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Women, when facing feelings, often try their best to find a man, not necessarily handsome, rich, but must be the one who knows cold and hot and puts himself in his heart!
However, sensual women often do not have the ability to distinguish whether a man's identification of the relationship is true or false!
Women under the influence of sensibility are most likely to define men's identification and men's "abnormal" behaviors in the following ways when facing feelings:
1: He was also intimate with me and proved to be interested in me;
2: He also gave me occasional care, proving that he still loves me;
3: He didn't mention that he was separated from me, which proves that he still likes me;
4: He also accepts my dedication and my care and does not reject my approach, which proves that he still has a high degree of identification with me!
Then, according to these definitions, it finally boils down to – the man is just busy, the man is just stressed out lately, and the man is just angry......
In fact, there are not so many "justs" for men.
He can be busy, stressed, and unhappy, so he will never ignore your feelings.
A person who can't give you the least sense of security and steadfastness is suspicious of your identity!
Men don't identify with a woman, most of them are indifferent and ruthless neglect!
And if a man identifies a woman, the answer can be explained in 2 words, that is, "warm"!
In fact, these 3 "warm" are the traces that men really identify with you:
1: The motivation to communicate with you is very warm
Why should communication be described as "dynamic"?
That's because they are willing to share with you and identify with you from the bottom of their hearts, so whether you are happy or unhappy, the other party will be motivated to communicate with you:
Communication, which is the sharing of nonsense, is the suggestion and discussion of effective problems;
When you are unhappy, communication is to grasp the key point of solving the problem, and it is to patiently solve the problem with you, rather than making the problem stiff!
The person who thinks you're going to be busy, but he's busy won't make you question it. He will be unhappy, but he will give you the source of his unhappiness when you take the initiative to communicate, and he will take the initiative to talk to you without even waiting for you to ask......
Because, the man who identifies you, all the starting points are for the purpose of "being together"!
And a man who doesn't identify with you will use bad communication or refusal to communicate to push you far, far away!
2: The motivation to give you protection is warm
Men are very protective heroes, but they will only spare no effort to protect the women they identify!
Therefore, you will see that those women who are recognized by men never need to be very brave, but most of them are as weak as weak.
Because, a woman who can be protected by a man is very confident in her heart all the time!
If you think that this heroic protection of women by men is the aftermath of women's troubles, then you are wrong!
In fact, a man's protection of a woman is not allowed to allow anyone to "bully her", not even himself!
And those men who have no identification with women, no matter how wronged women are, what he brings to women is either indifference or denial and abuse.
Those who have been bullied have suffered a lot of anger, and they have to bear the stabbing of men...... Then you are not looking for a real man to spend the rest of your life with, but an enemy!
A man who can identify you may not be good at words, but he must be a person who can do his best to protect you.
3: The motivation that makes you see the light is very warm
Identify your men, all of them are conditional:
When he is with you, he can really feel good and worthwhile!
These are worthwhile, including the satisfaction of the spiritual world, the satisfaction of life management, the two satisfactions plus the love of hormones and the love of identification, then this man must be you!
A man who is not indispensable to you naturally wants to tell the world about his relationship with you.
A man who doesn't let you see the light is enough to show that you don't meet his value needs enough, so you don't want people to know your relationship because you don't recognize you!
Remember:
A man who can't let you see the light of day is a backup choice for your relationship!
The love between men and women is not the lonely fulfillment of wishful thinking!
Only by going both ways, can we meet the right person to the greatest extent because of mutual value satisfaction and mutual recognition!
If a relationship makes you feel insecure and steady, but you are always overloaded with self-consumption in a state of unmet needs, then you must have found the wrong person!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it's love or friendship, the right time and the right person can achieve positive results!
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Topic discussion: Do you think that women's identification of men is dominated by emotional components?