In the course of life's journey, many people have been imprisoned by various shackles and shackles, and have voluntarily become slaves to power and wealth.
Maybe this has been the case since ancient times, otherwise the ancients would not have felt that having money is the truth that can solve many problems.
In the vast sea of people, there are no absolutes. However, many people are still pursuing higher goals, hoping to stand on different heights and achieve their dreams.
Because of this, they are unable to express their exhaustion and must put on a smiling face and constantly maintain a good relationship with everyone to ensure that the path to success is not hindered. It is a difficult and necessary task that requires effort at all times.
Life is already difficult, and everyone has to bear the pressure of society and deal with the challenges of life. This is a universal reality that cannot be ignored.
Although there are no guidelines for how to live, the values of society will always quietly intervene in our decision-making and become imperceptible norms.
In fact, no matter what lifestyle you choose, you can live a wonderful and beautiful life. The most important thing is that you can live comfortably. That's the key.
Everyone has their own destiny, and money is just something outside of the body. There is no need to be overly demanding, and you should not look above your head. It's not worth it to bow your head and beg for a few bills, to cater to people or things you don't like. Therefore, letting go of the shackles of wealth and living in harmony with one's own heart is the true way to happiness.
To live with self-esteem and self-confidence, after all, life is precious, and dignity is worth pursuing.
Not desperately pursuing fame and fortune does not mean that you lack ambition, but because you harbor a sense of pride.
Don't care too much about what others think of you, just be clear about your true goals and aspirations, and make the right effort to do so. Don't give too much weight to other people's opinions, stay confident and firm, go your own way, and let others judge.
It's not easy to be a person who is recognized by the outside world, and it requires you to have a certain amount of talent and give up your truest self on top of that.
Instead of this, it is better to simply be an ordinary person, not to deliberately fit into the group, let alone bother to please others, just need to be yourself.
Life is not to live for others, but for yourself. The words of others are for reference only, but should not influence our decisions.
What's more, you have become a mature person who has the right to make appropriate decisions for your future.
The people who judge you don't really know you at all. They think they're the savior, but they don't know how much pain you've been through.
When you succeed, they will naturally surround you and try to please you, but when you fail, they will laugh at you and speak ill of you. It's a sign of humanity, but we should continue to support each other in difficult times.
Rather than being distracted by them and trying to accommodate and curry favor, it is better to listen to your inner voice.
If you don't belong to a group, even if you force yourself in, you will only be ridiculed and treated with indifference, and you will never be able to look up confidently.
Trying your best to please others will only make them look down on you, and they will even command you with peace of mind, resulting in you not being able to straighten your waist for the rest of your life. Such behavior should be avoided.
You should understand that those people do not do you any good in your life and will affect your self-esteem and waste your time and energy. Learn to keep your bottom line, stay away from these people, and focus on what you're pursuing.
Don't waste time dealing with people who put your mind to it, but leave it to your friends and family. They're the ones who really care about you.
Your work and life have exhausted you, so why force yourself to do things you don't want to do, say things you don't want to say?
Before you do anything, ask yourself if you really want to. If you don't want to do it, don't push yourself and act on your own ideas. It's about respecting and protecting yourself. Let's be clear about our true feelings and say goodbye to compulsion and hypocrisy.
After all, you're insignificant to them. Increasing/subtracting one person doesn't make much of a difference, so you don't have to be bored.
Without you, they would still be together and even more joyful. It's just that without your boasting, it may be a little unaccustomed.
In this world, we will meet many people, but not everyone is related to us, and there is no need to go to great lengths to please everyone. Relax our minds and maintain a normal way of communicating and interacting is what we should do.
Only a saint can win the love of everyone, and you are just an ordinary person, and there is nothing wrong with being an ordinary person.
Self-reliance is better than begging, and even if you are gentle with others, others may not be able to raise their heads when you need help.
Some people are cold and heartless in their hearts, although they are kind on the surface, but in fact, it is difficult for you to penetrate into their hearts. This is a common phenomenon that needs to be faced rationally.
If you are reluctant to live with them, you will feel uneasy, constantly vigilant, and difficult to be free. It is advisable to retreat from it, keep to yourself, and not force yourself to stay with it.
In life, you don't need to deliberately adapt to others, but if something needs to be achieved by relying on intricate relationships, we should weigh the pros and cons.
Perhaps, all you gain is material abundance, but at the cost of your time, energy, and true self.
There's really no need for that, you're just an ordinary person, there's no need to expect everyone to like you.
People who are worthy of dating will naturally be attracted to the real you, and they will take the initiative to choose to get closer to each other and exchange sincerity for sincerity.
Wearing a mask for a long time will only attract superficial friends who have no real meaning. It is advisable not to overly pursue the approval of others, but to stick to oneself.
There are not many people in life who can get along well, and the nobility of the soul is better than the abundance of the material. Loneliness is not terrible, as long as you get along with yourself, why worry? This is the true meaning of life.
Those who are unwilling to get to know you often do not take the initiative to approach you. If you want to maintain this relationship, it is not easy to achieve it on your own.
We can live the life of ordinary people, only focus on the people and things we are interested in, and do not force ourselves to join social groups that are not suitable for us, and we do not need to deliberately cater to people who do not like us. Let's live more easily and naturally.
Even if you are accompanied by a lonely shadow, you will not feel lonely, but will bring a sense of stability and relaxation.