On our wedding night, my wife and I lay in bed, both staring at the ceiling, and we didn't move for a long time.
The story in this article is fictional, please look at it rationally
I took a deep breath to cheer myself up, and although I am thirty-seven years old this year, I have hardly ever had any experience in a relationship.
I turned to the side and looked at the side face of my wife, Liu Tingjiao, who also had a shy and worried look on her face.
Realizing that I was looking at her, she turned her face straight to me, and we both looked at each other for a moment, relatively speechless.
"Xiaohao, take your time, don't be nervous. After a long time, his wife spoke up.
With her words, I was much more relieved and relieved.
Unexpectedly, as soon as I sat up, there was a sharp pain in my back, which soon spread to my whole body, and my upper body fell straight on my wife's body.
My name is Chan Tsz Ho, I am 39 years old, I am a taxi driver, and I have been single since I started working after graduating from university.
Although my parents kept urging me to fall in love and get married, I always refused on the grounds that I was busy with work and didn't have time.
In fact, I've always had a fear of getting along with the opposite sex.
I had a girlfriend in high school, who was also my first love, and we went from high school love to college, and agreed to get married as soon as we graduated from college.
All along, the relationship between the two of us has been out of affection and courtesy, and we never dared to go beyond Lei Chi by half a step.
In my junior year, I secretly went to her city to surprise her, because smartphones were not very developed at that time, and it was difficult to find someone.
In addition, I am a bit introverted, so I don't dare to ask for help, so I can only wait at the gate of their school, hoping that she will see me when she leaves the school.
However, I waited all afternoon, but I did not see her until it was completely dark, and I saw her figure not far away.
I was about to surprise her, but I realized that there seemed to be a man next to her, and I hurriedly hid in the bushes beside her.
I didn't expect the two of them to come this way too, but it was dark at the time, and they were so involved that they didn't notice me at all.
The two entered the grove on the side, and soon began to do indecent things, the man's hands were dishonest, roaming freely over her, and her cheeks were also flirting red.
I was very angry when I saw this scene, and when I thought of my girlfriend who had been in love for many years carrying me behind my back and fighting with others, my facial features and nerves exploded.
I didn't care so much for a while, so I rushed forward and pulled the two of them apart.
The flesh in his mouth was lost, and the man cursed in a low voice, asking, "Who are you?"
"Xiaohao, why are you here, you listen to my explanation, it's not what you think. ”
"What's that? You're both hugging each other, how do you want to explain that?" I yelled at her.
I threw the gift I bought at her, and I was angry and stepped on it a few times, "You are so disgusting, you haven't let me touch it for so many years together, and now you are getting together with someone else." ”
She wanted to say something more, but I didn't want to hear it anymore, so I turned and left.
After experiencing this failed relationship, I closed my heart and never wanted to try a new relationship again, and just like that, it dragged on until I was thirty-six years old.
"Chen Zihao! You are almost forty years old, and others are about to be able to hold their grandchildren at this age! What about you? You have been a bachelor for so many years, because of you, your father and I can't hold our heads up outside, and we are poked and scolded every day!"
"I asked you to find someone to get along with, and every time you said that you were busy with work, how busy can you be as a taxi driver?
Seeing that my mother, who had always been gentle, was really angry this time, I began to think about whether I really had to think about marriage.
"I'll ask your aunt Wang to introduce you to a few blind dates, you have to go to me, and this time you have to bring me one back no matter what. ”
I listened to my mother's words and went on a blind date, anyway, I was looking for someone to live with, and it didn't matter who I was with.
I met a few times in a row, but the other party didn't like me, either because I was too old or because I couldn't speak.
"After so many phases, you don't have one to like?"
"Mom, it's not that I don't like others, it's that people don't like me, Aunt Wang introduced all young girls in their twenties, which little girl would like someone who can be her father at her age?"
"I told you to find a partner early, how can you find a little girl who is not married at your current age, they are all second marriages. ”
I twitched my head, "Then find me a second marriage." ”
"What are you kidding! You have never been married, the first marriage is looking for the first marriage, the second marriage is looking for the second marriage, how can there be a young man who is not married looking for a second married woman?"
I didn't say anything more and ran into the house.
My mother finally stopped for a few days and didn't force me to go on a blind date again.
However, a week later, Aunt Wang came to the door.
"Hao Hao's mother, the young girl I have in my hand has been introduced to Hao Hao, there is really no way, but I still know a girl, who is older than him, forty years old, but she is good-looking and works hard, do you want to see him?"
"If it's bigger, it's bigger, I really can't help it, let Zihao see it." ”
Under my mother's pressure, I went on a blind date again.
"Hello, my name is Chen Zihao, and I am very happy to know you. ”
"Hello, my name is Liu Tingjiao, and I am fortunate to meet you. ”
The two of us looked at each other speechlessly, and the atmosphere was a little awkward for a while, I subconsciously looked around, while Liu Tingjiao lowered her head with a faint flush on her face.
I was the first to speak out to find a topic, and the two of us started chatting slowly.
After some exchange, I had a good impression of this girl, and she seemed to have a good impression of me, and we both added each other's contact information.
When I got home, my mom came to me and asked me how it was.
"It's not bad, it should be possible. ”
That night, I giggled and sent her a WeChat message.
"Jiaojiao, I'm ...... I like you, look at ......."
I didn't say anything more, but I think she should understand.
There was no response over there, and I thought I was rejected.
After a while, she sent a message, "We just met today, if I just say yes, too soon, and I have a secret to tell you, maybe you will change your mind when you know it." ”
"No, what secret, you say?"
"I actually...... Married once, and has a child in high school......"
I was dumbfounded and didn't know how to reply to her.
"You better think about it, love is not child's play, I know you must have a hard time accepting this, I'll go to sleep first. ”
In the days to come, I was struggling all the time, and my mother strongly opposed it when she found out.
"No! I still have a child in my second marriage, absolutely not, what did your aunt introduce to you, I will look for her." ”
I stopped her, "Mom, you also know my age here, and our family doesn't have much money, it's good to meet, anyway, you want me to get married, who to marry or not, you don't want to see me delay for a few more years, that's all." ”
My mom didn't speak, sighed, and acquiesced.
I immediately found Liu Tingjiao and asked her out, and I also brought a bouquet of flowers.
"Jiaojiao, I really like you, I don't care about your past, stay with me, I will make you happy!"
In this way, the two of us got together, and the next year we got married and got a certificate.
As night fell, the guests dispersed, and there were only the two of us left in the new room, and my heart was beating like a drum in anticipation of this beautiful night.
Unexpectedly, as soon as I sat up, there was a sharp pain in my back, which soon spread to my whole body, and my upper body fell straight on my wife's body.
"Zihao!Zihao!What's wrong with you?"
Liu Tingjiao was enjoying it, and seeing that I didn't move, she hurriedly asked.
"I! my body can't move!"
"Where can't I move? Can I still move my waist? What about my legs?" My weight is not light, and at this time, it is pressed on Liu Tingjiao's body, and it is so tight that she can't move at all and can't push me down.
"You see if you can use your strength, I'll lay you down and see if I can slow down. ”
I tried my best, and my wife turned me over so that I could lie flat.
"Don't worry, I'll call someone right away. ”
With that, she picked up her phone and called the emergency number.
By the time the ambulance arrived, I was feeling a little better, but I still couldn't move, so they put me on a stretcher and took me to the hospital.
After an examination, the doctor said, "There is no big problem, it may be due to muscle spasms caused by strenuous exercise or too much cold invasion of the body, go back to rest and rest, press massage frequently, and eat more calcium-containing and vitamin-supplementing foods." ”
"In addition, the patient is not sedentary for a long time, and some have a herniated disc in the lumbar area. ”
When I got home from the hospital, my head bowed, my eyes darkened, and my face full of guilt and self-blame.
"I'm sorry Jiaojiao, this happened to our wedding night. ”
She looked at me with sympathetic eyes, stretched out her hands to take my hand, and patted me comfortingly.
"It's okay, the doctors have said that it's not a serious illness, treat it well, and it will definitely get better. ”
I nodded vigorously, with a smile on my face, and hugged Liu Tingjiao.
In the following days, Liu Tingjiao would accompany me to the hospital every day for examination, rub her hands together in the dead of night to massage me, and pull up her long hair to make me various nutritious meals.
Under her careful care, my illness gradually improved, and through this experience, we found the true meaning of marriage in the ordeal and cherished each other more.
"Zihao, what do you think our lives will be like in the future?"
"I don't know about this, but I know that we will work together to make our lives happier and happier, as long as we understand each other and support each other, any difficulties are not a problem. ”
I took her into my arms and smelled the scent in her hair, and she leaned over and dropped a kiss on my lips.
The story in this article is fictional, please look at it rationally