#头条创作挑战赛#
Text/Xiao Lili
After the birth of a baby, the future is full of unknowns.
The requirements for parents are not high, at least the quality of life cannot be lower than their own level, and every parent hopes that their children can live better than themselves.
However, whether the baby's life is good or not is actually related to the original family, and it is also related to the mother's personality, which is very important, mothers don't take it seriously.
If the mother's personality is not good, it will naturally affect the baby, which should be noted. What kind of personality the mother has, it will also directly affect the fate of the baby, and I know the bottom of my heart after reading it.
1. A mother full of routines
Some mothers also like to fight wits in front of their babies, so this kind of baby will most likely be very smart in the future.
Because when the mother is fighting wits and courage, she will also make up white lies to hone the baby's patience.
Because from childhood to adulthood, there will never be less losses, especially in the mother, the loss is enough to help the baby improve perseverance, but also to cultivate the baby's patience.
Of course, what is the fate of this kind of baby, at least it can be seen that the baby can be patient, which is beyond many children of the same age, so the baby grows up under the mother's routine, and the happiness index will be very high.
2. Mothers who know how to "show weakness".
Showing weakness in front of the baby does not mean that the mother is weak, but this practice can make the baby feel her own importance, and it can also cultivate the baby's self-confidence.
As:
When letting your baby eat
Don't say: Eat quickly, and throw it away when it gets cold.
I want to say: Mom's stomach is growling, can you accompany my mother to eat together~
Mothers who know how to show weakness will have a more responsible sense of responsibility and leadership skills in the future, which will be helpful to work and family.
3. Recital child 妈妈
Straight mothers can also affect their baby's mental health.
There are many shortcomings in the baby's growth, if the mother is still straight to poke the baby's pain points, it will also make the baby's heart be hit, become no self-confidence, and become very timid, etc.
For example, the same child is running around.
A smart mom will say, "Can you wait mommy?"
Straight mothers will say: Run so fast to wrestle, don't run too fast.
If your child fails an exam:
Smart Mom: You are the best in your mother's heart, fail this time and work hard next time.
Straight mothers: may directly belittle, compare, and abuse their children.
What is the fate of the child in the future, it is generally in the hands of the mother, so the mother should also set a good example and cultivate a priority baby, and the happiness index of the baby will be higher.