As the saying goes: it's not strange to have many people.
However, some hospitable behaviors may cause misunderstandings on blind dates.
In the box of a restaurant in Fujian, a blind date became embarrassing because of a man's action of picking vegetables, which eventually led to the man saying goodbye and leaving the girl to pay for herself.
When a man and a blind date girl meet for the first time, it is a beautiful thing, but they never thought that the two sides would break up unhappily.
The incident happened in a box in Fujian, where a man and a girl went on a blind date, and the girl also brought the matchmaker and her own family.
Of course, before meeting, the girl told the man, after all, it was the first time they met, so she simply brought the matchmaker and her family, so that they could help themselves check the gates.
On the man's side, he also brought a matchmaker, but not his family.
So many people eat together, the man in order to facilitate the chat with the girl, specially booked a box, as for the dinner, the man also feels that he can pay a little, as long as the girl really wants to go on a blind date.
After all, reluctant children can't trap wolves.
The matchmaker naturally has nothing to say, and the two look like a good match. The girl's elders also think the man is good, so they eat faster and let the man and the girl talk alone.
In this way, after the elders left, the two were still eating in the box, and the girls ate slowly and ate very gently.
To tell the truth, the man is quite satisfied with the girl, the girl is okay, the height is not short, and the personality is very quiet and ladylike.
I don't know if it's a man's delusion, but I think girls should have a good impression of him.
Therefore, seeing that the girl was eating slowly, the man took the initiative to help her pick up the vegetables, but this action caused the girl's disgust.
She didn't bother to look at the man, so she took out all the dishes that the man had picked up and threw them aside. The girl didn't say anything, but the man could see that she was disgusted with herself.
A girl explained, if it were me, I also hated it. The two are still strangers, just a blind date, you use your own chopsticks to pick up vegetables for her, it doesn't mean that she eats your saliva, the boy wants to take advantage of it, and pretends to be enthusiastic.
Moreover, this behavior is very unhygienic, most people can't accept it, the calculation is the elders picking up vegetables, and some people also feel unclean and saliva.
"If you try to use chopsticks to pick up vegetables, girls won't necessarily dislike it. ”
The girl was speechless and something happened.
Under the pretext of going to the toilet, the man secretly left the restaurant and did not pay for the meal. His reason is that "he should not be wronged", and he spent hundreds of dollars to invite a girl to dinner with her family, but he didn't look down on himself, so he came to eat.
The waiter saw that there was only one girl left in the box, and she was also full, so she took the bill to pay her, and the girl knew that the boy who was on a blind date had run away.
"There is no such man anymore, he is too low, and he can't afford to pay for this meal. ”
A girl complained, "This man is too picky, and he has no demeanor at all." But there are also boys who think: "Girls also have problems, at least give a clear attitude," blind dates still have to pay more attention to details.
In the interaction between men and women, the starting point should be to achieve the beauty of the other party. For the ending of this blind date, we can understand the dissatisfaction of the man and the embarrassment of the girl.
We should all stand in each other's position and consider each other's feelings, so as to avoid unnecessary contradictions and misunderstandings due to some details.
However, I personally feel that since the man agreed to the treat, he is too ungentlemanly. Even if you are not satisfied, you should not avoid paying the bill, which is a basic courtesy and quality. And this kind of behavior will make people think that he has a small belly and has no responsibility.