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In the traditional concept of the mainland, the elderly are always highly respected, they not only have rich life experience, but also have their own set of ways of seeing the world and doing things, and the elderly are also indispensable for the family.
However, with the continuous development of society, people's pace of life is getting faster and faster, and many people have not been able to accompany the elderly by their side, so in order to provide a better living environment for the elderly and allow them to get better care, many people choose to send their parents to nursing homes.
However, the service quality and environment of nursing homes have a crucial impact on the mental health and quality of life of the elderly, so the elderly people's requirements for nursing homes are getting higher and higher, and many elderly people do not adapt to the environment of nursing homes and want to go home.
So are there any elderly people who ask to go home in less than a month after being admitted to a nursing home?
What kind of stories do they have?
1. Yu Mulian was admitted to a nursing home.
Yu Mulian, a native of Jiangsu, born in 1935, is a famous Chinese theater performance artist, she is a national first-class actor, has participated in many performances at home and abroad, is a very good actor.
Yu Mulian's life can be described as very bumpy, she had an unhappy marriage experience when she was young, and she has not been pregnant for several years after marriage, and later when she went to the hospital for examination, it was found that she had uterine fibroids and could not get pregnant.
Therefore, her husband began to suspect that she was lying to herself, and in the end, the contradiction between them became bigger and bigger, and Yu Mulian's husband even beat her, so Yu Mulian finally chose to divorce.
After the divorce, Yu Mulian was very sad, so she devoted her life to work, she firmly believed that only through her own efforts can she find her own value in this world, so she worked on the stage during the day and the theater at night.
She worked very hard and was recognized by others in her work, and eventually she became a national first-class actress with a generous performance fee, and she also trained new actors in her studio.
However, in her acting career, Yu Mulian also encountered many difficulties, such as when she was 40 years old, because of too much work pressure, her body had a condition, and her heart beat irregularly, which caused her life to be greatly affected.
At the same time, she also suffered from hyperthyroidism, so her weight was constantly decreasing, her physical condition was getting worse and worse, and eventually she fell ill in her studio and was taken to the hospital for resuscitation.
In the hospital, her condition was finally brought under control, her condition improved, and she also met her second husband, and the two took care of each other, and her condition improved a lot.
But after the death of her second husband, Yu Mulian encountered some troubles, and her body was slowly deteriorating, so her relatives advised her to take care of her body and then enjoy her old age, so Yu Mulian chose to retire.
In 2017, Yu Mulian moved into a nursing home in Shanghai, and her son and daughter are also in Shanghai, so they can visit their mother at any time and take care of their mother.
After Yu Mulian was admitted to the nursing home, her living conditions became very superior, she was taken care of, and she was able to get timely treatment, and the environment of the nursing home was also very beautiful, so Yu Mulian's children were also relieved a lot.
Yu Mulian has a lifetime savings, her own studio, and her own real estate, so she can still live on her own without borrowing money from others, and her real estate is worth several million, and there are hundreds of thousands of savings.
At the same time, Yu Mulian's son and daughter are also very good to her, they will often visit their mother and bring some dishes they make for their mother to eat, so that her mother can eat her favorite dishes.
At the same time, Yu Mulian's daughter is also an actor, and her sister is also an actor, so in 2018, her daughter received a filming task for a TV series, and during the filming, it was difficult for her to take care of her mother, so she hired a maid to take care of her mother.
However, after Yu Mulian was admitted to the nursing home, she felt uncomfortable in less than a month, she showed physical and psychological distress, she was dissatisfied with the environment and care of the nursing home, she insisted on her living habits and dignity, so she longed to go home.
2. Not adapting to the life of a nursing home.
Yu Mulian's care in the nursing home is taken care of by a servant, so her life in the nursing home is also relatively casual, and when her maid cooks for her, she just mixes some ingredients together as a meal.
Therefore, Yu Mulian was very unaccustomed to it after eating, so she said to the maid: "Didn't I ask you to cook for me, why is your cooking level so poor, I can't get used to eating such food." ”
Yu Mulian's maid was also very angry after hearing this, she thought that Yu Mulian was deliberately finding fault, so she told Yu Mulian how she cooked, and Yu Mulian also understood, so she also made a few meals for the maid to taste, and the maid was also very satisfied after eating, so Yu Mulian also cooked.
When Yu Mulian cooks, she is also very careful, she will also select the ingredients, and will wash the ingredients, so it is also very difficult when cooking, she insists on her own amount of food, so she is also very particular when cooking, and the cooking time is relatively long.
When the maid was waiting for Yu Mulian to cook, she was very anxious, so she said to Yu Mulian: "Can you be faster when you cook, I'm hungry." ”
Yu Mulian was also very unhappy after hearing this, so she said to the servant: "You are the one who takes care of me, how can you talk to the old man like this, I don't feel at ease if you do this, you better let your employer take care of me." ”
Yu Mulian's life in the nursing home is also very restrained, her daily life is also step-by-step, she can cook, mop the floor, and she will wash her clothes, so her life is also very regular.
But Yu Mulian's life in the nursing home was disturbed by the maid, so she was unhappy, and she also wanted to return to her own life, in addition, Yu Mulian also had a very important reason that she was very relieved about her property, and she was afraid that her property would be sold.
Therefore, Yu Mulian said to her son: "I am not suitable for life here, you let me go home, I can take care of my own life, and you can rest assured, I will not be sick again." ”
3. The condition worsened after returning home.
But Yu Mulian's children were worried about her, so they asked the nursing staff at the nursing home for advice, and the nurse said to Yu Mulian's children: "Your mother is now used to life here, and you can't let her go back." ”
Yu Mulian lived in a nursing home for two years, her physical condition became worse and worse, her face became very hideous, and the nurses couldn't stand it anymore, so they forcibly took her home.
After Yu Mulian returned home, she was also very depressed, and her condition became more and more serious, and finally in 2019, Yu Mulian passed away, and she donated her millions of assets to public welfare in her will. epilogue
Yu Mulian has such a high amount of property, why did she donate her property?
This is because when Yu Mulian was young, she met a lot of artists in the studio, and they were very good with each other, but when Yu Mulian was sick, none of her friends came to visit, so Yu Mulian was very sad.
But when Yu Mulian was sick, a very good friend came to visit, she was Gu Fangzhou, Gu Fangzhou was not only Yu Mulian's good friend, but also Yu Mulian's fan, she also brought food to Yu Mulian when Yu Mulian was sick, so Yu Mulian was very moved, so when she died, she donated her property to Gu Fangzhou, so that she could help those old artists in need.