Cold violence is a very torturous emotional barrier in love and marriage.
Cold violence In the period of love, whether it is a man or a woman, their ultimate long-cherished wish is to achieve the long-awaited luxury in their hearts.
Or maybe it's a sentence you inadvertently said that touched the vibration in her heart. The response she has to take to you makes you do a deep soul-searching yourself.
However, cold violence must not be too long. Because it takes too long, it will stretch out more contradictions. In the end, it becomes an estrangement that cannot be healed, and if you have to grasp the scale of cold violence, then you can increase the temperature of the relationship between you.
In the face of a woman's frequent use of cold violence, it is a test of your patience and loyalty to love her. Men need to break the ice. Use your warm embrace to melt her already cold heart, or dashing disdain, you have to make a decisive choice.
Therefore, you must know that in the face of women's "cold violence", smart men will not entangle, but fight back with these 4 ways!
01
Appropriately use a tough attitude to make her understand that she doesn't have to be
Men sometimes, don't behave too cowardly in front of women.
may be because of the fear of a woman leaving, especially when you attach importance to this relationship, what you show is a bottomless tolerance, and even obey a woman's words.
If you have been like this, women will not cherish you and may take your love for granted.
At this time, you should use a strong attitude to directly express what you want to say, maybe women will feel that you are very responsible at this time, may love you more, and slowly know how to cherish you.
02
Take the initiative to go to the woman and tell her that cold violence will not solve anything
Feelings are a matter of two people, and maybe you will be a little overwhelmed in the process of dating, or even unable to understand each other's thoughts, which will cause some unnecessary conflicts.
At this time, most women may care about each other's thoughts, but they don't know how to ease the feelings of two people, so they choose cold violence.
Cold violence is the biggest killer in the relationship, and men must clearly tell women that the more violence is used, the more they cannot solve the problem, but they should sit together calmly to solve the conflict.
03
Don't contact her too often
Men have to learn to be calm and reserved, and no matter how much you love someone, you have to be reserved.
If she uses cold violence against you, you don't have to stalk you anymore, and contacting her too often will only make her disgusted and think that you are a bargain.
Instead of sticking a hot face to a cold ass and letting yourself be wronged, it is better to raise your posture and behave lightly.
In the relationship, whoever can't hold his breath first loses. Concentrate on doing what you want to do, do what you have to do, but just don't contact her! Remember: the more you take the initiative to contact, the less he will cherish you.
04
Lower your profile and actively introspect
In fact, the "cold violence" itself is an avoidance of the outcome. Therefore, if you want to deal with "cold violence", you must first learn to introspect.
The perpetrators of "cold violence" are mostly self-centered people, and their first reaction after encountering a problem is to avoid it, and there are also some people who know that they are wrong, but because they really can't hate themselves, they have to push the responsibility to others.
In a relationship, there is nothing more scummy than "cold violence". Because arguments can at least vent and communicate, while "cold violence" directly blocks all contact with you, allowing your spirit to suffer indescribable torment.
Therefore, once you find that a woman is "cold and violent", you must learn to lower your posture, actively introspect, find the source of the problem, and do not give the other party an excuse to avoid it.
05
Emotional message
The most important thing in feelings is tolerance, and the more intimate you are, the more difficult it is to be tolerant.
If two people can communicate and exchange effectively in a relationship, then they may avoid a lot of quarrels, and even more so avoid women's cold violence.
The reason why a woman engages in cold violence is precisely because she wants to get your attention to her, hoping that you can understand her thoughts and learn from her views on things, rather than really wanting two people to quarrel and make the relationship worse.
Men with high emotional intelligence can deal with these problems well, so they will live more freely in the relationship, and women will not be cold and violent to him.
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