Marriage is a major event in life, you must think clearly, what are you walking together for? Life is not only sweet, can you face difficulties together?
Husband and wife share their interests and cut off money, if they have different thoughts at the beginning and secretly compete at the wedding, how will they spend the long years in the future?
Don't treat marriage as a child's play, both parties can discuss how to hold the wedding, and it is not wise to temporarily increase the price or let relatives embarrass each other.
A family held a wedding, the groom went to pick up relatives, just came to the bride's downstairs, was blocked downstairs by his relatives, asked for 46 cigarettes, the groom collapsed and said that he couldn't bear it.
As you can see from the picture, the groom got down from the convoy of relatives, holding a bouquet of flowers, happily leading a group of people to go upstairs to pick up the bride.
But as soon as they came to the door of the unit, they found that a group of relatives had already blocked downstairs, waiting for them to come. The groom hurriedly took out a box of cigarettes and wanted to scatter them, but who knew that people didn't look down on them at all, so he opened his mouth and asked for a cigarette.
This wedding is discussed by the parents of both sides, what to prepare, how much gift money, has already been made clear, the groom's family has also done so, I thought that the kiss is to send a few red envelopes, who knows that before they see the bride, they began to open their mouths.
A cigarette costs hundreds of dollars, and there are 46 of them, so the groom gets 46 cigarettes. This means that just entering the unit door will cost about 10,000 yuan.
The groom had to say good things to the woman's relatives, hoping that they could be accommodating, one box of cigarettes per person, and the meaning would be fine, so as not to delay the wedding.
But the relatives refused to give way, saying that he would get married once in his life, don't be so stingy, all the money has been spent, do you still care about this little money?
For him to get married, his parents have already spent a lot of money, and let him take out so much extra, he really doesn't have it. What's more, as soon as this head is opened, there are still several doors in the bride's house, how much does it take to pick people up?
The groom hoped that the bride could see that he could relieve himself, but after waiting for a long time, he did not hear the bride and his father-in-law and mother-in-law speak, and it is estimated that they acquiesced to the practice of their relatives.
After a stalemate, the groom really didn't know what to do, and stood by the car with a bouquet of flowers, feeling that he was about to collapse and couldn't bear it.
The groom filmed this scene and posted it on the Internet, asking the opinions of the majority of netizens whether the wedding should continue, which immediately aroused heated discussions among netizens.
Some netizens commented that in the past, they were all scattered one by one, but now they are scattered one by one, you are more ruthless, and they have all evolved into one?
Some netizens commented, ask your wife, are you willing to spend? If so, I have nothing to say. Think clearly about who you will live with in the future.
Some netizens also commented that there is really no one in the mother's family to take care of this?
The groom went to pick up his relatives, but before he entered the door, he was blocked downstairs by his relatives and asked the groom to take 46 cigarettes. Such a large amount of expenditure makes the groom unbearable, so he is afraid that he will open this head, and there will be endless follow-up.
He wanted the bride and his father-in-law and mother-in-law to come forward and take care of these people, but no one came out for a long time, so he felt that this matter was acquiesced by his father-in-law and mother-in-law, which made him even more uncomfortable, and even began to waver, whether the wedding should continue or not.
If the bride has thought it through, she should be of the same mind as the groom, the wedding is not a place for you to compete, you will live with the groom in the future, not with relatives, don't be led by relatives.