Preface
As the saying goes: life is impermanent.
At 4 a.m. on April 11, 2024, a tragedy occurred on the Chongqing Bridge, where a young boy who was only 21 years old jumped off the bridge and ended his life.
Who would have thought that a usually lively and cheerful young man would choose such an ending?
The reason for the incident was that the fat cat's sister accidentally discovered the chat history between him and his ex-girlfriend Tan Zhu.
It turned out that during the relationship between Fat Cat and Tan Zhu, he was PUA by the other party, not only lost 510,000 hard-earned money, but also experienced the double blow of breaking up and being split.
All this culminated in his tragedy at the Yangtze River Bridge in Chongqing.
The cause of the incident
The 21-year-old young man's online name is "Fat Cat", and he is a game booster with a good income.
After meeting his girlfriend, in order to please her, he began to cut back on food and clothing, and even his favorite McDonald's was reluctant to eat, so he really gave it wholeheartedly.
Fat Cat's sister broke the news on social platforms that during the relationship between Fat Cat and his ex-girlfriend Tan Zhu, he was manipulated by Tan Zhu PUA, not only lost 510,000, but was also split in the end, which was found in their chat records.
On April 11, the fat cat committed suicide by jumping into the Yangtze River Bridge.
In response, Tan Zhu responded that the two had been dating for two and a half years, and she only spent 350,000 yuan on him, and some of them had been returned. She also said that the fat cat put a lot of pressure on her.
The fat cat's sister and Tan Zhu have their own opinions, and it is difficult to distinguish between true and false. After reading the chat history, netizens were very angry and puzzled.
From the screenshot, it can be seen that the boy has been meeting the woman's money requirements, and he is basically responsive. Boys work hard to make money just to satisfy the "gold swallowing beast". See screenshot for details.
As the matter fermented, Tan posted a clarification late at night, and later deleted it, but it has been saved by netizens in screenshots.
She said that the two met because of a game, and later dated seriously, often quarreled over trivial matters, and she drank and sent to the hospital because she couldn't accept the breakup, hoping to get back together. Tan felt that he was old, and always tried to coax him.
She also clarified a few points: she really liked the guy and did not cheat him out of his money; she never used PUA techniques, but persuaded him not to be too tired; she was very sad to learn that the guy died, and she offered incense to his temple, and even needed psychological treatment.
The following is her own public opinion clarification: a total of more than a dozen.
There is also a screenshot of her chat with the deceased's sister:
This is to tell us that the boy has a bad personality and you have been saving him?
And when talking to friends:
This whole thing is confusing. It's a shame that a 21-year-old guy passed away. Judging from the chat records, the fat cat is very invested in this relationship, and is unwilling to let go even in the face of a breakup.
If what Tan said is true, the matter is even more complicated. It's really hard to say who's right and who's wrong.
For the woman, even if she is true love, she should let go as soon as possible if she finds it inappropriate, so as not to let the man give too much.
For the man, knowing that it may not work out, he should give up earlier. However, if you love too deeply, sometimes you just can't extricate yourself. Is it really worth ending your life?
How sad it is to think of his parents and family!
Fat Cat puts all his thoughts on his girlfriend, and when she leaves, he feels like his mental support has completely collapsed.
On April 11, realizing that he could no longer win back his girlfriend's heart, Fat Cat felt disillusioned and decided to end his life. Seven hours before jumping into the river, he also transferred the last sum of 66,000 yuan to Tan Zhu and ordered 780 flowers from her flower shop, hoping to express his deep affection in this way.
However, none of this touched her heart.
Black material broke out
Tan Zhu's defense is indeed unconvincing. She has been with Fat Cat for more than two years and should know him very well. Considering that her expenses are quite large, the fat cat can't support it if he doesn't work hard to make money, so he will inevitably look cold when he devotes all his time to work.
At the same time, the emotions on the Internet are also very excited, and some netizens even dug up photos of Tan Zhu and her best friend, judging from the photos, Tan Zhu's appearance is not outstanding, which makes people even more puzzled about how she made the fat cat so trapped.
In addition, some netizens exposed her ID photo, which showed her mediocre appearance, which triggered speculation among netizens that she might have had plastic surgery.
With the further fermentation of the incident, the excavation of netizens revealed more of Tan Zhu's inglorious history.
It was revealed that before opening the flower shop, she worked at KTV, during which she was suspected of luring money from a number of male customers.
This information provides context for the case of the fat cat being scammed, showing how an inexperienced young man can be exploited by a veteran who wanders emotionally and financially.
My sister crying and complaining will not reconcile
On the evening of May 3, Fat Cat's sister started the live broadcast, in order to avoid unnecessary explanations, she deliberately turned off the tipping function during the live broadcast, although many netizens repeatedly asked her to turn on the tip.
During the live broadcast, she firmly stated: "I can't exchange my brother's death for money. This move won widespread respect and understanding from the audience.
During the live broadcast, Sister Fat Cat also clarified some rumors on the Internet. It is rumored that the fat cat spent more than 1.8 million on Tan Zhu, but my sister clearly denied this.
In the live broadcast, Fat Cat's sister detailed the situation of the money transaction: Fat Cat transferred a total of 510,000 to Tan Zhu, and Tan Zhu has returned more than 130,000 so far, and 370,000 has not yet been returned.
But Tan Zhu has his own version of this matter. She said that in the more than two years she has been dating the fat cat, she has used about 350,000 in total, instead of the 510,000 as rumored by the outside world. Tan Zhu also pointed out that after the fat cat's accident, the police intervened in the investigation, and on April 12, through negotiation, she returned more than 136,000 yuan to the fat cat's family. And there are screenshots of her chatting with the fat cat dad as evidence:
According to her, the parties also signed a settlement at that time.
Tan Zhu said that although a settlement had been reached, the fat cat's family suddenly changed its position the next day and began to claim that she had actually spent 510,000 yuan.
The deceased is gone, and we still leave these disputes to the police.
In the live broadcast room, the fat cat's sister also showed her brother's cremation certificate, telling everyone that the fat cat had been properly dealt with and rested in peace.
Regarding the relationship with Tan Zhu, the fat cat's sister revealed that Tan Zhu had taken the initiative to contact her, hoping to reconcile, but she resolutely refused.
She made it clear during the live broadcast: "I will never reconcile. ”
It's too late, I'm sorry.
Netizens are worried about him
After reading the story of this "pure love boy", many netizens left messages, which made people teary-eyed:
This is a screenshot of the fat cat and his friends before his death, and it also appeared in the comment area, and it was very uncomfortable to read it:
In order to commemorate the fat cat, the first five avatars of Mengqi in the national costume have been changed:
Some netizens picked up a photo of a ten-year-old fat cat eating McDonald's for the first time 11 years ago:
Neat and healing, I hope he will be happy in heaven:
Write at the end
I don't know the full picture, so I won't comment.
A fair assessment can only be made if the whole picture is understood. Each party in the relationship has to give, and only when we have a clear conscience can our hearts be free of regrets.
May the departed rest in peace and have a good journey. At the same time, we also hope that "Fat Cat" can find the perfect love he dreams of in another world and be able to treat himself well. In the face of such a tragedy, we remind everyone to cherish life and pay attention to mental health to prevent similar incidents from happening again.
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