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Feelings are sweet most of the time and can bring happiness to people, but there are also some feelings that will bring us huge ups and downs.
As the saying goes, the person who thought he would shield himself from the wind and rain ended up bringing himself the biggest wind and rain, which is really hurtful.
But ah, we really have no way to control this matter, after all, no matter how carefully we choose, we may also meet scumbags, which is a hurdle that everyone may encounter in their relationship.
That's why I often suggest that once you meet your other half who makes you sad, please leave quickly, and don't indulge in it and let yourself be hurt more.
Of course, when to leave and how to judge whether you should leave is a very important thing. Today I will tell you the three most unforgivable things in a relationship, and if your significant other does it, then you don't have to hesitate.
Ignore you
The reason why we want to start a family with someone is because we want to be supported and loved, so if your partner is always cold to you, then there is really no need for you to continue.
This may be a problem that many couples and couples who have been together for a long time will encounter, and they always feel that the other party is not as enthusiastic as before.
I admit that there will be a dull period in relationships, and no one can be in love forever, but I also want you to understand that there is a difference between this bland bland and the indifference of ignorance.
I once watched a documentary about two couples, both of whom had been married for more than 10 years. The interaction between the two couples is not as greasy and crooked as that of a young couple in love, but a clear difference can also be seen.
Although Mr. and Mrs. A don't talk much, they still care about each other in details, such as whether there are dishes on the table that the other party can't eat, such as whether the other party is wearing less clothes today, and how the other party is emotional.
Looking at them, you can feel the love, and you can also understand that a good marriage is actually like this, although we don't express it much, but love and not love are really obvious.
But as for Mr. and Mrs. B, the communication between the two of them is very poor, and they are easy to quarrel over a little thing, and the man is very fond of the cold war.
Every time I watched my wife cry at the indifference of her husband, I felt that their marriage might not have to last.
We may occasionally forget about the relationship with each other because of the busyness of work and life, but this emotional indifference is a manifestation of unlove.
If your other half also behaves like this, don't lie to yourself anymore, please believe that a person's life may be happier.
Betrayed you
What's the most important thing in a relationship? I think it must be loyalty. If two people are loyal to each other, then no matter how big the problem is, it can be solved, but if there is no loyalty in the relationship between two people, it is really impossible to continue.
In other words, loyalty must be the bottom line in your relationship, and it is also the bottom line that you cannot be broken, if your other half has such behavior, then you have to leave quickly.
Because I've seen too many women who compromise on betrayal and believe the other person's lies that they only make mistakes once in a while, and they fall into an abyss.
You must know that there is only a difference between zero and countless betrayals, and since this man will do such a thing, it means that he has no moral bottom line, and he will continue to hurt you one day.
Moreover, once you forgive this time, he knows that your bottom line can be breached, then he will definitely continue to hurt you later.
Therefore, you must be firm, and if you find that the other party has such behavior, leave without looking back, and never hesitate.
Of course, if you want to be so determined, you must be strong enough, and only a woman who has the ability to control her life and have the strength to support her life can be extraordinarily sober and firm in the face of these things.
If you can't do it for the time being, then work hard for yourself, and I'm sure you can.
Hurt you
The kind of man I hate the most is the man who tries to hurt the other half, such a man has no responsibility and can't give you happiness.
So, if you meet your partner who always hurts you with words, or even violently acts against you, then you have to leave immediately.
Because such a man has no love for you, he will hurt you without scruples. If you keep going, you may end up hurting even more.
I once read a book that documented many female death row inmates, most of whom lost their lives because they accidentally killed their husbands.
These women are actually pitiful because they have been subjected to domestic violence for many years. But the poor people must have something to hate, they obviously have many opportunities to stop the loss in time, but they give in again and again, and let the other party hurt themselves even more.
I hope you don't have to fight back when you are in a desperate situation, I hope you can wake up sooner and then protect yourself.
Of course, I know it's not easy, and it's not that these women don't want to come out, but they don't have enough ability, or they still have a lot to worry about.
So, what we can do is to constantly improve ourselves and make ourselves stronger. When you have enough ability to support your life, you will have the courage to step out of the wrong relationship.
Moreover, a woman who is strong enough is also more likely to meet the right happiness, after all, what kind of person you are, what kind of person you will meet, this is a very realistic law.
There will always be such and such problems in the relationship, no matter what you encounter, please face it calmly, never deny yourself because of this, let alone be disappointed or hopeless.
If you can be bold and resolute, that's great, but if you can't, I also hope you can keep the bottom line.
These three things are something we can't accept and tolerate, if your other half does it, then don't hesitate to leave quickly.
You will never be happy in a person who does not love yourself, learn to protect yourself in order for you to live happily.
Work hard, protect yourself, and you will be happy.