Daddy Zhang: "Actually, daughters-in-law and daughters have their own difficulties. The daughter-in-law has to deal with integrating into a brand new family and taking on the responsibility of taking care of her in-laws, which is a pressure for her. The daughter, on the other hand, has to balance the responsibilities of her parents and her own small family, which is also a challenge for her. Therefore, I don't think it is easy to say who is reliable and who is unreliable, the key is mutual understanding and support. ”
Granny Liu: "To be honest, I prefer to rely on my daughter. Because the blood relationship is there, there is a deeper emotional bond between us. Although the daughter-in-law is also very important, after all, she still has her own family and life, and I don't want to put too much pressure on her. In addition, our daughters usually know our habits and preferences better, and are more comfortable taking care of them. ”
Daddy Li: "I think it depends on the situation. Some daughters-in-law are very filial and can take care of their in-laws sincerely, while some daughters are unable to be by their side often due to various reasons (such as busy work, family chores, etc.). So, it can't be generalized. Most importantly, we need to learn to live independently and try not to burden young people. ”
As they get older, older people have different views and experiences about whether to rely on a daughter-in-law or a daughter. Some elders believe that daughters-in-law and daughters have their own difficulties and that mutual understanding and support is key, while others are more dependent on their daughters because of their deeper blood ties and emotional ties. However, there are also elderly people who believe that they should learn to live independently and try not to burden young people as much as possible.
For the elderly, the quality and well-being of life in old age is often closely related to family relationships. If the relationship with your daughter-in-law and daughter is handled properly, you can not only get material support and care, but also spiritual comfort and companionship. Therefore, whether it is dependent on a daughter-in-law or a daughter, it should be based on mutual understanding, respect and support.
At the same time, we cannot ignore the abilities and responsibilities of older persons themselves. As physical conditions change, older people should gradually adapt to the need for independent living and learn to manage and care for themselves. This will not only reduce the burden on young people, but also improve their quality of life and well-being.
In real life, every family's situation is different, so there is no one-size-fits-all answer. For the elderly, the most important thing is to make the most suitable choice for themselves according to their actual situation and family environment. At the same time, we should continue to learn and explore how to get along better with our daughters-in-law and daughters, and jointly create a harmonious and happy family atmosphere.