Hello everyone, I'm Cuckoo~
Recently, I watched a set of photos, and when I looked at it, Cuckoo's mother was in tears.
This set of photos records the child's childhood life 40 years ago.
Those ordinary and touching moments, while healing us, also make us understand why we used to be so happy, but now every 5 children, there is a tendency to depression.
At that time, there was no homework between classes, and teachers rarely dragged the class.
As soon as we heard the bell for the end of class, we ran to the playground like birds in flight, and then played games in groups.
A game of eagle catching chicks that can be played for a long, long time.
The girls also jump rubber bands, jumping up from the easiest level to see who is the best.
Occasionally, one or two little boys would break in, probably because some helpless sister was arranged by their mother to take their younger brother.
The boys play the long jump, or play in groups.
They may have pulled my clothes in the last second, I pulled you by the neckline, and scolded with a red face and a thick neck. In the next second, they hooked their shoulders and called each other brothers.
At that time, the children's recess life was very rich, and the school doors were even open from time to time.
Teachers don't need to keep an eye on the children all the time, and the school doesn't have as many guardrails, let alone large protective nets between the floors.
The meals we eat are prepared by our parents in the morning and only need to be heated in the cafeteria at noon.
Everyone sat around and talked happily while savoring the food of each family.
At that time, my parents didn't have to worry about us eating unhealthy, because they had all the ingredients.
Once upon a time, the sun was slow.
Cars, horses, and mail are slow.
If we wanted to go to the market or to my grandmother's house, my father would put us on the bicycle and drive slowly all the way.
We listened to the sound of insects and birds in our ears while enjoying the warm time with our father.
At that time, my father was still very young, with black hair and a straight back, and he smiled so confidently and beautifully.
At that time, we didn't have to pretend to have anything in our hearts.
Because we know that even if the sky falls, there are parents who will stand on it.
At that time, on June 1st, the teacher didn't care much, and the entertainment committee spontaneously called people to rehearse the program.
Watching the performance, we sat in the auditorium, and each of us could also receive a popsicle and a few jellies, and enjoy the show while eating.
At that time, Mom and Dad were not at home when they went to the fields, and we were locked out of the door and cried.
When the neighbor heard this, he immediately took us home, brought us a bowl of steaming food, and waited for our parents to wait slowly.
In the summer, when the evening is hot, the family will come outside to cool off.
While eating, I chatted with my neighbors.
At that time, there was no air conditioning, and we spent one unforgettable summer after another in such a cool breeze.
At that time, my grandmother would take us around the streets. Stroll from the head of the village to the end of the village, listening to the gossip of each family.
As soon as we went out, we saw all acquaintances. Those familiar people and familiar places make our childhood full of dependence and security.
After school, as long as we complete a small amount of homework quickly, we can go out and play games with friends.
Hide and seek in order not to be caught, no matter how dense the bushes, we dare to get in.
As long as the boys have a stick in their hands, they can go out of the rivers and lakes.
And this game of glass marbles, I don't know how many times you won it as a child?
At that time, the streets were not full of traffic. Parents can safely let us run freely and go on a rampage.
Even when we shouted and laughed carefree, no one looked at us or told us to be quiet.
What you must do on the weekend is to make an appointment with a small partner, bring a fishing net, and go to the river to catch fish and shrimp.
On this day if you're lucky, you can add extra food to your home.
At that time, parents would not follow us and shout, "Don't take off your shoes, don't get your clothes wet, don't go out and play!"
According to the mental health development report released by the Chinese Academy of Sciences, the depression rate among adolescents in mainland China is 24.6%.
In other words, one in five children has a tendency to be depressed.
In the past, children were racing against time to run, jump, shout, and laugh.
On the swing by the playground, on the horizontal bar in the sand pit, almost every corner of the playground is full of children.
The classroom was also filled with a variety of sounds. There are the sounds of chasing and playing, the sound of wrestling wrists, the sound of whispering talking, and the shouting of various games.
Their childhood, full of anticipation and fantasy.
Nowadays, children may not be allowed to go downstairs between classes, play may not be allowed to fight, speak loudly, and need to race against time to go to the toilet.
In the past, children's schoolbags only had a few simple books, and children could easily carry them on their backs for several miles to school.
Now the child's school bag is full of all kinds of books, materials and test papers.
In the past, teachers would only ask parents when they encountered something big.
Today's children, his words and deeds are easily amplified. If you don't bring a pen, bring the wrong book, go to class in a daze, don't remember the text, etc., you may be reported in the group in real time.
At that time, we were so happy.
When I think of happy things, I walk all the way up.
But now, whether it is adults or children, how many can walk and take off happily like we did when we were children?
When we recall our childhood, we are full of innocence and happiness, and we can't help but raise the corners of our mouths when we think about it.
But today's children, 20 years from now, how can they recall their childhood?
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About the author:Cuckoo mother, psychological counselor, family education instructor, marriage emotional counselor, focusing on children's psychology, understanding children's easy parenting, if you like it, pay attention to it~