The blessed have three deficiencies - the true meaning of wisdom in life
Since ancient times, people have been searching for the mystery of happiness. The old saying "The blessed must have three deficiencies" reveals a valuable wisdom of life. The so-called "three deficiencies", that is, lack of heart, lack of greed, lack of boredom, contains an open-minded and peaceful attitude towards life, warning people not to pursue perfection, but to learn to appreciate the happiness in the ordinary, contentment and happiness, indifferent ambition. Everyone should reflect on themselves and get rid of the three shortcomings of scheming, greed and anxiety, so that they can live a blessed life of indifference, contentment, and happiness.
Lack of heart, don't worry too much about the trivial things in life, and learn to relax. Confusion is sometimes a kind of "sobriety". There will always be some little things in life that make people linger, but if we can let go of our preconceptions and not take them too seriously, we will find that life is actually full of surprises. All problems arise from our attachment to perfection, and once we let go of this attachment, we can live freely. As Lao Tzu said, "the sound of the big sound, the elephant is invisible", the most beautiful things are often invisible and intangible, only by letting go of the distracting thoughts in the heart, can we experience the true meaning of life.
Lack of greed, don't be too greedy, be content and happy. Greed can lead people to do things that are unreasonable. The reason why people suffer is often because of insatiable greed. We always feel that what we have is not enough, and we always want more. But the more greedy you are, the more painful it becomes. Only by learning to be content can we live a happy and healthy life. The ancients said that "those who are content are rich", and wealth does not lie in how much wealth they have, but in their inner wealth. As long as a person can meet the basic needs of life and is content in his heart, he is already happy.
Lack of desire, don't be too anxious, and deal with it calmly. Irritability can be counterproductive. It is inevitable that we will encounter some setbacks and difficulties in life, but if we are anxious and anxious, not only will we not solve the problem, but we will fall into a worse situation. Only by treating it calmly can we deal with it calmly. Just like the flow of water, you can just go around when you encounter an obstacle, and you don't need to use brute force to hit it. Life is like this, if you can be calm when you encounter difficulties, you will be able to resolve the crisis. The ancients said, "Don't be shocked by the humiliation, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, go and stay unintentionally, and wait for the world to let me roam." This is exactly the attitude of indifferent and clear ambitions.
With these three deficiencies, we can truly understand the true meaning of happiness. Don't pursue perfection too much, but learn to appreciate happiness in the ordinary. Every bit of life actually contains infinite fun, but we often can't see it. A small flower blooms, a breeze blows, and a birdsong comes, this is the true meaning of happiness. Only by letting go of the attachment to perfection and living in the present moment can we appreciate the true meaning of life.
We must also be content and happy, indifferent and ambitious. Don't always feel that what you have is not enough, but learn to appreciate what is in front of you. It is true that there are many unsatisfactory things in life, but if we can be calm, we can resolve the crisis and live a calm life. The ancients said that "the rich and the rich cannot be lewd, the poor and the lowly cannot be moved, and the mighty cannot be bent", which is exactly the attitude of indifferent and Mingzhi's life. Only when the heart is rich can we truly achieve happiness.
Everyone should reflect on themselves and get rid of the three deficiencies of scheming, greed and anxiety. Don't always worry about the little things in life, that will only lead you into unnecessary troubles. Don't be too greedy, but learn to be content. Don't be anxious about the future, but take it lightly. Only by getting rid of these three deficiencies can we truly understand the true meaning of happiness and live a blessed life of indifference, ambition and contentment.
The old saying "blessed people must have three deficiencies" contains profound wisdom in life. Lack of heart, greed, and dryness are the keys to happiness. We must learn to let go of our attachment to perfection and appreciate happiness in the ordinary, to be content and happy, to be rich in our hearts, and to deal with all kinds of setbacks in life calmly. Only by doing this can we truly understand the true meaning of happiness and live a blessed life of indifference and contentment.