The truth about extramarital affairs: Men who cheat on their feelings can't escape these three factors!
Does the cheating man have feelings for the mistress?
Most of the cheating men who were found to be cheating and refused to break off the relationship with the mistress.
has some feelings for the mistress, but the fact that a cheating man loves the mistress does not mean that the extramarital affair cannot be resolved.
A man who will change his heart and betray his wife, their love is not worth much.
Wives should not think that the extramarital affair cannot be solved just because the cheating man really has feelings for the mistress.
Before he could begin to resolve the extramarital affair, he retreated and was defeated without a fight.
Analyze the reasons for men's cheating, solve them in a targeted manner, and emotional extramarital affairs can also be completely solved.
What kind of man is prone to cheating for the sake of emotion?
One is that they met with their original partner through a blind date, and there is no love between the two people.
Many of the original partners who have been cheated on have no basis for love with the cheating man.
is that the two of them have reached the age of marriage and are urged to get married by their parents.
At the same time, the two of them had the intention of starting a family, and then they chose to go on a blind date.
The process may not be smooth, and there is not much room for choice, and in the end choose each other.
Compared with liking each other, it is more about being suitable, and the other party's conditions are the best that they can accept.
So without any love foundation, the two still chose to get married.
And I thought that after getting married, I could cultivate love, but I failed.
Many men are like this, when they are not married, they can get married without thinking about love.
At that time, their biggest need was to get married, start a family and have a family.
But after getting married, they began to greedily want love again.
If you can't rub the spark of love between you and your wife, you will want to cheat and find love.
At this time, as long as there is a junior who the cheating man thinks he likes, they will easily cheat.
The biggest problem with this kind of extramarital affair is not actually a marriage without love.
Rather, a man who is very greedy and only thinks about himself.
When you get married, you only want marriage, and you only look at your wife's conditions.
After getting married, I began to want love, regardless of my wife's pain, and chose to satisfy myself.
They cheated on their feelings for the sake of their feelings, and in fact they were the most ruthless.
The other is that it is easier to change your mind and slowly dislove your wife after getting married.
There is a story told in the movie "No Questions Asked".
It's a couple, and when the two of them first got married, there were also times when Qin Se and Ming.
But the man behind him didn't love him, although he didn't cheat, but he coldly and violently violated his wife in marriage.
There is no cup to drink, even if it is a bowl, and he is not willing to use his wife's cup.
The wife said that this man made her feel that she was the worst person.
And ask the man why he has changed.
The man said, why can't it change, everything will change, why can't this thing change?
So a lot of extramarital affairs happen, and the reason is simple, that is, the man has changed.
may have loved his wife once, but slowly he didn't love it,
There are many people who can stick to the moral bottom line even if they don't love them, but there are also many men who can't do it.
If you don't love, you have to find love, even if it's cheating.
In fact, the essence of this kind of man is selfishness.
When they love, they are very good to their wives, and they can be cruel when they don't love.
In the name of love, he hurt his wife and fulfilled his selfishness.
The third situation is that you are very attentive and love several women at the same time.
Su Yue had previously reminded not to marry a prodigal son.
Don't think that men are just flowers to play with before marriage, and they will be able to stabilize after marriage.
The reality is that a man who is very attentive before marriage will cheat after marriage.
There are very few cases of the prodigal son turning back, and at most he goes ashore to rest temporarily.
Many women who have been cheated on are doomed to be cheated on as soon as they get married.
If you meet someone who is unladylike and choose the wrong marriage partner, you will encounter a tragic marriage.
So before you get married, be sure to look at the person you choose.
Otherwise, after getting married, if you encounter an extramarital affair, it will be too late to do anything.
A man's love is comparative, he can love this woman or love that woman more.
There is even a woman who is not so loving, but also has feelings.
They are able to love several women at the same time, which is why men cheat.
And after the cheating is discovered, I will say, I love it all and don't want to separate.
A man with a heart does not deserve to be forgiven.
In the end, Su Yue wanted to say that there are indeed cheating men who really cheat because of emotional factors.
They fell in love with the mistress, and their feelings for their wives faded, and they would cheat on the mistress if they didn't have it.
But their love, in fact, is not worth much, and it is not so inviolable.
There is also a basis for a cheating man to love the mistress, such as not affecting his interests.
Another example is that it will not cause any loss, and it will not even allow the original partner to divorce.
If you have feelings for the mistress, it will affect the interests and you need to pay the price.
A cheating man can turn his head and become less in love with the mistress.
If cheating men will change their hearts and fall in love with the mistress, they will also change their hearts and fall in love sooner.
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