Actor Chen Chong talks about friendship: There are countless strangers passing by in the trajectory of life, and occasionally we are lucky enough to walk with people on another trajectory like-minded, maybe half a lifetime, maybe half a day, maybe half an hour, these are all gifts that are worth cherishing.
- "Speech", Reader, No. 3, 2024
In the variety show "We Are Real Friends", it is said: "Real friends are family members who can choose, and they are the scenery of each other's achievements." ”
The most precious thing in this world is friendship, and the most rare thing is friendship.
Make a good friend, benefit for life, and if you encounter a bad friend, you will suffer deeply.
Good friendship is not climbed, and true friends are not cheated.
is like Chen Chong's expression of friendship in the "Reader" magazine:
There are countless strangers passing by in the trajectory of life, and occasionally we are lucky enough to walk with people on another trajectory like-minded for a while, maybe half a lifetime, maybe half a day, maybe half an hour, these are all gifts, worth cherishing.
True friends, regardless of age or identity, just have like-minded interests and heal each other.
Source: Visual China
Friends of all ages are like-minded
Aristotle said, "A true friend is one soul conceived in two bodies." ”
The beginning of a friendship does not have to be complicated, like-minded people have a common language, smooth communication, and a pleasant relationship.
The most rare thing in life is to have a friend to talk to.
Not long ago, a video of "32-year-old made an 11-year-old friend" on Weibo hot search caused heated discussions among netizens:
In the video, the 11-year-old kid brother is fully armed, dressed as a fisherman, and happily goes to meet his 32-year-old fishing friend.
As soon as they met, the enthusiastic and cheerful children opened up the conversation box and happily introduced their equipment to the guy.
I didn't forget to tell me about my fishing, which made the guy laugh all the way.
The guy is also very active in introducing his new equipment, and when he sees that the other party likes it, he will give it generously.
On the way to fishing, the two had endless topics to talk about, and when they met the old man by the river, they could make a joke and chat a few words.
The active children will wave the fishing rods in their hands and play with the guys, and they will have a good time and feel uncomfortable.
Although there is an age gap, because of the same interests, they have formed a deep friendship with each other.
In this regard, netizens have left messages, "It's worry-free and happy to make friends with children", "Sincere and friendly, like-minded, very good"......
Age is not the standard for making friends, the key is to have something to talk about with each other, and not to get tired for a long time.
A true friend begins with ambition and ends with character, longer than the years, regardless of age.
Li Bai and Du Fu were 10 years apart when they first met, and Li Bai was already a famous poet, but Du Fu had just emerged.
But because of drinking and writing poems, the two hit it off at first sight, sympathized with each other, and became close friends.
Boya is good at playing the piano, and he is good at listening to the piano in his childhood, and he finds the sound of the song "Mountains and Flowing Water" and becomes a bosom friend.
There is a poem that reads: "I don't hesitate to suffer the singer, but I don't care about the sorrow." ”
The happiest thing in life is to meet a like-minded friend, talk about the world, and change the cup.
But bosom friends are hard to find, if you meet someone who really understands you, it is a rare luck, and you should cherish it.
Source: Visual China
Friends, rich or poor, just need to support each other
In the journey of life, we will meet all kinds of people, some are just passers-by, and some are nobles.
A noble person is not a person of high status and wealth, but someone who can help and support you at the right time.
Making friends is not between rich and poor, but about whether you can support each other and become each other's nobles.
Rich and poor are only appearances, and true friendship must withstand the test of difficulties and support each other.
Voltaire said, "All the glory and riches of the world are not as good as a good friend." ”
Wealth is not a true friend, but a friend is a real wealth.
After seeing people's hearts for a long time, whether they can be friends or not, money is difficult to measure, but the heart must know.
Cao Xueqin, the author of "Dream of Red Mansions", once had a prominent family background, and his ancestors were all weavers in Jiangning for three generations, and he was a big celebrity in front of the emperor.
But in the early years of Yongzheng, Cao Xueqin's father was dismissed, Cao's family was raided, and the family moved to the suburbs of Beijing.
Cao Xueqin suddenly fell from a rich and noble son in brocade clothes to a poor person who had no food and clothing, and "cooked porridge for the whole family".
The so-called friends who used to be around him saw that their family was in the middle of the road, and they avoided it one after another.
There is only one royal child named Aixin Jueluo Duncheng, who has always treated him very kindly, often inviting Cao Xueqin to drink and sing harmony, and giving poems to each other.
He also funded him without reciprocation and encouraged him to complete the creation of "Dream of the Red Chamber".
In the cold winter of Cao Xueqin's life, a friend sent a warm current to help him tide over the difficulties.
Life is not a one-man show, people can only go a long way by supporting each other.
People with a low realm tear each other down and fall together, and those with a high realm set up a stage with each other, resulting in a lot of shows.
Friendships that are intersected with money are often fragile, and friendships that support each other are even more precious.
Source: Visual China
Friends, regardless of their status, as long as they heal each other
Secular people believe that making friends is like getting married.
As everyone knows, true friends, regardless of identity, as long as they can heal each other.
There is a good saying: "The best feelings in the world can stand the test of time." Good friends are like a light on each other's life path, always accompanying, warming, and illuminating each other. ”
Friends who can provide emotional value to each other will be able to get along for a long time, and the friendship will be beneficial.
The movie "Unexpected Summer" tells us about the friendship between Huang Simao, who collects rags in the town, and a group of children.
In the play, the left-behind child Shui Sheng is a kind and loving child, but he is often bullied and bullied by three classmates.
When Shui Sheng was bullied again, he was seen by Huang Simao, who was passing by, and he spoke up and drove away the group of children, supported Shui Sheng, and kept him from harm.
Although Huang Simao is just a rag collector, he is also lazy, he is just content with the status quo, does not want to forge ahead, and sometimes even steals and makes a little cheap.
But he is not bad in nature, and he is not lacking in chivalry, and he has the kindness to protect the weak.
Huang Simao didn't have any friends in the town, and he was very lonely in his heart, and the aquatic life protected by him often accompanied him to collect rags and chat.
He often said to him, "You are the best person in this town to me, and you are my only friend in this town." ”
This made Huang Simao feel very relieved, and whenever he was treated coldly by others, he would feel very warm when he thought of this sentence.
In this unexpected summer, two people who are very different in all aspects have formed a deep friendship.
With Huang Simao's care, the aquatic life is no longer frightened, and with the company of the aquatic life, Huang Simao no longer feels lonely.
Huang Simao has friends, and Shui Sheng has a backer, they are warm to each other and comfort each other.
The ups and downs of life cannot be accurately predicted, and sorrows are inevitable, if you have friends by your side at this time, it will be the strongest booster for you to get out of those gray years.
Friendship doesn't have to be "the right match", it just needs to heal each other.
Source: Visual China
At different stages of life, we will meet different people, and people who can give care, encouragement, support, understanding, and trust are all worthy of fellowship.
Such a friend, like a beam of light in life, will illuminate your way forward.
There is a saying in "Wen Zhongzi": "Fellowship with gold, forget when gold is consumed; intersect with profit, and scatter when profit is exhausted; intersect with potential, and if you lose, you will dump; intersect with power, and if you lose power, you will abandon it." ”
Making friends is risky, so you should be cautious when choosing friends.
Friendship regardless of age, like-minded people, there is something to talk about;
Friends do not distinguish between high and low, and support each other, which is a good friend;
Friendship regardless of identity, mutual healing can warm a lifetime.
May you find a true soulmate, walk through the wind and rain together, laugh together, and live an ordinary life vividly.
Author: Zi Buyu.