My name is Lin Yuting, I am 29 years old, and I work as an administrator in an ordinary company. My family background is not wealthy, but it is also passable. I am the only child in my family, and my parents have high expectations for me, hoping that I can have a happy family.
Recently, I participated in a blind date event and met a man who seemed to be good, his name was Liu Yang. He is a sales executive for a small company who has a stable job and is also very caring. We had a nice time meeting and talking, and I had a good impression of him.
During the conversation, I mentioned that I had lived with my ex for two years. I think that in modern society, cohabitation is already a very common phenomenon, and there is nothing to hide. Unexpectedly, Liu Yang's reaction after hearing it surprised me.
His expression became a little embarrassed, even a little angry, and he said, "You have lived with your ex for two years? ”
Hearing this, I felt a sense of loss in my heart and a little angry. I think in this day and age, cohabitation is already commonplace, why is this the reason why I can't get married?
Faced with his attitude, I decided to give up the relationship. I don't want to be around someone who is disrespectful to me. However, this incident also made me doubt my future.
This experience plunged me into deep contemplation. I began to doubt my own worth and doubt my choices. I used to think that as long as the other party treated me sincerely and was willing to accept me, it would be enough. But the reality tells me that there are still many traditions and prejudices in this world.
However, it was this experience that made me more determined in my choice. I will not change myself because of the eyes of others, I will insist on being true to myself. I believe that there is always someone who can truly understand me, accept me, and walk with me through every stage of life.
Perhaps, cohabitation is not something that everyone can accept, but I will not dismiss my choice because of this. I will continue to believe that love is free and that everyone has the right to choose their own way of life. I will continue to find happiness that belongs to me and will not give up my faith in love easily.