There is often a saying: "Time sees people's hearts, and adversity sees true feelings." "It's true that human feelings take a long time to observe and get along with each other before they can really understand.
Many times, when you are in a beautiful moment, the person around you may not be really good to you, but when you need it most, there will be someone who is worthy of your cherishing by your side. It is a priceless emotion, and it is not because of your status or accomplishments, but because of genuine care within you. We need to learn to recognize and cherish the people with whom we share the journey of life.
In this short life, it is not difficult to find someone who is willing to share the glory with you, but it is not easy to find someone who can go through the hardships with you.
When we are in the most difficult moments of our lives, the emotions we build are often more precious.
On ordinary days, it is difficult for us to meet a true soulmate. Often in the journey of life, we strive to explore, try to find those who are worthy of our association.
In my life, I have met so many people and come into contact with too many people. The crowd around me is just as huge.
As an ordinary person, you don't have the same sharp eyes as Sun Wukong, you can only let time screen everything for you and witness your growth process. Feel free to let time take you through every moment, as it will help you grasp those precious moments and leave a lasting impression. Let's face life calmly and believe in the power of time to light your way forward.
Those who have come near you to enjoy the glory, admired your outstanding talents, walked with you and looked with great spirit......
You may not be able to see the true face of some people just yet, but when time takes you to the stage of helplessness, you will naturally see it more clearly.
You should know that those who can go through difficult times together are the most sincere friends.
When we are young, we may be naïve to think that the people we drink and chat with are like-minded people. But as we grow up, we realize that this idea is not true. True like-minded people are people who can pursue the same goal together and take on difficulties and challenges together.
With the passage of time and the accumulation of social experience, you will gradually realize what kind of people are true friends. They will not only share your ups and downs, but they will also give you comfort and help. This is what friends really mean. No matter what difficulties you encounter, only those who truly take care of you and help you truly deserve to be called friends. As the years go by, these people become more and more precious.
Those who can only flatter and slap horses are really the most despicable existence in the circle of friends.
When you are in prosperity and wealth, there will always be some people who will appear by your side, like they will always be with you, like a fixed existence in your circle of friends. These people will become your friends and bring you warmth and support. They have helped you on your way to success and have never left your side.
When you reach the trough, they are the first to break up and flee, for fear of being involved, and for fear that you will reach out to them when you have no way to ask for help. This gives a real insight into their true nature – a lack of guts and courage.
When you get promoted, they will always show respect, praise you with words, and sometimes go out of their way to achieve your request.
When you are in trouble, those who have been obedient to you have betrayed you, attacked you viciously, and slandered you. They are the ones who have fallen into the trap and have repaid good with evil, and it is deeply painful to betray you.
Maybe you've always seen them as true friends, but in fact, when you're at rock bottom, no one is willing to offer you comfort and companionship in this bad moment. This is a reality, and it is not easy to accept.
At night, you may toss and turn, tossing and turning, and seem to be alone. The people who once accompanied you in your glory have left, leaving you alone.
When we are most helpless, we become more sensitive and see more easily what is hidden. We need to recognize this and learn to take advantage of it.
There are often quarrels, disagreements, and contradictions in life, but that doesn't prove that someone isn't worth associating. Life is complex, and we need to look at things from a broader perspective, rather than simply leaving someone out.
Sometimes, friends and loved ones speak the truth because they care about you and want you not to go down a path of no return. So, don't be scared and worried, and listen to their advice that may help you find the right direction.
And those who blindly support and follow often have hidden motives and purposes. Only by focusing on facts and truth can we gain true recognition and support.
Your strengths and usability attract many people to approach. This attraction may be due to your talent, knowledge, charisma, or other strengths. In any case, you should be proud and cherish because these advantages have won you many opportunities and social circles.
It is only when you lose those auras that you can truly recognize who is true and who is hypocritical.
When you are successful, don't judge those around you lightly. Because the aura of glory is easy to make your judgment relatively distorted, there is a certain bias. It is advisable to remain calm, get out of the environment that has nothing to do with success, and evaluate carefully after the fact.
When you are at your most helpless, a person who can stay by your side and comfort you is worthy of your recognition and cherishment.
We will always remember one sentence: adversity sees truth. Only those who spend helpless moments with us are qualified to be called true friends. This is a very important truth, and I hope you will always remember it.
The word "friend" is not just literal, it represents sincere emotions and is not something that any one person can call at will.
To sum up, life, like the life of a flower, is full of ups and downs, and only in these twists and turns can we gradually understand some things and identify real people. We need to go through these changes in order to gain more knowledge and wisdom.