#头条创作挑战赛#
The troubles of life are rooted in interpersonal relationships, and the energy is mostly consumed in secular entertainment.
A wise person is not entangled in trivial matters, but is committed to the path of self-growth.
I gradually realized that the highest level of interpersonal communication lies in getting along well, trusting each other, and relying on each other.
Get along well
In interpersonal relationships, the biggest gap is not the difference in external conditions such as disparity in status, economic status, educational background or appearance, but the divergence of internal values.
The disagreement between the three views is often the root cause of people drifting apart, and only the resonance in the depths of the soul can allow the two to work together and illuminate every inch of each other's lives.
There is a fable about two young men meeting to climb the same mountain.
One person walked like a fly, and was the first to reach the summit, with a magnificent view of the sea, while the other stopped halfway up the mountain, and there was only gravel and grass in front of him.
On the way home, the former excitedly described the beautiful scenery at the top of the mountain and longed to visit again, while the latter complained about the difficult journey and thought what they saw was not worth the trip.
The two insist on their own words and argue endlessly, but they both ignore the difference in perspective—a mountaintop, a mountainside, naturally appreciate different scenery and form a completely different cognition.
The level of cognition varies greatly from person to person. Forcing communication with people who do not agree with the concept is nothing more than playing the piano to the cow, which only increases the trouble. On the contrary, getting along with people with the same frequency can understand and complement each other, just like the harmonious resonance of two hearts.
Just like a pair of shoes, they may not look flashy, but as long as they are the right size, they will be comfortable and can support long walks.
In the journey of interpersonal communication, finding the right tacit understanding is far better than the glamorous match on the surface.
Trust each other
Honesty is the foundation of friendship to warm the heart of the friendship and avoid its coldness, and mutual trust can be in the impermanence of the world, side by side.
Eternal love is not built overnight, but it is built by the trust accumulated over time.
In him, you can reveal your vulnerability, and his troubles also touch your heart.
When getting along, there is no need to be defensive, outspoken, and sincere emotions.
At the moment, there is no better relationship than mutual trust, and the most precious friendship is someone who is willing to do their best for you.
No one is perfect, and no one can meet all hopes.
If you are suspicious because of slight flaws, or if you are afraid of hurt and close your heart, you will eventually regret it.
If you want to be understood, you must first be respected, and if you want to care, you must first sow warmth.
Trust is a mirror image of each other, and sincerity requires heart-to-heart.
Only by becoming a reliable person can we meet with sincerity and meet the soul who also treats each other with sincerity.
Lean on one another
The key to judging whether a person is worthy of in-depth association and long-term companionship is his reliability.
Walk the talk, integrity first.
A truly reliable person must fulfill his promises, and there are guidelines for intercourse with others. They will not be profit-oriented, turn their backs on morality, and will not be left alone in difficult situations, leaving you alone to face them.
Stand upright and have clear principles.
The criterion of behavior of reliable people is conscience, and the principle of intolerance makes them rather suffer than take advantage of undeserved.
Be grateful and have no regrets.
Being grateful and having the courage to take responsibility are the characteristics of reliable people. Even if the outcome is not satisfactory, they will take the blame instead of blaming others.
Affectionate and honest with each other.
They are happy to share the benefits, do not let their friends suffer, and always handle things just right. In difficult moments, they are your solid backing, sheltering you from the wind and rain in the face of wind and waves.
Walk with reliable people and have peace of mind.
There is no need to be suspicious or anxious about such a relationship. Although a reliable partner is hard to find, once you meet, it is a long-term companionship.
As the years go by, through thick and thin, choose to stand side by side with someone you can rely on, and at the same time introspect yourself and become a trustworthy existence in the eyes of others.
A truly harmonious relationship that defies the passage of time and external challenges.
May we all meet sincere hearts, make mentors and helpful friends in the journey of life, and walk through every ups and downs and lows in life together.