Before reading, I would like to remind you that this article is for informational entertainment only and should not be superstitious!
"The family has family rules, and the door has the door style", an old saying, which shows the importance of the family. The door, as the first line of defense of the home, has carried the dual meaning of guarding and showing the family style since ancient times.
As the old saying goes: "If you don't let go of the door, you will lose if you let go of the house", this seemingly mysterious saying, in fact, contains the wisdom and life philosophy of the ancients for home feng shui.
Let's have fun today, explore the deep meaning behind the "five don't let go", and maybe give a small renovation to your own doorstep and add a bit of elegance.
"Thousands of households always replace the new peach with the old one. Wang Anshi's "Yuan Ri" depicts a picture of the New Year's removal of the old and the new. The door, as the face of the home, is not only about the beauty, but also affects the aura and mood of the home.
So, what are the five things that should not be placed in front of the door, so as not to "lose the home"?
1. Dilapidated shoes, bad luck do not enter the door
Kong Rong, the twentieth grandson of Confucius, is known for his erudition, loyalty and outspokenness. You Heng, the word is flat, and he is also talented, but he is arrogant and informal. Although the two have very different personalities, they have formed an indissoluble bond because of their common literary attainments and like-minded interests.
One day, Kong Rong got a brand-new gorgeous costume, with high-quality fabrics and exquisite craftsmanship, which showed his style of literati and elegance when worn on his body. He was overjoyed, and remembered his best friend You Heng, so he wanted to share this joy, so he invited You Heng to come to the house to enjoy the beautiful clothes. However, when You Heng arrived, when he saw Kong Rong wearing new clothes, instead of envy, he smiled and said: "Brother Wenju, although the clothes are new and the friendship is old, the old robe of My Guanjun, although the color has faded, it carries countless memories of knowing and intersecting, how can this new clothes be replaced?"
After hearing this, Kong Rong's heart was moved, and he realized that in this flashy world, what is truly worth cherishing is those friendships that can stand the test of time. The two immediately changed back into their old robes, boiled tea around the stove, and talked about the past and the present, and the deep friendship that transcended material things became more and more precious under the precipitation of the years.
"Clothes are not as good as new, and people are not as good as before. Although the original meaning of this proverb was to describe the emotional bond between people, it is also appropriate to borrow it for shoes. A pair of worn shoes, especially those that have been worn beyond recognition, seem to become a symbol of bad luck and exhaustion.
Let us recall the teachings of the ancients, who believed that if a house is left with tattered objects in front of its door, the overall fortune of the family is likely to deteriorate. It's like inadvertently putting on shoes full of bad luck, and every step seems heavy and difficult.
"The Yellow Emperor's Neijing" has a saying: "If the form is weak, the essence is insufficient, if the essence is insufficient, it will produce cold, and if it is cold, the yang qi will not be solid." Although we are talking about the human body, we might as well extend it to the objects of life. Worn-out shoes are like a weak body, unable to hold on to the original spirit, and it is easy for bad luck to take advantage of it.
"The road under your feet is the trajectory of yesterday and the prophecy of tomorrow. "Yes, the shoes under our feet carry the road we have traveled and also indicate the direction of our future.
So why not get a new pair of shoes and let them be like beacons of light to guide us on the way home?
Second, the mirror looks at the door, reflecting auspiciousness
Mirrors, a daily object, have played an important role in people's lives since ancient times with their unique reflection and refraction functions.
However, when the mirror is placed opposite the door, which is an important air outlet in the home, it can cause a series of feng shui problems.
The door is an important outlet in the aura of the home, and it controls the flow of the house's luck. And the mirror, as the name suggests, means "mirror", reflecting everything in front of you. When the mirror is placed facing the doorway, it will not only reflect the clutter of the outside world into the room, disturbing the peace and harmony of the home, but also may adversely affect the health and fortune of the family.
As the ancients said, "Water can carry a boat, but it can also capsize a boat." This phrase could not be more apt to describe the role of mirrors. Mirrors can beautify the space of the home and add a sense of fashion and modernity to the home, however, if they are not placed properly, they may suffer from them and bring unnecessary distress to the home.
There is a saying in "Treatise on Typhoid Fever": "Yin and Yang are compatible, and their qi is action." This reminds us that the layout and furnishings of the home should follow the principle of yin and yang balance in order to ensure the harmony of the aura in the home and thus promote the physical and mental health of the family.
As the saying goes: "The mirror is opposite the door, and the God of Wealth does not enter the door." Although this sentence is an exaggeration, it also reflects the possible adverse effects of mirrors on the placement of doors.
3. Sharp things, sharp and restrained
Since ancient times, sharp objects have been revered for their sharpness. Scissors, knives and other items are indispensable in daily life, but the evil spirit they carry is often overlooked.
In traditional culture, sharp objects are seen as destructive forces that can break the harmony of the home if left unattended.
There is a saying in the ancient book "Book of Changes": "Tianxingjian, the gentleman is self-improving; This reminds us that we should strive for harmony and tolerance in our lives, rather than being overwhelmed.
If sharp objects are placed at will, they are like sharp swords unsheathed, which can easily lead to disputes and conflicts. In front of the door is the face of the home, but also the intersection of the aura, if a sharp object is placed here, it will undoubtedly increase the tension in the home, and even lead to a quarrel between family members.
As the saying goes: "Harmony produces wealth, and anger invites disaster." This quote profoundly reveals the world of difference between harmony and dispute. Harmony brings wealth and happiness, while strife only leads to disaster and misfortune.
According to legend, in ancient times, there was an immortal named Lu Dongbin, who often held a sharp sword to kill demons and protect the people. However, he never pulls out his sword easily at home, but keeps it in its proper possession. Someone asked him why he was like this, and Lu Dongbin replied: "The sword is a murder weapon, and it should not be used lightly unless it is necessary." "This story tells us that even immortals know how to restrain their edge at home and value harmony.
Fourth, withered plants, no longer vigorous
Plants, as a gift from nature, have always been a symbol of life and vitality. They decorate our living environment with their emerald green posture, not only purifying the air, but also bringing visual pleasure.
When these plants wither and wither, they lose their former vigor and vitality and become dilapidated.
It was mentioned in the "Complete Book of Agricultural Administration": "The life of plants and trees is suitable for each one." "This tells us that every plant has its best environment to grow, and if the environment is not right, the plant will wither and die.
If withered plants are placed in front of the door, not only will they not add life to the home, but will look lifeless and affect the overall atmosphere of the home.
The ancients had a saying: "Flowers are not red for a hundred days." "Although flowers can't bloom forever, we can choose vibrant greenery instead. Their long-lasting greenery can continue to bring vitality and hope to the home.
This is similar to the "borrowing scenery" technique in ancient garden design, which is to introduce natural elements to make the home environment more harmonious and natural.
There is a proverb in ancient and modern folk: "People raise flowers, and flowers raise people." This sentence speaks to the interrelationship between humans and plants.
Vibrant green plants can not only purify the air, but also cultivate our sentiments and cultivate our patience and love in the process of maintenance.
Fifth, the accumulation of debris, qi stagnation is difficult
The door, as the first scenery of the home, carries the dual responsibility of welcoming guests and showing the owner's taste. In ancient and modern Chinese and foreign stories, it is not difficult to find that a neat doorway often indicates the prosperity and harmony of the family, while the accumulation of sundries is often regarded as a symbol of the middle and fall of the family.
There is a saying in "Chu Ci Lisao": "The road is long, and I will go up and down to seek." It is intended to express the long and difficult journey of life, which requires continuous exploration and moving forward.
The door of the house is like the starting point of this life path, if you are trapped by clutter, how can you travel lightly and move forward bravely?
Gu Shiyun: "The thatched eaves are long and clean without moss, and the flowers and trees are planted by hand." "The poet expresses his yearning for a fresh, elegant life by depicting a neat abode. A clean door is not only a window to show the style of the owner's home, but also a necessity to maintain family harmony and health internally.
As the saying goes: "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world." This sentence is a metaphor for sweeping a house, illustrating the importance of starting small and paying attention to details. The accumulation of debris at the door seems to be a trivial matter, but it is actually related to the overall fortune of the family and the quality of life of the family.
In ancient Greek mythology, there is a story about Poseidon, the god of the sea, who was dissatisfied with the arrogance and impurity of human beings, struck the ground with a trident, causing a flood. While this is just a legend, it also serves as a warning that keeping tidy is not only a sign of respect for oneself, but also of reverence for the gods. A cluttered doorway is likely to invite unnecessary trouble and disaster.
To sum up, the saying "don't let go of the door" actually contains the ancients' pursuit of harmony in the living environment and balance of mental state.
In modern society, we learn from this wisdom to make the living space more tidy and harmonious, which is a fun practice to improve the quality of life.
Home is our haven and the habitat of the soul, let us manage with our hearts, let the door of happiness always be open, and welcome every warm day.