Life is sometimes like a gamble, and marrying far away is one of the big gambles. For a woman, leaving her homeland and marrying in a foreign country is gambling on her future and happiness.
But a woman in love is often carried away by the happiness of the moment, how can she take care of the future? The happiness and sweetness in front of her have already made a woman with zero EQ and IQ desperate for love, and even go to the soup.
It's just that some sweetness is true, some happiness is false, those temporary distances and poems are mostly appearances, and after marriage, I will suddenly find that there are more chickens and dogs in a foreign country, and it is a place of chicken feathers!
And at that time, it was too late, but I could only knock out my teeth and swallow it in my stomach, and I had to pretend to be a very sweet and happy life, and bask in the circle of friends, except that my parents were worried, and I was more helpless.
A young woman, Qiancao (pseudonym), because she fell in love with an African boy, wanted to marry each other, but her parents said nothing and did not agree, so the mother and daughter were deadlocked.
It turned out that when the woman was working in Zhejiang, she met a young man from Africa, Fake, who was tall and spoke Chinese very well.
Xiaoqian works as a salesperson, while Fack often travels back and forth between Zhejiang and Africa, mainly for trade, and dumps some small commodities from Zhejiang to Africa.
In Zhejiang, there are too many such foreigners to count, and Xiaoqian is not surprised, but she didn't expect that she would one day fall in love with this black guy named Falck.
The young man Falke has a very sweet mouth, can speak well, and the trade is really different, the understanding of the two starts from bargaining, Farke bargaining is very set, and he has already mastered the essence of bargaining, but as a salesman, Xiaoqian has limited power to decide the price, but the two gradually became acquainted with each other.
I don't know when it started, but there was an indescribable affection between the two. Fack was attracted by the appearance of the grass and the sweet voice, and his every move fascinated the young man.
The African desire to express makes Xiaoqian embarrassed, and often when negotiating the price of normal goods, a sentence "You are so beautiful, you really fascinate me" will come out, which makes Xiaoqian embarrassed.
Gradually, Xiaoqian got used to this feeling, and then she liked this feeling, and even after Falke returned to China, she would start to miss him, and when she appeared again, the two confirmed their relationship.
After falling in love with Fack, Xiao Qian experienced the enthusiasm and vitality of this African guy, and the unique momentum of the African guy made Xiao Qian want to stop and couldn't extricate herself.
Xiaoqian knows that the two love each other so deeply that she can't do without him in her life, he is the person she is looking for in the vast sea of people, and he is the support for her happiness in the second half of her life.
And in the relationship, the two also looked forward to and planned the days after marriage, and the guy also swore that if it was not Xiaoqian, he would not marry, just like that, Xiaoqian decided to take Falk home to meet his parents.
When the mother saw her daughter bring back a black guy, although she didn't give a face, she didn't agree to anything in the face of her daughter's marriage to Africa, this is a matter of principle!
She is such a daughter, what if she is bullied outside? What if she is wronged? What if she misses her mother's family? etc., etc., in short, the mother does not agree to this matter by a thousand or ten thousand.
But Xiaoqian was determined to eat the scales, and she didn't marry in this life, so she began to move with affection, know how to reason, say how good Fake is to herself, how convenient the transportation is now, and come back when she is homesick, buy a ticket and come back, etc.
The mother and daughter were at a stalemate, and finally broke up unhappily, and Xiao Qian left with Farke angrily.
Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, in fact, the mother's worry is not only about marrying far away, but about the disapproval of this transnational relationship, in addition to the tradition of the bones, more than the mother's cognition of marriage.
Women choose love, we outsiders can't put their beaks, love is indeed borderless.
But love is one thing, marriage is another, so when facing reality, it is more important to think about whether you really have the courage to face the uncertainty of the future.
Once you have made a choice, no matter how unfortunate your life is in the future, do not shed tears of regret. Because that's paying for today's decision.