If the moon is full, it will be lost, and when the water is full, it will overflow.
Life is like a parabola, and at the age of fifty it is at its highest.
From now on, you must know how to go with the flow and never pursue perfection.
The "Harvest Paradox" inspires us that after the age of 50, we will achieve certain achievements in terms of economy, family, career, and childcare. If you don't go back in time, the loss will begin.
Once, we were on offense, and later, we were on offense.
I advise you, if you have already made a fortune, try to leave the following three places, if you insist on staying, you may lose your wealth.
01
Where there is a competition for fame and fortune, "exit" is to make Xian.
Jin Yong wrote in the novel: "The four directions of heaven and earth are rivers and lakes, and the people of the world are smart and confused; ”
If a person wants to get rich, he must learn to compete with others for fame and fortune. Especially in middle age, secretly competing with others, although not generous enough, but this is the responsibility of supporting a family.
Fame and fortune can reflect one's own value, and it can also ensure that oneself can retire well.
After the age of fifty, the body gradually ages, and the spirit and wisdom are not as good as those of young people. Learning to quit reflects the high wind and bright festival.
In "Smiling Proud Jianghu", the director of the Sun and Moon God Sect is self-defeating, and his martial arts are world-renowned, but he is very arrogant.
He wants to dominate the rivers and lakes and destroy gangs such as Wudang and Juvenile.
His Dongfang is undefeated, very strict in handling things, and has a very friendly attitude. Therefore, he was appreciated.
Unexpectedly, after the Eastern Undefeated Treasure obtained the "Sunflower Treasure Book", he imprisoned Ren Wuxing and took charge of the Sun and Moon Divine Cult himself.
Wealth belongs to you and to me, and it cannot belong to any one person. Only by knowing how to stop in moderation can you keep the wealth for the rest of your life.
In "Zengguang Xianwen", it is said: "The strength is slightly resting. ”
If your strength is weakening, then your burden must also be weakened, otherwise you will crush yourself because you can't bear the pressure.
The workplace, business, etc., are closely related to interests. The situation of you fighting for each other is particularly serious. Leaving means retirement, and it also reflects the times that are innovating.
Lu Mengzheng of the Northern Song Dynasty had been the prime minister for many years, and then took the initiative to leave and recommended his nephew by the way.
His approach has been praised by countless people, reflecting the good beginning and the end.
As an ordinary person, you give up good stalls to young people in the vegetable market, and in the workplace, you give up the positions of bureau chief and director. If you can train young people, it will be more stylish.
02
In a place where people are lively, "leaving" is the Gu family.
A lively place, right and wrong are the most. You can guard against a hundred, but you can't guard against a thousand.
Those who put cold arrows, those who use beauties, those who dig pits, those who kill, those who pour wine...... Everyone has it, even if you have three heads and six arms, you can't handle it.
When I was middle-aged, in order to make a living, I had to be gregarious and use everyone's strength.
After the age of fifty, when you get rich, your requirements for making a living will naturally be lowered, and it is also a natural thing to quit the crowd, don't be reluctant.
Look at Li Kui in "Water Margin", since he went to Liangshan, he didn't even have time to take care of his mother.
I finally went home once, and I wanted to take my mother to live in Liangshan, but I met a tiger on the way, and my mother was gone.
Liangshan is still lively, but Li Kui has become a homeless person.
A few years later, Song Jiang led the heroes to recruit An. Li Kui continued to charge, and after all, he hurt himself.
There is also Ximenqing, who made a fortune in business, but later fell into a woman's nest and provoked Pan Jinlian, he was targeted by Pan Jinlian's brother-in-law Wu Song.
It is not surprising that Ximen Qing fell under Wu Song's fist.
After the age of fifty, a person's real success is to have a good family. The successful way is to insist on going home for dinner and turning the couple into a wife.
The ancients advised us: "If you have no money to rest in the public, you will not find your relatives in trouble." ”
When you are depressed in life, don't go to a crowded place, you will be looked down upon, and you will be snubbed by your relatives.
In fact, after people get rich, they should also not go to crowded places. Everyone is staring at your wallet, and relatives are coming for profit, forgetting about the blood relationship.
Cherish your family and reduce socializing. Even if you are doing business, if you have many partners, you have to quit. Get your fair share, and not being greedy is "treasure".
03
Where the pattern is very small, "leaving" is development.
Why do you say that "the rich don't return home"?
Because, when you were poor, the villagers didn't treat you well.
is also because, when you are rich, your parents and fellow villagers will be jealous of you.
Really don't expect people in poor rural areas to have the great wisdom of "burning incense in cold temples".
People who come from rural areas know that many villagers have the mentality of small peasants, and if they have a little money, they will show off their might, for fear that the world will not know about it, and if they have a little profit, they will try their best to seize it, and the means are very shady.
The mentality of hating the rich is chilling. There is no one who learns how the rich get rich, but jealousy, which leads to the deterioration of relationships between people.
In ancient times, Mengzi's mother moved three times, which was to let Mencius go to a place with a large pattern. The sound of books means that everyone is positive.
If you look at your hometown, you will know that most of the real rich people are out there. For the local wealthy, the wealth is limited.
There are also many locals, after digging a pot of gold, they seek development externally. Because there are so many people in the local area, the place is so wide that it can't accommodate people who are too rich. As the saying goes, you can't grow a big tree in a pot.
After we are 50 years old, we should not continue to focus on wealth, but our children need to continue the family business.
With his children, he walked out of the place and went to a distant place, and the sky was wide and wide.
04
After exhausting half of his life and getting wealth, the key work in the future is that his generation can "keep rich", and the next generation can "get rich again".
It is the vision of being a human being to adjust the way of life in time and find a place that can nourish the second half of life.
Don't wait until you're old and crushed into a corner to think about change, when it's too late.
As the saying goes: "There is no place to stay here, there is a place to keep a master." ”
The land of fame and fortune is stared at by everyone, and you have benefited from it, so exit and have a good rest.
In a lively place, there is a mixture of fish and dragons, you have dealt with everyone, and you will be fine in the future, and no one should calculate.
The land of projectiles, the pattern is too small, you have already mixed in every corner, and you are about to jump into the overall situation of society.
Take your money, nourish your old age, and go home with your grandchildren.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
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