On an ordinary weekend, Liu Xiaoming and his wife, Xiaomei, were passing the time at home. They have always been affectionate, but at this moment they fell into a kind of silence.
Xiao Ming couldn't help but think back to some things that had happened recently. Since Xiaomei became pregnant with her second child, there have been some inexplicable deadlocks in their relationship. Whenever Xiao Ming wanted to get close to Xiao Mei, Xiao Mei always excused herself by being unwell or too tired. There were a few times when Xiao Ming wanted to pick up this topic, but Xiao Mei kept silent and avoided talking about it.
"Meimei, we are husband and wife, we should communicate well about everything. Xiao Ming finally mustered up the courage to speak, "Recently, I feel that our relationship is a little estranged, and you are always cold to me, which bothers me. "
It turned out that the reason why Xiaomei was cold to Xiao Ming was because her body had not fully recovered since she was pregnant. Especially when it comes to intimacy, she always feels tired and powerless, and she can't be interested at all. Every time Xiao Ming wanted to get close to her, she would feel a wave of guilt and self-blame.
"Fool, how could you think that?" Xiao Ming hurriedly stepped forward and hugged Xiaomei, "You are my favorite person, and you are also an excellent wife and mother." As long as we understand and tolerate each other, we will be able to get through any difficulties. "
Xiaomei was in Xiao Ming's arms, and finally cried out loud. She vented all the bitterness and self-blame during this time. Xiao Ming kept patting Xiaomei's back and patiently comforting her.
In this way, the two finally opened their hearts and confided their inner troubles to each other. Xiao Ming told Xiaomei that it was not her fault alone, and he fully understood Xiaomei's current situation. As a husband, he is willing to give Xiaomei enough time and space to wait for her to fully recover.
"Thank you for being so considerate of me. Xiaomei wiped away her tears, and a happy smile finally bloomed on her face again, "I will also work hard to regulate my body and recover as soon as possible." After all, you are also my love, and the intimacy between us is equally important to me. "
"It's okay, take your time. Xiao Ming kissed Xiaomei's forehead, "We still have time." "
A few months have passed, and Xiaomei's health has indeed gradually improved. But what Xiao Ming didn't expect was that just when he thought everything would get back on track, Xiao Mei suddenly became emotionally disturbed.
That night, Xiao Ming wanted to get close to Xiaomei as usual. But Xiaomei's eyes suddenly turned red and asked Xiao Ming: "Do you think I'm not trying hard enough to be a wife?
Xiao Ming was taken aback by Xiao Mei's reaction, and quickly explained: "How can it be? I really love you, how can you have such thoughts?"
But Xiaomei has completely fallen into her own emotions, and she cries that she is a failed wife who has not fulfilled even the most basic obligations. She felt that she had failed Xiao Ming's expectations and was a complete failure.
"What are you talking about? How can you be a loser?" Xiao Ming hugged Xiaomei tightly and said earnestly, "You are the most outstanding wife and mother I have ever seen." It is only a temporary encounter with some difficulties, and with patience and understanding, we will be able to overcome them. "
Xiaomei was in Xiao Ming's arms, and finally cried out loud. Xiao Ming kept patting her on the back and patiently comforting her. After a long time, Xiaomei's mood finally calmed down.
"I'm sorry, Xiao Ming, I was too impulsive just now. Xiaomei wiped away her tears and a bright smile bloomed on her face again, "I will continue to work hard to regulate my body, and you must bear with me a lot." "
"Of course, if we tolerate and understand each other, we will definitely be able to go through this period. Xiao Ming kissed Xiaomei's forehead.
From that day on, Xiaomei gradually regained her self-confidence and opened her heart to Xiao Ming again. The intimacy between them was restored, and the days were filled with laughter and laughter again.
Through this experience, Xiao Ming deeply realized that married life is not smooth sailing, and there will inevitably be some "unspeakable" problems between husband and wife. However, as long as both sides have a mindset of mutual understanding and tolerance, and resolve differences with patience and love, they will definitely be able to tide over the difficulties.
In this way, with the joint efforts of Xiao Ming and Xiao Mei, this "unspeakable" shadow was finally dispelled. They re-experienced the innocent love between husband and wife, and their days were once again embellished with happiness.
"You see, as long as we manage it with our hearts, we will definitely make the flower of marriage bloom forever. Xiao Ming said to Xiao Mei.
Xiaomei nodded, a happy smile on her face. She knew that as long as they continued to treat each other with love and patience, they would be able to make this happiness last forever.
A few years have passed, and Xiao Ming and Xiao Mei's lives have also undergone some changes. As children grow older, the focus of their lives shifts from children to other areas.
One day, Xiao Ming suddenly said to Xiao Mei: "Mei Mei, we haven't been alone for a long time. Why don't you and I go outside and relax this weekend?"
Xiaomei thought for a while, nodded and said, "Okay, it's true that we haven't been alone in the world of two for too long." "
So, as soon as the weekend arrived, Xiao Ming took Xiaomei to a scenic farmhouse. Leaving the hustle and bustle of the city and coming to this quiet countryside, the two seem to have returned to the time of young love.
The two of you said a word, and laughed like this, recalling the sweet past when they were young. It turns out that no matter how the years pass, as long as you still have that sincere love in your heart, you will never grow old.
After dinner, Xiao Ming took Xiao Mei to the small lake of the farmhouse for a walk. The lake is covered with moonlight, and from time to time there are frogs chirping and insects chirping, and the scenery is pleasant and tranquil.
"Meimei, do you remember the 'unspeakable' days we experienced a few years ago?" Xiao Ming said suddenly.
"Shhhh Xiao Ming gently blocked Xiaomei's lips with his fingers, "Those days have passed, and now we have to thank God for bringing us together." "
Xiaomei nodded, her eyes full of tears of happiness. Yes, if she hadn't met a considerate husband like Xiao Ming, she might have gradually lost herself in self-blame and inferiority.
"You know, we've been through so many ups and downs, but my love for you has never diminished. Xiao Ming looked at Xiaomei affectionately, "On the contrary, I love and cherish you even more." Because you have given me the courage and strength to deal with life's problems with patience and understanding. "
Xiaomei was moved to tears, and she hugged Xiao Ming tightly. Yes, there will be problems of one kind or another on the road of marriage, and the key is to support each other and tide over the difficulties together. Only by treating each other with love and patience can the flower of marriage bloom forever.
On this quiet night, Xiao Ming and Xiao Mei seemed to re-experience the sweet taste of their newlyweds. They snuggled up to each other, let the night breeze blow their faces and the moonlight shine.
"We want to be happy like this forever. Xiao Ming said affectionately.
Xiaomei nodded, tears of happiness coming out of her eyes. She knew that as long as they continued to treat each other with love and patience, they would be able to make this happiness last forever until the end of the world.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Xiao Ming and Xiao Mei have entered the second half of their lives. The children have grown up and started their own journey in life. And because the young couple has more leisure time, their relationship has become more harmonious.
One day, Xiao Ming suddenly said to Xiaomei: "Meimei, we haven't traveled alone for too long. Why don't you and I go for a walk in the field this weekend?"
Xiaomei thought for a while and said happily: "Okay, we should indeed give ourselves a little vacation and relax and relax." "
So, as soon as the weekend arrived, the little couple embarked on the journey in high spirits. They chose a scenic seaside town where they hoped to enjoy the lap of nature to the fullest.
After arriving at their destination, the young couple couldn't wait to take a walk on the beach. The sun is shining, the sea breeze is blowing, and the white sand on the beach is glistening. Mei took a deep breath of the unique seaside air, and felt as if her whole person had been purified.
"Look, what a beautiful view it is. Xiaomei said happily, "We haven't relaxed for a long time." "
Xiao Ming nodded, then suddenly took Xiao Mei's hand and looked at her affectionately: "Mei Mei, do you know? My greatest happiness is to be able to share this wonderful time with you." "
Xiaomei was moved by Xiao Ming's affectionate style, she leaned on Xiao Ming's arms, and said happily: "Yes, we have gone through so many ups and downs along the way, but in the end we came together hand in hand." We used patience and understanding to resolve those problems of the year, so that the flower of marriage will bloom forever. "
Xiao Ming nodded, and then suddenly remembered something: "By the way, Meimei, do you remember the 'unspeakable' days we experienced a few years ago?"
Xiaomei remembered that difficult period and couldn't help but sigh: "Yes, it was indeed the most difficult stage in our husband and wife's life. If it weren't for your understanding and tolerance, we might have hurt each other's feelings because of some small things like sesame mung beans. "
"So, it is inevitable that there will be problems on the road to marriage. Xiao Ming said, "The key is to resolve it with love and patience, and don't hurt each other's feelings for some small things." Only by truly managing with heart can the flower of marriage bloom forever. "
Xiaomei nodded, her eyes full of tears of happiness. Yes, marriage is like a delicate flower, which needs to be cared for with love and watered with patience in order to bloom forever.
On this beautiful night, the little couple snuggled up to each other, letting the sea breeze blow and the moonlight shine. Xiao Ming looked at Xiao Mei affectionately and said, "Meimei, I love you forever." "
Xiaomei nodded happily, tears welling up in her eyes. She knew that as long as they continued to treat each other with love and patience, they would be able to make this happiness last forever until the end of the world.
"As long as we continue to love each other like this and treat each other as the most important people in the world, I believe that we will be as happy as them in a few decades. Xiao Ming said.
Xiaomei nodded and happily snuggled in Xiao Ming's arms. She knew that as long as they continued to treat each other with love and patience, they would be able to make this happiness last forever until the end of the world.