In this simple and warm home, the relationship between Li Jing and her mother-in-law Li Hua is like a willow branch gently swaying in the breeze, although there are fluctuations, it can always return to calm. Li Jing, as the daughter-in-law of the family, is hardworking and shrewd, she can cook dishes that her family is full of, and she can also skillfully manage this small family. And her mother-in-law, Li Hua, a 54-year-old woman who has experienced ups and downs, always gives her family a lot of calm guidance with her unique views on life.
At dusk, Li Jing would start preparing dinner, and her mother-in-law, Li Hua, would always be by her side and occasionally provide some help. "Look, this dish is cut to a decent standard, right?" Li Jing seemed to be expecting her mother-in-law's compliment. Li Hua smiled: "It's okay, but it would be better if you could cut the potatoes into the same length as the beans." "Between the words, although there is no lack of pickiness, but more care and teaching.
The cleaning time after dinner often becomes another front for the two to communicate. "Mom, sit down and let me wash it. Li Jing said softly while cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks. The mother-in-law still picked up a rag to wipe the table, "I'm idle, I'm idle, and it's healthier to move." In this way, in the continuous giving and receiving, the relationship between the two became more stable.
On weekend mornings, the atmosphere at home is always extra relaxed. Li Jing was reading a book on the sofa, enjoying a rare leisure time, while Li Hua embroidered her cross-stitch on the rocking chair next to her. Suddenly, Li Hua put down the work in his hand and said kindly: "Jingjing, life needs some sense of ritual, why don't we have a small family party together?" Li Jing was slightly stunned, and then replied with a smile: "Good idea, mother-in-law, I'll go and prepare!"
Even in some seemingly sharp housekeeping arguments, the two can find fun. For example, Li Jing prefers to use a certain laundry detergent when washing clothes, while Li Hua insists on traditional soap powder. Whenever such a topic comes up, the home is filled with controversy and laughter. "Your laundry detergent is very fancy, and it's not as environmentally friendly and affordable as my traditional soap powder. The mother-in-law said half-earnestly and half-jokingly. Li Jing challenged her mother-in-law and said, "Mother-in-law, let's have a small competition to see who washes it cleaner, how about it?"
The days passed slowly in such small fights, but what remained unchanged was that the relationship between the two became stronger in these small frictions. From mutual enlightenment to silent support, in every eye contact, there is not only the shadow of each other, but also mutual understanding and respect. Whether it is cooking skills or the division of labor and cooperation in housework, Li Jing and her mother-in-law Li Hua are learning how to better run in and get along with each other.
The aroma of coffee wafted slowly in the room, and the two sat across from the dining table, chatting about the bits and pieces of life, accompanied by the occasional sound of traffic and children's laughter, this home, so calmly and beautifully showed its truest side.
The days seem to be a pool of still water, and although small ripples keep appearing, they also gently ripple with the wind, and finally restore tranquility. Between Li Jing and her mother-in-law Li Hua, the relationship between them on weekdays is full of such ripples, and it always ends in harmony. However, as time passed, Li Jing began to feel a little tired in her heart from these subtle fluctuations.
That afternoon, it was drizzling outside the window, and Li Jing was busy in the kitchen. Mother-in-law Li Hua sat leisurely in the living room, and occasionally there was a conversation between the two about trivial matters in life. "Mom, the clothes washed in the washing machine have shrunk, did you choose the right program when you washed them last time?" Li Jing walked into the living room with a pile of clothes and asked. The mother-in-law replied, "I remember that it is according to the regular pattern, but shouldn't your expensive clothes be washed by hand?"
At that moment, Li Jing suddenly felt that every discussion seemed to be hovering between being picky and being picked, and her full of grievances and a sense of not being understood came to her heart. "In fact, hand washing is sometimes not good, and it is too time-consuming. Li Jing's tone faintly revealed a hint of dissatisfaction.
At dinner a few days later, when her mother-in-law kindly reminded Li Jing to reduce her salt intake, the joking sentence "Pay attention to your body when you are old, you are not too young" inadvertently triggered Li Jing's sensitive nerves. The atmosphere at the table suddenly froze, and Li Jing's eyes flashed with a hint of stubbornness, but it was also mixed with respect and helplessness. "Mother-in-law, I know how to take care of myself. She gently lowered her chopsticks and tried to respond in a calm tone.
In the next few days, the communication between the two was no longer as easy as usual. For Li Jing, her mother-in-law's seemingly humorous words became sharp, no longer a lively seasoning, but like a knife cutting through the tip of her heart. The subtle pleasures of the small frictions faded away, replaced by a hint of indescribable tension.
The daughter's husband, Wang Ming, became the most embarrassing bystander on this front. He could feel the tension, but he was often in a dilemma. With his mother on one side and his wife on the other, as an intermediary, Wang Ming did not want either party to be hurt. "Mother-in-law, Jingjing, she may have been a little stressed recently, let her calm down alone during this time. Wang Ming tried to lighten the mood.
However, one morning, while sorting out the bookshelves, Li Jing accidentally knocked over a box full of old letters from her mother-in-law. Letters were scattered all over the floor, as were old photographs with illegible handwriting. Li Hua's attitude was surprisingly calm and calm, and he even began to share those past events with Li Jing. But when she was quietly tidying up, Li Jing vaguely noticed the moist corners of her mother-in-law's eyes while enjoying the past. The seemingly silent tears reveal the tenderness and sadness of a mother hidden behind the humor.
The bitterness behind a series of humor, the warmth and reliance of a family. Li Jing figured it out, all these disputes are just the spice of life, and getting along is originally a process of running-in and adaptation between two generations. From the letters and photos, Li Jing read the difficulties of her mother-in-law, she knows how to be grateful and understand, and family affection and harmony are the most precious insistence of this family.
Family gatherings are meant to be a day of harmony, with the smell of food in the fresh air and the laughter and chatter of family members. Li Jing specially prepared a unique family heirloom dish, hoping to surprise everyone. Her mother-in-law, Li Hua, had always had her own opinion on cooking, and she walked into the kitchen and looked at the dish curiously.
"This dish, it doesn't look right. The mother-in-law gently turned the dishes in the pot with a spatula, and her tone seemed to contain a bit of playfulness and doubt. "Mom, this is a new way to try, don't worry, it will taste great. Li Jing replied confidently. But my mother-in-law still pointed out on the side, "According to what I said, put more green onions, ginger and garlic to make it taste more delicious." ”
After a while, her mother-in-law's "suggestion" caused Li Jing's unhappiness, and seemed to arouse the small waves that had not subsided before. The atmosphere of the party gradually became more subtle. Li Jing's face was gloomy, and her words were no longer as soft as before, "Mom, let me do it my own way today, okay?" Li Jing tried to show her mother-in-law her insistence in a calm tone.
After three rounds of drinking, the laughter on the table did not decrease, but Li Jing's heart seemed to be pressed against a transparent but heavy stone. Just when the atmosphere was about to get out of control, Wang Ming, the daughter's husband, said gently: "It's not easy for everyone to get together today, let's appreciate every delicious dish prepared with heart." ”
As soon as Wang Ming's words fell, Li Hua suddenly smiled, as if he understood something, "You're right, everyone got together to be happy, Xiaojing, let's taste your new invention together today." In the face of this sudden change, Li Jing was a little surprised, but felt the kindness and understanding of her mother-in-law.
The party finally ended in a pleasant atmosphere, and her mother-in-law, Li Hua, privately called Li Jing aside while cleaning the table. "Jingjing, Mom knows that you have given a lot in the family, and sometimes I want to protect you, but maybe it's not the right way. This frank remark from her mother-in-law made Li Jing feel a long-lost tenderness and care.
The mother-in-law paused and patted the back of Li Jing's hand gently, "I see your independence and assertion in my eyes, and I, maybe I should learn to let go and give you more respect." The haze in Li Jing's heart seemed to be dispelled by the warm sunshine, and the corners of her eyes moistened, "Thank you, Mom, I'm very happy to hear you say that." ”
From her mother-in-law's eyes, Li Jing saw the tolerance and wisdom that only belonged to her mother, and she was also young, she understood the good intentions behind her mother-in-law's persistence. At this moment, the small gap between the two generations seems to be dissolved. The harmony and love of the family once again shine with a warm light in this small universe.
As the hustle and bustle of the family fades into silence, a peaceful late night falls. The clock at home rang the bell in the middle of the night, and the mother-in-law Li Hua and daughter Li Jing sat on the balcony sprinkled with moonlight, and the night breeze calmed the tension of the day. The two faced each other, their eyes reflecting the stars, and began a heart-to-heart conversation.
Li Hua first opened the conversation softly, "Quietly, people will encounter all kinds of friction in their lives, just like jade needs to be polished, and only after the ordeal can it show its brilliance." "There is so much wisdom and love in my mother-in-law's words.
Li Jing listened quietly, and the waves in his heart gradually subsided. "Mom, I understand what you're saying. I also know that you have done a lot for this family, and at times, I am indeed very willful. Li Jing lowered her head, accompanied by the gentle night breeze, with a hint of guilt in her words.
"You, stubbornness is inherited from your mother and me. Li Hua chuckled, his eyes soft, "But I like your independence." You have to know that no matter how you choose, no matter what the journey is, your mother will support you. ”
Under the night sky, Li Jing felt a sense of relief and understanding that she had never felt before, it turned out that this was the family affection connected by blood. She realized the importance of family harmony and cherished every moment she spent with her mother-in-law.
In this way, the two talked for a long time, from the small things of life to the perception of life, Li Hua was like a wise man, giving Li Jing enlightenment. Li Jing learned the meaning of growing up from every experience of her mother-in-law, and how to find the true meaning of love in the friction of daily life.
The first rays of sunlight in the morning shone through the curtain and reflected on the faces of Li Jing and Li Hua, both of whom were filled with a smile of serenity and satisfaction. Home is not only a space to live together, but also a harbor for mutual support and common growth.
At this moment, no matter how the outside world changes, they all understand that the fire of true family affection will never be extinguished by the wind and rain of the outside world. Li Jing has a new understanding in her heart, no longer the daughter-in-law who always goes toe-for-tat with her mother-in-law, but a woman who knows how to tolerate and cherish, a more mature soul.