts. Humble gentleman, what woman does not love? Lady, what man doesn't ask?
Secondly, the courtship experience of a gentleman is depicted very modestly and courteously, and the most difficult literary works of male and female love are the grasp of proportion. This poem does not have the description of climbing the wall and folding branches, turning clouds and rain, and uses "sleeping and asking for it, tossing and turning" to express the appearance of the untimely, which makes people think of it. And the woman is a lady, chaste and courteous, shy, full of the classical beauty of traditional Chinese women.
The whole poem does not describe the woman's response, but from not accepting the secret sending of autumn waves to finally pairing up, as if in the silence heard a woman who also loves the voice of a gentleman, but so reserved and shy and quiet and leisurely. It is this kind of mystery and imminent departure of the pipa that makes the gentleman toss and turn, and the love between the gentleman and the lady is so holy and interesting.
Therefore, Confucius said that there is love in this poem, but it is just right, not naked and so overly straightforward; there are also untouchable troubles and thoughts in this poem, but it is not lost at all, the gentleman is not afraid of hardships and dangers, and he will not give up until he reaches the goal, and finally embraces the beauty. A joyful and auspicious atmosphere as an ending, let people full of blessings for the future of this gentleman and lady.
Gentlemen and ladies have surpassed the standards of the appearance of talented women, and humble gentlemen and ladies are perfect men and women who practice both inside and outside, they are of high moral character and have a beautiful appearance. If such a couple is happy to tie the knot, how many people's dreams are completed, and they will naturally receive the blessings of the most people.
This poem set a model for the love of future generations, and had a profound impact on the culture of men and women in Chinese, Chinese aesthetic standards for good women, and thus established for thousands of years. Coupled with the mysterious residence of women in the long-term feudal society, Chinese women have a unique quiet and leisurely temperament.
Times have changed, and now women are liberated and hold up half the sky. He has his own career and life, and is active and active in society, but in his bones he is still a weak and pitiful elegant temperament.
Today, we men and women still have to maintain a measure of etiquette, this problem is handled well, life will be harmonious, society will be harmonious, this is the role of etiquette. Not too much is not less, everything is just right, you love me and I wish to have a spirit, is it not very beautiful?
I wish everyone such a beautiful love, even in marriage, love will be so long.