In the years of youth, there are always stories that make people sigh. Recently, a news about the 21-year-old national service sparring partner "Fat Cat" who committed suicide by jumping into the river due to emotional frustration caused an uproar on the Internet. This young boy chose an extreme way to end his life for the sake of love!
Overview of the event
It is reported that "Fat Cat" and Tan, a female netizen 6 years older than him, met two years ago, and the two quickly fell in love. In this relationship, the "fat cat" put in a huge effort.
He not only made money by playing games, transferred up to 510,000 yuan for Tan, but also rented a house and opened a store for her, hoping to give her a bright future. However, such efforts have not been exchanged for long-term happiness.
In order to save money, the "fat cat" took a green train from Hunan to the unfamiliar Chongqing, where he lived in a simple rental house and ate cheap takeaways.
Although he is highly invested in the work of playing with him, working more than 16 hours a day, he is very strict with himself, and even the price difference of a few cents for takeaways has to be calculated.
However, he was very generous to his girlfriend Tan, frequently transferring hundreds of thousands of yuan, and even investing in a flower shop for her. The contrast is poignant.
In the hours leading up to the breakup, "Fat Cat" was still trying to salvage the relationship. He transferred 60,006 to his girlfriend and remarked "voluntary gift",
At the same time, he also ordered thousands of flowers to express his love to his girlfriend. But all these efforts failed to win back his girlfriend's heart. In the end, "Fat Cat" chose the extreme path of suicide by jumping into the river.
The behavior of both sides has caused heated discussions
Many people expressed anger at this matter and did not understand why Tan was so ruthless, and some netizens summarized the following points.
First, Tan may have used the "fat cat" to carry out long-term emotional manipulation of her feelings. She may use some means, such as PUA, to make the "fat cat" deeply dependent and trust her, and then constantly ask for material satisfaction.
When her needs are met or she loses interest in the "fat cat", she may choose to be cold and violent or break up outright, without taking into account the "fat cat's" feelings.
Second, she lacks empathy for others and cannot understand the efforts and sacrifices that "Fat Cat" has made for her.
Third, very selfishFrom some descriptions, it can be seen that Tan seems to use the "fat cat" as an ATM and will only contact him when he needs money.
Some netizens think that the "fat cat" approach is very irrational, and some people just love to be wronged, and they are willing to be led by the nose and do not listen to people's persuasion.
He thought that through continuous giving and transfer, he could win the heart of that woman and get the guarantee of love. However, he was wrong, wildly wrong. He meets a ruthless, risk-conscious woman who values only his money, not his people.
Lost ego, lost reason
Perhaps in the world of e-sports, winning is everything, and trophies and honors are like poison that erodes the hearts of those enthusiastic young people.
His life seemed to have become a gamble from which there was no turning back. For a result, for a guarantee, he pinned all his hopes on a woman, but he never thought that all this was just a dream woven by himself.
He didn't realize that this woman was nothing more than a ruthless liar who would only squeeze his money out again and again without giving him anything in return.
And what about that woman? She has neither charm nor morality. She only knows how to take advantage of the fat cat's feelings to cheat him out of money. She doesn't care about the fat cat's feelings, she doesn't care about his efforts, she only cares about how much benefit she can get.
Write at the end
What happened to my sister is heartbreaking, but I don't think it's just a girl to blame for a guy being so extreme.
If her family can give the boy enough respect, understanding and support, let him know his worth and feel true love, how can they go to the end of the road for that little illusory warmth?
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