Hello everyone, today I want to talk to you about a very interesting but also very serious topic: the elderly have to be careful when they have dinners!
You may think, "Oh, isn't it just to invite the old man to have a meal, what are the risks?" But don't underestimate this, sometimes, we have to be prepared in advance to do bad things.
Let's talk about the old saying first, "70 don't stay overnight, 80 don't stay food". That sounds a little weird, it feels quite impersonal. But if you think about it, why is there such a statement? Actually, there is a reason behind it.
The old man is old, and his health is not as good as before, what should we do if there is an emergency? So, inviting the old man to come to the house is really not just a casual come.
That's what happened to me recently. My father-in-law, 75 years old, has a great body, and eats so well. He has an old colleague, Uncle Wang, the two have not seen each other for many years, and they met by chance at the market that day, and they were very happy. The father-in-law invited Uncle Wang to come to the house for dinner, and the mother-in-law was also very busy and prepared a table of good dishes. The two old men also opened a bottle of good wine and chatted while eating, very happy.
After eating, my father-in-law arranged for Uncle Wang to take a lunch break, and he also went back to his room to rest. But after two hours, my father-in-law found that Uncle Zhao hadn't woken up yet, and his face was not right. Hurry up and wake up your mother-in-law, and when you see that Uncle Wang is wrong, hurry up and send her to the hospital. The doctor checked and said that he had high blood pressure, but fortunately it was delivered in time, and it was no big deal.
This can make my parents-in-law worried. Originally, he kindly invited Uncle Wang to dinner, but it turned out to be the whole thing. Uncle Wang's son rushed to the hospital and complained to his parents-in-law, saying that they knew that Uncle Wang had high blood pressure and let him drink. The injustice in the hearts of the father-in-law and mother-in-law, how do they know that Uncle Wang has this problem!
This matter has passed, but it has left a lesson for my parents-in-law: you have to be really careful when you invite the elderly to come to the house. You have to ask the elderly in advance if there is anything wrong with them, and if there is anything that they can't eat or drink. Also, you have to prepare some emergency medicines, in case there is any emergency, you can deal with it.
Of course, we can't stop inviting the elderly to our home because of this. After all, the elderly like to be lively, and they like to chat and eat with us young people. But we have to be careful, we have to make the elderly happy to eat, talk happily, and keep them safe.
Finally, I want to say yes
Invite the elderly to come to the house for dinner, just like we drive, we have to be careful to sail the boat of ten thousand years. Only in this way can we make the elderly feel our care and warmth, and let them spend a pleasant time. Everyone's right?
Well, that's all for today's sharing, I hope everyone can remember this little lesson and make our gathering safer and more enjoyable!