Hello dear readers and friends~
In the long river of love, sometimes we will be entangled by a series of problems, which is a test of life. For middle-aged women, the choice of marriage is more like a careful screening, and what they need is not only love, but also responsibility and commitment. When they stand at the crossroads of love and look at your heart with these eleven questions, how will you answer?
I think this is not only an answer to the question, but also an in-depth examination of my own heart.
Question 1, she wants to know about your past because she wants to share the future with you, but more importantly, she wants to know if you have the courage to face your true self, including past flaws and mistakes.
Question 2, about childbirth, she is not blaming you for being able to give her children, but wants to confirm whether you are truly willing to face the unknown future with her, whether it is joy or challenge.
Question 3, she wonders, can you tolerate her family and habits, because marriage is not only the union of two people, but also the integration of two families.
Question 4, long-distance relationship, is a brave adventure, and she wants to know if you are willing to give up everything for love and chase her figure, even if it is in a strange city.
Question 5, tolerance and understanding during quarrels are the lubricant in marriage, and she wants to confirm whether you are willing to put down your face and maintain the harmony of this love.
Question 6, the parents' opinion, is a test for her, she wants to know if you have enough confidence and courage to protect this love for her, even in the face of opposition from her family.
Question 7, the balance between career and family, is a choice that every man has to face, she wants to know, whether you have enough responsibility and responsibility to make sacrifices and efforts for this love.
Question 8, the problem of the house, seems simple, but in fact it is complicated, and she wants to know if you can share this responsibility with her instead of making her feel isolated and helpless.
Question 9, Regarding extramarital affairs, she is not doubting your loyalty, but trying to confirm whether you can keep your commitment to this love, even in the face of temptations and difficulties.
Question 10, about the raising of children, is a test of responsibility and responsibility, she wants to know, whether you are willing to shoulder this responsibility with her, to share the growth of children.
Question 11, the final and ultimate question, is about your attitude and bottom line towards marriage, and she wants to know if you are truly willing to walk with her every step of the marriage, whether it is laughter or tears.
In the process of answering these questions, you may feel confused or even hesitate, but please believe that this is a deep examination of your own heart and a sincere commitment to love. Because when you answer these questions with your heart, you are also proving to her that you are a person to be relied on and trusted, a man who truly knows how to love.
Because in the world of love, no one can predict the future direction, but only by treating each other sincerely can we go further and be firmer. Therefore, no matter whether the road ahead is bumpy or smooth, please remember that love is a choice, marriage is a commitment, and only by managing it with heart can you reap true happiness.
So, when she asks these questions, please don't take them lightly, let alone perfunctory, because this is a serious treatment of love and a sincere exchange of each other's hearts. Because only when you answer these questions with your heart can you win her trust and dependence, and you can go through every stage of your marriage together, forever.
Therefore, please cherish this love and protect this relationship with your heart, because in the world of love, true happiness is always in our hearts.
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