In life, we often meet all kinds of people, some people make you feel like a spring breeze, and some people make you walk on thin ice. Today, I want to talk to you about a cultural master named Ma Weidu, who once shared a kind of physiognomy that he believes that certain traits of people, although they are ordinary in appearance, should be cautious when getting along with each other. This is not superstition, but the wisdom of life experience.
Ma Weidu said: "The acquaintance of people is important in knowing each other, and the acquaintance of people is important in knowing each other." However, some people may seem amiable, but in fact they are deeply hidden, and there may be complex scheming behind their smiles. He once said: "The face is born from the heart, and the eyes hide a person's background." "Looking at a person's eyes often reveals their true character. Those whose eyes wander and flicker, are often the type with delicate minds and difficult to fathom.
He mentioned that some people are always slow to speak and seem sincere, but in fact they are stalling for time and looking for opportunities. Just like the ancients said: "The mouth of the honey belly sword must be guarded against its hidden arrows." "This kind of person, you never know what they're thinking, and you have to deal with them step by step.
There are also those who are overly enthusiastic, who may only be motivated by social needs rather than genuinely treating each other. Ma Weidu reminded: "Excessive enthusiasm may be to fill the emptiness in my heart." "Such people, although they are close on the surface, can be tired of deep interactions.
Of course, physiognomy is just a reference, and the real way to get along is to know and trust. However, when we encounter people with these characteristics, we might as well pay more attention and keep a proper distance, after all, "those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black".
In our daily lives, instead of seeking superficial harmony, we should look for sincerity and understanding. Remember, everyone has their own story and understands their patterns of behavior, but more importantly, we need to be our authentic selves and let the world see our kindness and sincerity.
Finally, let's use an old saying: "At the beginning of man, his nature is good, and don't judge heroes by face." "Don't be easily fooled by appearances, true friends will not change their opinion of you because of your appearance.
I hope you can be inspired by this article, and if you have similar experiences or insights, please share them in the comment area. Let's learn together how to recognize people and how to choose true friends in life. If you think it makes sense, don't forget to like and retweet it to benefit more people. Let's be the one who sees through people's hearts but doesn't judge them easily.